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I dreamt about kissing someone of the same-sex, what does it mean ?

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TheGreyFixer
February 12th, 2016 10:02am
Honestly, we still have no idea what dreams mean. They could be psychic visions or or deepest thoughts or just the brain randomly sparking off as it attempts to deal with the data it was given in the daytime. Most likely, it means nothing. If you have an interest in the same sex it will most likely present itself in ways more obvious than dreams. I wouldn't worry about it too much, either way. You are what you are, and that will become apparent and possibly even shift and change as life goes on. No biggie.
Anonymous
February 15th, 2016 5:40pm
It could mean that u have questions about what will happen in the future of who u r going to date or marry.
Anonymous
May 30th, 2016 4:36pm
It may just be a passing dream that means nothing, but if you are seriously thinking about this dream and want it in real life then you could be bi or gay
tranqq
September 14th, 2016 8:28am
Well, sexuality is very fluid, it could mean nothing, it could mean that you're interested in your own gender, both of which are fine. It's normal.
Anonymous
September 15th, 2016 12:21pm
First of all I have to say: Its just a dream. We often dream things that dont suit up to the reality we live in. It is possible that your dreams catches up with fantasys you opress when you are awake but i wouldn waste to much thoughts on it since its just a dream
Juan17
September 25th, 2016 12:18am
It doesn't have to necessarily mean something. It's a completely normal occurance. If you have been questioning your sexuality lately, then it can also tie into that. Still, It's extremely normal, It's nothing to worry about. :)
2cupsofteaa
September 25th, 2016 7:37pm
It doesn't mean anything unless you feel like it does. Dreams have a way of contorting reality. So unless you do feel attracted to the same-sex months from now, it is highly likely that your dream was just a dream.
Teaandnetflix
September 25th, 2016 7:53pm
It could mean anything from just a silly dream or you're attracted to people of the same gender. Either way it doesn't matter what it means because you don't need to force a label on yourself you like the people you like, regardless of the gender.
TheSolstafir
September 28th, 2016 12:18pm
Many people dream, or even fantasize, about kissing someone of the same sex. Sometimes it means something, other times it doesn't! It could mean you are curious about your sexuality, it could mean you are attracted to people of the same gender, or it may mean nothing at all. It can be helpful to talk about these feelings in order to explore them further.
Anonymous
September 28th, 2016 8:16pm
It might not even mean anything, sometimes dreams like that happen. But if you are a teenager, then it's most likely your brain's way of reminding you that during these few years of puberty and being a teenager, you may start to question your sexuality. But only time will tell.
Anonymous
September 30th, 2016 1:27pm
Not being straight is okay, but did you ever questioned your sexuality or have doubts about being straight?
CalmSoybean
October 1st, 2016 12:13am
Kissing someone of the same sex is actually a common dream! It can mean anything from the closeness you feel for a friend (if it's someone specific), to just a silly manifestation of something you saw earlier in the day!
RaCat
October 5th, 2016 9:00am
It means just what you want this to mean. It doesn't means that you are having attraction to same sex (and if you do, there is nothing bad with this, actually it's kind of awesome!). It could also mean that you are just curious to try it :)
imalovesyou
October 7th, 2016 1:45pm
don't look deep into it. it could mean you're homosexual, pansexual, bisexual or even asexual, but it doesn't matter because dreams are not reality and at the end of the day, even in dreams, love is love
Anonymous
October 7th, 2016 7:52pm
You are either fantasizing about it or you are confused about your sexuality. But in some cases, it doesn't mean a thing. This is nothing to worry about, we explore our sexuality and identity as we grow, we all are a work in progress :)
Anonymous
October 15th, 2016 5:42am
Dreaming about it doesn't necessarily mean anything, regarding your real feelings about it. If you've been attracted to any same-sex individual in your wake time, you may want to look into that.
Anonymous
October 16th, 2016 5:53am
That might mean that you could be either gay or lesbian depending on your gender. You always have time to figure out how you are.
Anonymous
November 10th, 2016 3:20am
A dream can mean anything, but if you're questioning your sexuality, keep an open mind so you can discover your true self without anyone's opinion stopping you.
cloudystarlight
November 20th, 2016 9:41am
In my experience this doesn't have to mean anything. Even when you /consciously/ imagine kissing someone of the same gender, it doesn't automatically mean you're gay. It's perfectly normal for your mind to explore different types of situations and interactions, even if it's just for curiosity's sake.
Anonymous
November 30th, 2016 10:44pm
It means whatever you want it to mean. You could be attracted to the same sex, or it could just be you subconscious mind being a weirdo. If you are attracted to the same-sex, then good for you! But I wouldn't place too much importance on dreams; often they're not as important as people think they are, and they rarely mean what you think they mean.
insightfulSun91
January 21st, 2017 10:06am
There is nothing wrong with that, dreams can mean many different things and sometimes no one knows why the dreamt something they did, but it's nothing to worry about, and I wouldn't worry to much about it either!
Anonymous
January 25th, 2017 1:31am
You may just be curious or attracted to the same sex. But that does not mean that you must be gay. You could be attracted to the same sex but not sexual with them
caligulamAquarius
November 17th, 2017 3:25pm
It may mean that you are just expiriencing intrigue towards the same sex. It does not mean you are gay/bisexual, neccesarily. Many teens expirience this. It is completely normal.
Anonymous
November 5th, 2017 12:35pm
Thank you for sharing this with me! I think I should start off by saying this is very common in today Society a lot of people dream about fantasies of all kinds! Kissing someone of the same sex would basically fall into that same category! So basically you are not the only one to dream these thoughts! When human beings are born they are all created the same and one of the things you are born with is curiosity! So basically your mind is wandering with curiosity and to answer your question what does it mean? Nothing at all! The thing is sometimes people are afraid of things they do not understand when in fact there is nothing to be afraid of! Society tries to tell us that there are rules and regulations about things you can and cannot do but in the end we are all put on this Earth with curiosity and to live life to the fullest! The basic rules are if you are not hurting yourself or someone else there is nothing wrong with it! you have this dream and you are curious to pursue your dream! Then it is normal! If you do not like your dream it is also normal!
sophieishere
November 10th, 2017 1:56pm
Maybe this is your mind trying to tell you that you are curious as to what it feels like to be with the same-sex? It is nothing our the ordinary or anything weird. Maybe you should sit down and think if you have ever felt as though you have an attraction to the opposite sex and see if you feel as though you would like to act upon this?
Anonymous
November 15th, 2017 4:23pm
It could mean a variety if different things. Sometimes dreams don't always resemble real life situations and you don't always need to worry about what goes on in them.
Cryptidchild
November 22nd, 2017 8:03pm
I personally don't think that dreams mean anything, if you're not bothered by that dream then I don't see any problem here.
creativeLeo281116
November 23rd, 2017 5:38pm
It may mean that you are attracted to someone and that you may be LGBT and that doesn't mean that you're definitely gay or lesbian it's a spectrum and it may mean that you are a different part of LGBT and that is perfectly okay
Anonymous
October 19th, 2017 6:33am
This could mean nothing, but it could also mean you're attracted to the same-sex. This isn't wrong or weird, it's completely normal. If you want you can do some research on the lgbt+ community and maybe you are a part of it. Don't stress about putting a label on yourself right now, there are so many factors to this. Start by just researching and exploring.
Rebecca03
November 19th, 2017 8:19pm
What that means from my perspective is, that you're maybe questioning your sexuality and you could possibly be curious about finding yourself.