I get ignored everytime in support room
Hello everyone so I want to share that it is frustrating I got ignored everytime in support room and also member community room is there for lighthearted chat but still some keep doing lighthearted chat in support room also I come here to vent here because I dont have anyone to vent it's a mental health community if no listener accept my request nor reply I see no option than going to support room and venting I dont know what to do maybe I m a garbage or maybe I dont deserve to heal.
Please look into this matter
@Hope @sunisshinninganasoareyou @Glenn @heather225 @power
Thank you.
Hey love!
So people are finally speaking about this, which makes me SO happy. As a former member and even a current listener, the chats are HORRIBLE. They either ignore you or they bash you. It's completely rude and does not help anybody's mindset, I personally apologize on behalf of the people that did that to you. Even if I have nothing to do with it, it's still wrong. Your message is 100000% appreciated. Thank you for speaking out. Because I was too scared to do so tbh.
Much love, Alexandria
@Alexandriabby
Welcome to 7 cups family, I m sorry that happened to you aswell feel free to visit sharing Circle that is great. We are here for you.
Hey! I know this can be frustrating, but I am here for you. Just like many other listeners. Feel free to drop me a message and I'll reply when I can or book a session with me using the link on my account page if you feel you need it. <3
Hi ... I feel the same way you do. And I joined this site about a month ago.. I come here when I feel sad and look for people to chat with and some people listen but that's it ....they don't even ask if your looking for friends or check back the next day..
I am not good with video or phone so I come on here. I am a little disappointed but that's all for now
@motionalcoaster2
I've thought about that - asking another member how X went or whether they're still worried about Y. Sometimes I do go ahead and mention it, but other times I'm worried about bringing it up, so I don't. I worry that it might be a sensitive subject that they were comfortable talking about yesterday, but not today. I don't know. It's not all black and white, I suppose. I hope you'll keep with it in the chat rooms. Before long, you'll start recognizing members, and they'll learn more about you, too.
@motionalcoaster2
Welcome to 7 cups family, I m sorry that happened to you aswell feel free to visit sharing Circle that is great. We are here for you.
I'm so sorry to hear that, and I apologize to you.
And I can understand what happens in the chat rooms, because there is already a group or groups and they talk to each other and that's okay. But it tend to like ignoring or not giving space to new people and that's frustrating. I can understand that.
I think it's better if 7cups can introduce a newbie support chat and lighthearted chat also. And if a listener or any leadership people can create a group chat when specific people needs it (like requesting for a specific chat group through forum or any other way).
But whatever I said not an excuse to you, I'm sorry. But if you want to talk you can message me or any other active listener by browsing 😊 Thank you for sharing your concern/opinion ❤
Hello everybody. It is indeed a rather unpleasant situation. Give new members an opportunity to feel part of the community. I'm new here myself . I also have my problems like all of you. But I don't just come here to talk about mine, but to make new friends and help others.A warm hug to everyone.
@kitty78Kitty
Welcome to 7 cups family, I m sorry that happened to you aswell feel free to visit sharing Circle that is great. We are here for you.
Hi, good evening, thank you very much for the invitation. I will be happy to join the community. all the best to you
Gosh, I'm sorry to hear that, Penny, especially since I thought we were engaging you in the rooms. I remember your name and avatar, and thought you were a valuable presence in the chat rooms. I know that the Sharing Circle is regimented, and that rubs some people the wrong way when they can't get into the queue. It can't be helped, though. I've liked talking to you in the other rooms. So, how can I best include you when I see you around? 😊
@GoldenNest2727. Is anyone online now to chat. Anxiety issues here
@Dman111
Hello, Dman! You can always find a 1-to-1 listener available to chat here https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/
Or you can ask Noni, our bot to hook you up with one. Noni also does mindfulness exercises that help with anxiety.
Or you can go to the support group 24/7 chat room, and find support there. Just let folks know that you need to talk. Most people are incredibly receptive and helpful.
If none of these help, then you might get better answers if you start your topic in the anxiety section of the forum. Hugs to you! I'm glad you're at 7 Cups!
Hmmm. I noticed that, well for me, I think it's the open chat one, the group. I'll be like what are they even talking about. I dont really engaged in there, because I know they will missed that message, so I tend to reply to threads for now... a newbie as well, almost 3wks in..
@KBeauty12 yes! But do visit sharing Circle they are great also welcome to 7 cups family; we are here for you😊
@KBeauty12. Are you there to chat
@communicativePenny8383 are you there now
Yes! I feel you because a lot of the chat leaders seem really rash and are always trying to speed through everything. The minimum is 7 minutes so I think if the member feels the need to go past that then they should be able to. It just doesn’t feel like they care. We all deserve to share. We all deserve to heal.
@braveWillow19, @communicativePenny8383
As a frequent Sharing Circle host, I can state that when there are many people waiting to share, I have to mind the clock and the queue so that everyone has a chance to share equally. Having said that, if no one is waiting to share, I will be very relaxed about the clock and let the person share as long as they need to. Likewise, if someone else is being a troll and/or interrupting, and the Mod is busy elsewhere, I will give the sharer extra time, to make up for the interruptions and disruptive behavior.
As for Penny's original post, I will mention
that I myself have felt ignored often upon arrival. Even saying hello
to the room, I may get ignored. It happens. I know it's hurtful and
not welcoming, and it goes against what this place is supposed to
represent. I wish it were otherwise.
For me I think I will use this for the paths and try to learn that way.