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What does it mean to be Queer?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 4, 2016
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The definition of Queer is 'different'. These days, however, it is usually used to describe a LGBT+ member.
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Profile: PeacefulFlute74
PeacefulFlute74 on Jun 22, 2016
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Technically, it means this: 1) An umbrella term sometimes used by LGBTQA people to refer to the entire LGBT community. 2) An alternative that some people use to "queer" the idea of the labels and categories such as lesbian, gay, bisexual, etc. Similar to the concept of genderqueer. It is important to note that the word queer is an in-group term, and a word that can be considered offensive to some people, depending on their generation, geographic location, and relationship with the word. Personally, I think it is important to ask someone what they mean by queer if they are identifying that way in order to be sure you don't misunderstand them.
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Anonymous on Jul 20, 2016
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Being queer is another term for having an attraction to your own gender , so being gay. There is nothing wrong with this.
Profile: MissMonMon
MissMonMon on Aug 20, 2016
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By definition, queer is an umbrella term for sexual and gender minorities who do not identify as cisgender or heteronormative. To identify as queer generally means to reject traditional gender identities and seek a broader, less conformist, and deliberately ambiguous alternative to the label LGBT.
Profile: maddy0908
maddy0908 on Aug 7, 2016
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If a person is queer, it means that they are either not heterosexual, or they do not conform to the gender binary. Some people may choose to label their sexuality as simply 'queer' if they don't wish to use a more specific label.
Profile: Other
Other on Aug 8, 2016
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It means that you are who you are and you shouldn't let the world bend or opress you. It means you are You.
Profile: AutumnLeigh
AutumnLeigh on Jun 29, 2016
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Queer was once a word that was used to identify gay men in a dishonorable fashion. But like words such as 'black' or 'colored', it now is used in a positive fashion to identify yourself as a gender that is not hetero. The world HAS moved on and being not of a hetero fashion is more and more accepted as a positive notation that a queer person is part of a growing number of other types of sexuality. As a current asexual person, I would no longer feel out of place being called 'queer'. I happily join others who embrace their sexuality and try to find a positive life within our identities!
Profile: WonderousCandy
WonderousCandy on Jul 22, 2016
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Queer can mean anything: Homosexual, transsexual, bisexual, pansexual. It's what you want it to mean.
Profile: Gracey
Gracey on Apr 25, 2018
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Queer is a term that is used to describe people who identify as something other than heterosexual (straight) or cisgender (the gender you were assigned at birth)
Profile: delightfulOasis62
delightfulOasis62 on Jun 30, 2016
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"Queer" is an umbrella word. It means you're not cisgender, so you're gender is not fully "girl" nor "boy", so basically "genderqueer". Some people also use it when they are talking about their sexuality, when they are not straight.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 21, 2016
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Being queer means different things to everyone, including me. I'm a pansexual agender and proud of it and being queer makes me feel like I'm accepted for who I am, rather than who I'm not.
Profile: enigmaticMoment64
enigmaticMoment64 on Jul 1, 2016
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Queer is an umbrella term in the LGBTQ community. Because of that describes all kinds of different "non-standard" identities and orientations that fall out of the norm of usually cis-gendered and heterosexual people. It describes a whole range of different experiences and it will mean different things to different people. So when it comes to what it MEANS to be queer, then it simply means that some (or multiple) of the terms used as a standard - be it heterosexual, male, female are not enough to describe you.
Profile: Supergirl94
Supergirl94 on Aug 10, 2016
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To be strange or odd. To be different than others at least depending on your definition of different or normal. Or by LGBT definition, An umbrella term sometimes used by LGBTQA people to refer to the entire LGBT community. An alternative that some people use to "queer" the idea of the labels and categories such as lesbian, gay, bisexual, etc. Similar to the concept of genderqueer. It is important to note that the word queer is an in-group term, and a word that can be considered offensive to some people, depending on their generation, geographic location, and relationship with the word.
Profile: purplesocks
purplesocks on Apr 12, 2017
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Queer is an umbrella term used by the LGBT+ community meaning (as defined by merriam webster) -denoting or relating to a sexual or gender identity that does not correspond to established ideas of sexuality and gender, especially heterosexual norms Some of us within the LGBT+ community prefer to use the term queer and some don't. It's more of a term of personal preference.
Profile: ArtofthePhoenix
ArtofthePhoenix on Apr 5, 2018
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It means that you simply do not fit into society's preconfigured archetypes of sexual behavior that some assume is "right". Aren't we all a little queer?
Profile: HttpSprinkle
HttpSprinkle on Jul 7, 2016
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To be queer can mean a variety of things. To many it's more of an umbrella term rather than a specific sexuality. It can mean gender queer too! If you are not heterosexual , hetero romantic and cisgenger, then you are queer!
Profile: cryingkoalas
cryingkoalas on Aug 19, 2016
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Queer just means that you're part of the LGBTQ+ community, If you identify with any sexuality on this spectrum you can call yourself Queer. (:
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 2, 2018
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Queer is an umbrella term for all sexualities and genders. You can identify as anything you feel, and it's up to you to determine your feelings
Profile: proudFlower06
proudFlower06 on Feb 2, 2018
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To be queer is to identify as something other than straight or cis-gendered. This includes anything in between the binaries.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 30, 2018
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Queer means you are naturally attracted to thr same sex, or it could mean, you are naturally attracted to anything outside of the society's norm for relationships.
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