Why do bad things happen to me? I've never been a 'bad kid'.
ToFollowThatStar
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Jun 11, 2015
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It really sucks that bad things happen to good people. I've gone through episodes where I've been rejected by girls, teachers, judges at auditions... and it just makes you feel like you're worthless. Like maybe if this happens so often... you probably deserve it. And that's not true. Shakespeare's Julius Caesar has a quote:
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izza
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Feb 12, 2015
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First of all I am sorry that bad things happen to you ,you don't deserve it. No one does, not even a "bad kid" deserves these things happening to them. I think that it is fair to say that regardless of whom you are as a person and what you offer to the world, if a bad thing does happen to you in the end it only makes you stronger, yes we shouldn't want bad things happening to us but we also shouldn't have this attitude in which we question why. Questioning and saying "why me?" forces you to dwell on this and puts you down, this energy can be used and channelled to work on coping and recovering from these bad things. After all that's the most important thing, moving forward.
friendlyDeer
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Nov 8, 2015
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Expecting life to treat you right because you’re a good person,is like expecting a tiger not to kill you because you’re a vegeterian
Br33zyS3tz
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Jul 29, 2015
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Sometimes life has a mysterious way of delivering us with instances, with circumstances, with life situations which we cannot even expect, which we may not deserve; it takes courage and persistence to continue forward, to push past boundaries and troubling time, stress and negativity. Its important to remain faithful and true, to believe in yourself, to take initiative and be willing to push past unfortunate events; what happens in life does not define us, what defines us is how we progress forward, how we learn, how we grow and continue to live.
Anonymous
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Feb 16, 2015
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Sometimes bad things happen to people. It doesn't mean you are a bad person, the way you react to that bad thing determines that.
blissfulAngel
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Apr 11, 2015
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These "bad things" are here to make you stronger.You have to learn from them and fight through them!
Anonymous
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Apr 19, 2015
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it depends your situation and also those people who are involved to make it bad to you . i hope this helps to answer your question.
Ansley
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May 16, 2015
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Life is not subjective, my friend - circumstances don't mind whether or not you're playing by the rules. I'm so sorry you're having bad stuff happen to you, though, and I hope things get better for you soon. We're always here to talk to.
Anonymous
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Nov 27, 2015
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Bad things will always happen to good people, but this is what makes good people great. A flower has to grow through dirt before it blooms.
Greatlistener87
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Mar 21, 2016
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Bad things happens to most people. The idea is to turn that bad things around to make it as a lesson and never letting it happen again if possible. And if it does happen again then you know that you have more to learn and keep moving forward.
ForeverFlaming
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Dec 7, 2015
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They say: "Bad things happen to good people". And for a reason.
You might be the most nicest and amazing person there is, yet get hurt, you could be the bully and still get hurt.
But you get hurt for 2 things.
To live and learn.
Accept it as it is, learn from that bad thing and you'll see how much you experienced.
Who knows, maybe when your older you'd be wiser and know how to live life. ;)
peacefulFlower94
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Jun 14, 2016
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Sometimes life is very cruel! You're not being punished. Life sometimes tests us, keep fighting and be strong :)
Anonymous
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Jun 29, 2015
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Just because you aren't a bad kid doesn't mean bad things won't happen to you. Everyone deals with something. No matter how big or small the problem is. We all deal with things differently. So bad things might be happening to you because your always caught up in the wrong time and place. Just think before you do and try to thing positive about your surroundings.
bubblingLove76
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Sep 15, 2015
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Good and bad things happen to everyone. It is helpful to practice gratitude for the good things which in turn lessens the quantity and impact of the bad things.
Anonymous
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Oct 27, 2015
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Bad things happen to everyone. No matter if your the nicest person in the world or insanely evil, bad things are going to happen.
Scrump
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Dec 8, 2015
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Bad things always happen to everyone. Even if I tried my best, there's no guarantee that things will go the way I want. The things is, bad things make you a stronger person. You learnt how hard it is to deal with bad things, and when you pass through it, it's like you leveled up! :)
Anonymous
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Jun 14, 2016
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The truth is nobody is good or bad. Life doesn't care your background or gender or ethnicity. It only cares about challenging you at your lowest time. It's a test and you will pass this test.
CopperSkies
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Aug 9, 2016
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'Bad things' (along with 'bad people') don't actually exist. It all comes down to how you react to a certain situation or person.
avanef
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Feb 6, 2017
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Bad things are just inevitable in life. Oddly enough, you could be the angle of the family or a perfect person but those things just happen sometimes. I always told myself, the good has to outweigh the bad and vice versa. So, you might have some bad moments in your life or bad things happen, but good things and good moments come back too. They balance each other out, I just don't know how or why, something I guess the universe only knows.
Realdealfeels
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Jan 16, 2018
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Bad things happen to the best of people, it’s hard and unfair, but it is a part of life. We need to learn how to grow and come out of these challenges stronger then we went in.
