My life was close to perfect, then we moved and I lost all my friends and I can't make any where I live now because people are a lot different, because of this Ive been really lost. what should I do?
Last Updated: 08/10/2020 at 6:16am
Kajsa Futrell, RTC
I specialise in respectfully helping people navigate their way through trauma and relationship issues. The adversities in our life can actually transform us.
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Explore your surroundings. New things always comes with instructions and manuals. Learn how to work the land. When you come in contact with people you would like to be friends with ask what their hobbies or interest are. Eventually you’ll find people with the same intent and interest. Live for yourself not others. There is no need to change you.
Moving and starting over are really difficult but in time you might find out that there are people that you like in the new place.
What you should do is not worry about how perfect your life is, there is no such thing as a perfect life and you need to take that word out and put the word in that all you need to do for yourself is to exist with the people around you. Now this does not mean that this is going to be easy. But put yourself in a place where nothing can stop you in the end here. Focus on the good things around you and watch the miracles unfold around your world. I mean never give up on the things that are coming for you. Live your life of full of wonder and beautiful things to come for you.
Starting over in a new place is always difficult. You’re in a completely new place with new people and it often feels overwhelming. I can understand why you’re feeling the way you are. I would say you just need to hang in there. You might need to put in extra efforts in this new place, take initiative and then with time, I’m sure you’ll be able to find people you click with. You might find yourself having to step out of your comfort zone. Doing new things, starting a conversation on your own. Your life will not be like it was earlier but it can definitely still be just as good.
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