Anonymous
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Mar 10, 2015
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I have a lot of feelings about other girls. Not necessarily sexy feelings, but I feel much more romantically attracted to them.
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Anonymous
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Jun 8, 2015
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You're gay because that's the way you born. That's who you are, there is no other answer. You're not sick nor a demon is inside you.
blue09
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Jun 1, 2016
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There is nothing, listen to me, NOTHING wrong with being gay. Some people like fish, other like meat, and other like both. You are a fish who loves fish as well and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You are gay because you are human and unique. You are gay because you have feelings and a mind that tells you what matches your personallity better. You are gay because you are yourself. Being gay, straight, trans, whatever, is beautiful. You are beautiful
Anonymous
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May 13, 2016
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There's no real reason. It sounds like you're feeling guilt about it. Don't. It's perfectly okay to like the same sex.
Keeplookinup
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May 25, 2016
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There isn't really an answer to that. It more got to do with how you were born. Its a prefrence you can't control.
MKDavis
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Jun 15, 2016
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Because it is natural and is simply the way you were born. It is normal and people these days are more accepting than ever to homosexuals, if that is what you are concerned about.
PeacefulFlute74
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Jun 23, 2016
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You are gay because you were born that way. The same reason people are straight. They were born that way.
WingedGiraffe
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Jul 2, 2016
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From religion to evolution there are many different theories on why someone is gay. They often go with either what a deity has said or nature versus nurture. Whatever you believe, it is not wrong to be gay. There are many people in the world who are gay and they are very important to society. Don't change yourself for anyone.
Anonymous
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Jul 4, 2016
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Making this question is the same as asking why do I have brown eyes? well, it's really simple. It's just who you are. maybe it's not what you'd choose. but some choices are not up to us to make. and being gay is one of them. you're just born like that and there's nothing wrong with you. the only wrong thing are people who try to make you feel different and uncomfortable with that. so just feel free to be yourself and don't let anyone push or force you to be someone you're actually not. you love yourself more than anyone so the only one that cares about it is you. say it out loud: "I AM GAY!" and be proud of it...
Aayla
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Aug 12, 2019
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Because you were born like this. Orientations are something innate and natural, as science has confirmed. You simply have a different way of loving and finding happiness, but you too have this chance!
kindheartedSky78
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Apr 13, 2015
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This is a very difficult question you are asking but I can tell that it bothers you to want some answers. Everyone is different. I am wondering if you could answer the question? Why is it you feel that you are gay?
pedicator
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May 10, 2015
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It's important to remember that no matter what you might hear, or what other people might tell you, a person never chooses to be gay, or straight, or bisexual, or anything else. These are things which are determined before we are born and can't be controlled. Realising you might be LGBTQIA is a scary time, but there are people out there who love you just the way you are and want you to love yourself too. I might not be able to tell you why you're gay, but I can tell you that it's nothing to be ashamed of and that I love you just for being you.
theoceansblue
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Jun 22, 2015
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Your gay because that's just who you are. There's absolutely nothing wrong with someone's sexuality. You were born gay, and that's that.
Lior
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Jun 26, 2015
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Some would say you are born gay, some would say it's a environmental effect. Either way, you are fabulous as you are, and there's nothing wrong with being gay. A lot of researchers try to find the answer to this question. "Why some people are gay?", there many assumptions, non has been fully proven yet.
Itsacrazylifewelive
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Jul 11, 2015
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Because it's just what you are. You were born this way baby! :)
Probius
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Nov 2, 2015
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You are gay because you were born this way. We are all born with a sexual orientation. Some are born straight, and some are born gay. Neither of these orientations is any better or any worse than the other.
birdwatcher444
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Dec 21, 2015
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Well, there isn't any real answer, but I'm gay too, and I think it has to do with personalities and who we feel connected with. Being gay isn't a bad thing, it's just who you are. You should embrace it and be proud of it. :) Best of luck!
Reddy
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Feb 8, 2016
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The same reason someone who is straight happens to be straight. You're part of the beautiful diverse tapestry of life. Just Be who you are meant to Be.
PaperSparrow
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Feb 16, 2016
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It's not about what I chose I want to be, it is and always has been about loving the person with all I have, no matter what sex they are.
ashbradbury42
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Feb 22, 2016
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You were born that way. And it's totally fine. If you are having trouble accepting yourself, you'll get there eventually.
