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Shirley7Cups

Connoisseur 9
Listens to Teens & Over 18
in last week
Notes: NOT taking any relationship problem and sexual chatsThank you for reading my profileMy Online Schedule (ET) Friday: 7pm to 12:00am  Saturday: 1:00am to 9am and 7:00pm to 9:00pm  You can use https://shirley7cups.youcanbook.me to schedule a time with meMy Online State When I am online, I am available to take member chats. When I am busy, I am on 7cups but I am doing other things. You can leave me a message, and I will respond to you as soon as possible. When I am offline, I am not on 7cups. You can leave me a message, and I will respond to you when I come back to 7cups.Chatting Style During an hour chat, I'm here to listen and support you, yet I can't provide you any advice. After the chat, we can set up a time to talk again.I only talk with a member at the same time, so when I'm talking with a member, other members have to wait me or set up a time to talk.  English isn't my first language, and I'm not really good at English, so I have some grammar mistakes and a little bit meaning mistakes. Maybe I delay responding to you because I need to check the dictionary if I don't know those words. My first language is Cantonese, and I also speak Mandarin, Taiwanese and English, and I type Chinese and English. If you are a Chinese speaker, feel free to message me.Chatting Topic Anxiety Bipolar Bullying Christian Spirituality Depression Domestic Violence General Mental Health Loneliness Managing Emotions Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Panic Attacks PTSD/Trauma Self-Esteem Self-Harm Sleeping Well Social Anxiety Student LifeIf your topic that you want to talk with me is without this list, that means I do not have experiences about the topic. Please seek for other listeners' support. Thank you for understanding. Useful online resources(24/7) 1. If you are suicidal, having suicial thoughts, currently self-harming, or in any crisis situations, please click www.imalive.org to seek support.  2. If you are suffering abuse, please click www.rainn.org to seek support.  3. If you are suffering abuse in military, please click safehelpline.org to seek support 4. If you are 11-35 years old, in Hong Kong and in crisis, please click www.openup.hk to seek supportMy Role 1. Adult-Teen Listener - No matter who you are, feel free to message me when you need support.  2. Peer Supporter - After trigger chats, I am able to support you.  3. Verifier - If you want to get verified listener badge, feel free to message me, and I can help you to get the badge. 4. Translator and Chinese Team Leader - I am helping 7cups to translate Chinese and leading Chinese team.  5. Adult Listener Discussion Leader - I hold group discussions in adult listener room 6. Safety Patrol Team Member -- If you see any profile has to be flagged, feel free to pm me or use https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeGECC4E9NeQzQp2Skspwu6VQBJfMYB2Ag-Btm93DN5w0vh8A/viewform to flag themMy Favourite Songs 1. God Will Make A Way https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsMAXhc0QTs 2. I Can Only Imagine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZNDEyxEMNp0About Me   I am Shirley, an active listener in 7cups, a Christian, an 18 years old girl, who comes from Hong Kong. I am diagnosed with Depression, Autism Spectrum Disorder and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), so I have direct experiences about those situation. In fact, I'm not good at relationship, for I am diagnosed with ASD, so I have some communication barriers. I had self-harmed in 2016-2017, so I can help you with how to cope with this problem. Otherwise, I am suffering with depression, so I am finding some coping methods. Also, my mum is diagnosed with Schizophrenia and Bipolar, so I know a little bit knowledge about it. This is my personal experience and my coping methods about depression: https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupportCommunity_52/DepressionGeneralthreads_30/BECAREFULTOCLICKINLONGPOSTMyDepressionExperience_223473/1/ My electives at school are Biology, Chemistry, and Mathematics. My hobbies are shooting of air gun, travelling bus, watching birds, Biology and Mathematics. Feel free to talk with me those topics if you want! In fact, I have a male tortoise who is called stupid(死蠢) at home, and it is a really crazy thing that he is my mum, so my mum is stupid haha(You can imagine what I look like haha). This is my tortoise: https://imgur.com/a/H45Aqnp If you read to here, I am so appreciate your attention
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606
Hong Kong

BibinV

Guru 2
Listens to Over 18
in last week
Do you need someone to talk with?.....then you have come to the right place....my name is Bibin and i am here for you to guide you through your difficult path...You are free to share your things with me 😊
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1086
India

Dhruva0707

Virtuoso 5
Listens to Over 18
in last week
Hello, my name is Dhruv, I am a verified listener here.  I'm here to just lend an ear, help you vent your thoughts, or offer a shoulder Regardless of your name, age, weight, height, personality, history or nation,CHILL and LET CHILL I promise to maintain confidentiality, never to mention any of our conversations to anyone.  Thanks to past personal experience I can better relate to problems like: breakups, bullying, anxiety and addiction. :) I have two of the best mentors ever. their links are as follows: https://www.7cups.com/@Belle and   https://www.7cups.com/@Sventek thanks everyone!
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2711
India

TiaraLovesJaunsta

Advanced 6
Listens to Over 18
in last week
 Verified Listener  Hello everyone! Listening has great power to heal and I'm here to listen to you.   I'm all ears to what you have to say. I've myself been going through a tough phase of life but I realized I'm much better today because my QPP played a vital role by listening to me.Listening can do miracles. Speak out, let yourself be heard. I'm here for you.***Please mention before talking about sexual issues. (Not taking sexual issues at the moment) ***I can listen and talk to you as a friend and supporter but casual gossip requests and random friendship requests won't be entertained. Together let's make this world a better place and share the love.   
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399
India

jaykay472

Explorer 10
Listens to Over 18
in last week
I'm 72 years old and have experienced a lot.  People tell me I help them by sharing my experiences and what I have learned from them. I am currently focusing on learning to support COVID-19 issues. I am generally available 14:00 GMT to 16:00 GMT and 20:00 GMT to 21:00 GMT.  Appointments are accepted.  And if our chat helps you some, please leave a review.  It encourages other Members. Diagnosed with depression, PTSD from the military, anxiety, and bipolar. Had a massive heart attack requiring 3 stents.  I take 9 prescription and 3 over-the-counter meds daily.  It took 3 years for them to get the mixture right. I teach kids to play chess in my spare time..  I love music and have over 1,000 songs on my phone. I've learned life is what it is and all failure is a failure to adapt.
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342
United States

RiverHudson1

Proficient 10
Listens to To Teens
in last week
"Listen to understand rather than listen to respond."***Leave me a message and I will get back to you so that we can set up a time to talk. I look forward to hearing from you!***Hey guys, my name is River! I am a soldier in a constant war, but I can say with certainty that I'm winning. I'm an Aquarius sun-Scorpio moon (for those of you who don't know what that entails, it means I'm argumentative but also very open-minded!). I am also an ISTP-A and primarily a Type 8: The Challenger, though I'm not nearly as scary as that sounds.  I love to read about the human mind, random facts, mental illnesses and how to manage them. I also write pretty much anything. I draw well, too, but usually mess my drawings up when I try to add colour. I'm a huge fan of rock music; you'll find me dancing to Green Day or Marianas Trench at 4 am. I like to cook as well, and I make a killer salad. The trick is orange and lemon juice as a dressing (citrus yum). I want to go into experimental and/or forensic psychology and perhaps neuroscience or criminology! As you can see, I still have much thought to give it.  I watch Supernatural (“A wise man once told me, ‘family don’t end in blood.’ But it doesn’t start there either. Family cares about you, not what you can do for them. Family’s there; for the good, bad, all of it. They got your back, even when it hurts.”), The Big Bang Theory (Bazinga!), and Criminal Minds (Hotch and Blake are my favourite). I have Bipolar Disorder which is like an unwanted rollercoaster ride and Asperger's Syndrome, this means I'm a genius hah. I also have Synesthesia—basically means that I have some werid wiring in my brain and I connect certain things to other certain things instinctively—not as much a diagnosis as a superpower! This means that I feel the same physical sensations as other people do (mirror-touch), and I see people as colours (personality-colour). This being said, it might not sound so weird when I say that I like green, purple, and orange people!My Roles:Verified Listener - I have been verified by the 7Cups community based on quality active listening skills. Peer Support - I am trained to support listeners after an upsetting, stressful, or triggering chat.Discussion Leader - I host weekly discussions on different topics. Feel free to drop by!Safety Patrol Team - I help keep 7Cups a safe place for everyone.DJ team - I am a member of the DJ team. Join us during a music therapy session to rock out with everyone!Come Join Us! (times are in Eastern Standard)Monday: Teen Listener Discussion - 4-5pm Wednesday: Sharing Circle - 1-2pm Thursday: Sharing Circle - 9-10am / Self-Harm Recovery - 10-11pm Friday: Sharing Circle - 9-10am / GTKY - 2-3pm Saturday: Sharing Circle - 9-10am / Icebreakers & Games - 4-5pm Sunday: Sharing Circle - 1-2pm People who are important to me:mykenziemarie03: Kenz is both an amazing listener and astounding friend! She is highly empathetic which shows in every aspect of her life, be that her listening, her frienships, or her relationships. She loves being overprotective of others. I'll let you in on a secret: she likes to think she's tough but I can vouch for the fact that she is a major softie. Icicle0212: Van is hilarious and lighthearted, but is so incredibly caring that he surprises me sometimes with his endless wisdom. He's open-minded, and much more of a lover than a fighter! greenfox3456: Benji is a close friend of mine; always thoughtful of others and very welcoming! He was one of the first people on 7cups who made me feel like part of the community, and I can never thank him enough, though I do try by giving him oreos and skittles. Sydney113: SydnEy has a very positive and loving energy that follows her into whatever room she enters. She's very lovable and the kindest person I have ever met! I don't even feel that bad when she steals my chips.  ~ And a quick shoutout to my mentors @hopedreamlove and @24Help1! ~***Feel free to text me about anything, I can hold a conversation pretty well (especially if it's about shrimp)***
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897
Canada

Aylex

Marvel 7
Listens to Over 18
in last week
 I'm here for anything you want to talk about! I don't have any limits about topics, but am not very good with disability, career, financial (like at all) and anxiety issues. I am also happy with casual conversations or to keep you company. My chat style: I'm as open minded and honest (too much for some) as it gets. I don't want to feed anyone lies or fake validation. I try my best to understand everything and prefer a friendlier approach than most listeners. I won't disappear mid chat and will reply as fast as possible. I am also quite talkative, so you can feel free to ask me anything!✰Don't be afraid to message me anytime even offline about anything, I am very open and friendly! About me: My name is Alex(is), I'm just a guy (yeah I know I really look like a girl am not trans, I was born like that and like it) that loves helping and talking to people. I study medicine and work part time as a nurse. I love playing the violin and I've been doing gymnastics for years now. I like to paint, cook, design clothes, travel the world and I'm really into horror movies/TV shows. I also have only ever loved one person my whole life, my beloved husband.Things I have experience in: relationships/people, depression, alcohol and drug addiction, violence, managing emotions, narcissism, guilt, LGBT, kinks, incest, night terrors, anger issues and work/college issues. ✰I am fine with sexual, taboo and embarrassing topics as well, and won't judge you.   
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5159
United States

coolj9

Pinnacle 13
Listens to Over 18
in last week
Hi! I can't promise to solve your problems, but I promise to make a positive difference :)
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10006
India
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Halayma Khatun

HalaymaKhatunDiplomaCounselor
Counselor, M.A Theology(U.K, UAE), Diploma With Distinction in Counseling
Compassionate, patient, experienced depression counselor. I use Psychodynamic counseling techniques. My counseling experience is +8 years, I counsel women.
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United Kingdom

CommunityModJennie

Proficient 7
Listens to Teens & Over 18
in last week
Hi! My name is Jennie and I am a Community moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats. 
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277
United Kingdom

Sonyaa007

Discoverer 6
Listens to Over 18
in last week
Hi! ; ) \(^_^)/ I would love to hear from you about anything u want to talk about :) .. i have been through a set of problems myself.. i wish i knew of 7 cups back then.. but now i m here to listen to you.. do take advantage.. :D I believe that most people know what they have to do .. its only that you need someone who will listen to you.. help you sort your own thoughts .. v go through a lot of things alone... things u cannot tell anyone or sometimes because there seems to be no one whom you can tell it to.. Well.. i want to know each and everything that you want to and can tell me .. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Why me? I promise you i listen to you without any judgements ..i dont know u, u dont know me ... u can spill out all sorts of crap here .. ur secrets stay with me only ; ) If you do not find me comfortable to talk to.. its fine.. not all listeners might b right for u.. if so .. do not give up and please connect to another listener and give me a feedback too.. : ) I appreciate good ratings if i am helpful! ^_^ Connect with me if i m online and if not .. with any of the listeners available.. : ) ... you may text me if i m offline as well .. i will get back to you as soon as possible.. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- About me.. I m a female who loves life, adventure, tries new things, getting over old things and starting over and helping people.. : ) I try to see thing from different perspectives and i love to keep learning whatever i can.... -University student -Music lover < 3 -Engineer -Water sports <3 I do not prefer topics related to sex, nor m i interested in sexting or flirting .. i listen to genuine problems.. so please do not force me to block you! Thankyou : )
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374
United Arab Emirates

peacefulKendra

Marvel 3
Listens to Over 18
in last week
I'm a feminist, cognitive neuroscientist and lover of books and the arts..I also love to give and receive love and compassion, so know that I'm here for you!          
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4410
United Arab Emirates

MikeMadrid

Epitome 19
Listens to Over 18
in last week
Hi, I don't mind what it is you're going through.. it might seem quite small, or horribly big... I will try to understand, and hopefully be able to help.  
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18550
Spain