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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

NewYorker11
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i am available on weekends for member chats! i enjoy chatting with new people and i hope that i can take your chat sometime soon! best regards!
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tommy
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hi, i'm tommy. •────────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•────────────• a little bit about me   i'm an early 20s career driven, lowercase obsessed and 7 cups enthusiast from england. i am most passionate about creating a safe and inclusive space for people to express themselves. unfortunately, i am not taking on member chat requests right now. please connect with another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] 🎈 •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────• my roles @ 7 cups ambassador as communities/forum ambassador, i oversee leadership applications [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SubcommunitiesInformation_2314/UpdatedSubcommunityTrackLeadershipRolesMasterpost2023_289838/], engagement and moderation across the forums. do you need an update on your application or have you got a question about using the forums? drop me a message! safety patrol team leader i help co-lead the safety patrol and safety patrol outreach teams. let me know if you see an inappropriate profile or would like info on joining the team! misc i am also involved in several other projects across the site, so please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions! •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────•
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ComradeRuhi
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🍒 Comrade Ruhi 🍒 ฅ՞•ﻌ•՞ฅ 💬 hello there! Welcome to Ruhi's Listener page! II Marketing Student II 19 II Poetry Community Mentor II Verified Active Listener II Academy Mentor : QLP  NOTE: Currently I am NOT receiving new member or listener requests! You can find me in the Poetry Forum Community or Fulfilling Academy Mentor Tasks for the Quality Listening Program. Trainees and community members can feel free to message me!  - Please browse for listeners through the home page.  About Me  *Sending a poorly coordinated virtual high-five* I'm Ruhi! Your comrade (No political connotations ❤️ ) . I too am facing a lot of battles and have been fighting through them. We all are in this together.... so it makes us all comrades, no? We will surely get through our troubles - as a team.  At 7Cups I offer up my support and encouragement through the following roles 1. Quality Listening Program Mentor  I send reminders to trainees to submit their trial-end forms at the end of their two week trial in the Quality Listening Program. I also provide general assistance and support to new trainees embarking on their training for the QLP.  2. Community Mentor (Poetry Community)  I write my own poems and try my best to encourage and dedicate time to fostering togetherness and positivity in the Poetry Sub-community.  A special thank you to listener @Rebekah, for permitting me to use a linktree to share with you all my writings that I contribute to the poetry community! Lots of love to you!  https://linktr.ee/ruhwrites [https://linktr.ee/ruhwrites] https://www.7cups.com/forum/poetry/ 3. Verified Active Listener ~ Members and Listeners  I am no longer as active in listener or member chats. I am not able to dedicate as much time as I once could. I miss all the chats I was fond of, but no longer have the same ability to provide long and dedicated time towards chats as I once could.  ------ Languages: ---------  Mastery - Clownery 🤡 Proficiency - English  Conversational - Bangla, Spanish  Limited Elementary Comprehension - Hindi, Urdu   ⋆。゚☁︎。⋆。 ゚☾ ゚。⋆⋆。゚☁︎。⋆。 ゚☾ ゚。⋆Ruhi's Note...  ⋆。゚☁︎。⋆。 ゚☾ ゚。⋆⋆。゚☁︎。⋆。 ゚☾ ゚。⋆⋆ Whatever you are going through, just know, you aren't alone. I know the world tells you you're so small and tiny. Skyscrapers overlook you, mountains swarm you, and if it's not your physical environment makin' ya feel itty bitty... it's people, it's expectations - it's a billion different things. You aren't a spec in the universe. YOU are a universe within yourself, with an infinite ocean of emotions, memories, experiences, and thoughts. You are a giant that can touch the sky in absolute joy one day, and then go on to crush everything beneath your feet the next day ... everything that you've climbed for, have worked for, and yearned for. You are a beautifully complex creature, inside and out, - that has the power of a menace, yet the ability to bestow the softest and most comforting kindness onto others - but most importantly, to yourself. ANYWHO, I chattered about a whole lot - I just want you to know that they EVEN TOLD PLUTO he was too tiny to be a planet. Pluto is my favorite, and for the struggles you have endured, for the greater strength to seek help through it all, for all of what makes you who you are - you all are my favorite too. Favorite - species? I like pandas though too - maybe... after pandas. Haha. You're gonna' get through this. We both will. Your little comrade,  Ruhi. •ﻌ• - Please stay safe and always be kind to yourself. Thank you, for everything. Love you. 
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PeacePink
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I’m PeacePink, and since 2021, I’ve been an active listener on 7Cups, driven by a desire to support individuals navigating through unique and challenging experiences. Having faced my own battles with chronic illness, sexual violence, and other adversities, I find purpose in guiding others towards meaning, resilience, and connection. Central to my approach is the creation of a safe haven where individuals can freely express their thoughts, emotions, and concerns. I strive to cultivate a non-judgmental environment where your experiences and perspective are deeply understood and respected. Whether you seek a listening ear, a space to vent, or company, know that I’m here to offer unwavering support. You are the expert of your own journey, and my role is to actively listen, provide encouragement, and empower you to discover your own strengths and solutions. Together, let’s embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and growth. I’m committed to supporting you every step of the way, and I look forward to connecting. Verified Listener: I graduated with honors from the 7 Cups Internship Program and the Quality Listening Program; additionally, I serve as a forum supporter for the PTSD/Trauma forum. Currently pursuing my undergraduate degree in psychology with aspirations to become a psychiatrist or neurosurgeon, I bring both academic knowledge and lived experience to our conversations. However, please note that I cannot provide diagnoses or clinical advice. What I Offer: I’m committed to providing support for any chat topic. I also welcome more casual conversations about everyday events and interests. Unlike many listeners, I provide long-term support, meaning you can connect with me almost every week and schedule appointments. I’m located in Pacific Time Zone (PT).
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WarmLightXO
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Everything is going to be okay 🌼🌿 I'm Light (or Elliot) and I’m glad you’re here💚 He/him, EST I'm especially versed in LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent issues, but I'm happy to support you with anything you need to chat about. Please note that unless I pull you out of the queue, I'm probably only available for offline chats 🌻 Where talk exists, so does hope 💛 ------------------------- Ainda não falo br português fluentemente, mas adoraria apoiá-lo da melhor maneira que posso. 💚
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KateDoskocilova
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  READ BIO BEFORE MESSAGING. due to my roles and personal life, I may not always accept chat requests Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners] I only take *teen* chats. If you are an adult member, please reach out to somebody else. In order to chat with me, please schedule a time with me to do so (at least 24hrs before appointed time). I am usually available on Tuesdays, Thursdays and the weekends from 9am-12:30pm ET. important to know that chat sessions with me last anywhere from 30-40 minutes. 🌺 Hi there! Welcome to my page :) I am Kate, a young woman from a city in the northern area of Greece. I am a high school student, studying in the humanities field and am working towards studying psychology or English philology in university. I initially joined this site to get support in regards to my at the time relationship, and decided to also join as a Listener, doing exactly what I plan on having as my profession in a few years from now: be there for people. My main role here is to be there for you no matter what you go through, no matter how big or small it is. And no matter how many roles I take on on this site, I will still be here for you. For that is my main goal, my biggest contribution to this community. 🥰 Some of my hobbies include: dancing, writing, reading books (romance, fantasy, mythology and non-fiction), filming videos as well as taking pictures. 🌺 I am only available for supportive conversations on the topics listed on my profile. For any other topic, please contact another listener. Thank you! 🌺 My contribution to this community goes beyond being a Listener. Here are some other roles I have taken up: Verified Listener. I have been verified by the community for my commitment to active listening skills and quality chatting. That means the community expects of me to maintain professional, kind, open-minded and understanding towards you at all times. Chat Supporter. I am considered a listener who has expertise in the role of a listener and is eligible to provide specialized support to listeners on 7cups in regards to their role/supportive chat. Peer Supporter. I am considered a listener who is capable of listening to fellow listeners after a difficult chat with a member and provide support and show empathy to them after this tough situation they were in. Global Moderator. I ensure a welcoming and safe space for everyone in the member community chat rooms. I am found quite often there, especially in the Teen Community Chatroom. Pass by and say hi! Doorkeeper. I can open and close community rooms. If you need a room opened or closed, you are welcome to contact me. Chatroom Mentor/Teen Chatroom Star. I help moderate the 7 Cups listener chatrooms and support the listeners, too. Community Mentor Leader for the Relationship Stress community. I overview the Relationship Stress community and forums. Are you interested in joining the team? Let me know! Safety Patrol Team Member. I flag profiles that go against the website guidelines. 🌺 My status usually indicates: Green: I am online and ready to take a chat. Orange: I am online but busy, which means my responses will be slower. Red: I am offline. You can leave me an offline message during that time. Expected response time is 24-48 hours after your message is sent. If you receive no response within that time range, feel free to send me a message again (I may sometimes forget to respond, so excuse me for that :P) Message me and let's schedule a chat! 🌺 My amazing twins: @Antonio7Cups @starryWillow9852
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jennysunrise8
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Hi i am an adult/teen listener married with three children who are all adults now and you are welcome to message me anytime day or night 🙂 I really do enjoy talking to people of all ages dealing with a lot of different situations and i am fine with casual chats but you should take the lead and you can take all the time you need when it comes to saying whats on your mind i am ok with waiting and do not expect quick replies or every question i ask to be answered If i am in online mode (green) you can always expect an immediate response and chat and if i am in offline mode (red) i might not be able to have a live chat right away but just leave a message and i will get back to you however i usually do stay in offline mode even when i am on here so i might message back immediately I have many different interests and i am open to talking about almost anything however above all else i believe in communication and honesty between people and will let you know right away if its a topic that I cannot support you with i am very interested in and try to practice mindfulness every day and also clear communication If you are feeling stuck in your life right now I would love to help you work through it in whatever way you feel is best for you just let me know we can all choose to do something different at any time outside of the established habits and routines that we have created for ourselves you choose when and how but change is absolutely possible and it is never too late or if you just want to vent about something going on in your life you can do that too  😊 〰 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 〰 7cups crisis resources  https://7cups.com/crisis/ [https://7cups.com/crisis/]   free confidential support from a helpline/hotline near you - online chat text or phone (international just put in your country)   https://findahelpline.com/ [https://findahelpline.com/]   Tiny Habits free program here on 7cups to easily add new habits into your life  https://tinyhabits.com/program/ [https://tinyhabits.com/program/]   sign up for a tiny habits coach  https://bjfogg.typeform.com/to/QXc0WJ great articles and resources on this amazing website Lifehack  https://bit.ly/2J75bK2 [https://bit.ly/2J75bK2] free procrastination workbook and self help modules  https://bit.ly/2GOcU3e [https://bit.ly/2GOcU3e] ProgressiveMuscleRelaxation  https://youtu.be/f7I2Upk5jqI [https://youtu.be/f7I2Upk5jqI] * https://youtu.be/ihO02wUzgkc [https://youtu.be/ihO02wUzgkc] Systematic Desensitization to reduce triggers that cause panic attacks or phobias  http://bit.ly/2yUhPbg [http://bit.ly/2yUhPbg]         great website everything related to SD and free ebook  http://web.csulb.edu/~tstevens/Desensit.htm [http://web.csulb.edu/~tstevens/Desensit.htm] visuals that help with breathing during panic attacks  https://dailyburn.com/life/lifestyle/stressed-gifs-breathing-exercises/ [https://dailyburn.com/life/lifestyle/stressed-gifs-breathing-exercises/] 7cups discussion on dealing with panic attacks  https://bit.ly/2MomF97 [https://bit.ly/2MomF97] 7cups discussion on reframing negative thoughts  https://bit.ly [https://bit.ly/2OnBaxv]/2OnBaxv [https://bit.ly/2OnBaxv] 30 grounding techniques to quiet the mind  https://www.healthline.com/health/grounding-techniques [https://www.healthline.com/health/grounding-techniques] 7cups discussion on managing negative internal dialogue  htt [https://bit.ly/2HOwCLl]ps://bit.ly/2HOwCLl [https://bit.ly/2HOwCLl] 24/7 youtube livestreams of relaxing sounds  https://youtu.be/63GF7qbr34U [https://youtu.be/63GF7qbr34U] * https://youtu.be/4qtD8RmvWn0 In a language as idiomatically stressed as English, opportunities for misreadings are bound to arise. By a mere backward movement of stress, a verb can become a noun, an act a thing. To refuse, to insist on saying no to what you believe is wrong, becomes at a stroke refuse, an insurmountable pile of garbage. - Ian McEwan
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StargirlTina
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(Note: I’m currently not able to accept any members who personally reach out to me and I apologise for not responding instantly. However, I read all your messages and would try my best to reply as soon as I can! Update: As of now my schedule is really hectic and due to this and some personal issues, I'll be unable to listen to members much or be present in the community. I might however try to respond and check in every 2-3 months as possible.) Hey there! I am Tina,here to listen to your problems and to help you feel better! 💜💙💚💛🧡💖 Here is a good song dedicated to you!  https://youtu.be/BFkTu8Y1KLs Feel free to tell me about anything and know that I wont judge you! (I aim to help people get more clarity on whatever they are experiencing) "No matter what it is that you're going through, know that I'll always be here for you"  Your happiness means so much to me..🧡 Have a great day!  Lots of love and strength to you! (Ps: I am also training myself in CBT and incorporate it in chats in an effective way, building my listening style to make it even more helpful! ~) Y O U A R E    A M A Z I N G !! IMPORTANT: I do not take self-harm or sexual issues related requests and I am sure you will find a good listener for any such requests. My roles on 7cups: Peer supporter, Listener chatroom supporter, Been a quality mentor in the past, Also have been a Part of The Peer Appreciation Team, Listener Verifier Team and Anonymous Evaluations Team. Thank you so much for reading this!🧡 A special thank you and shoutout (with cookies 🍪) to my typo twin emo for the cutest gesture of making me a colourful pfp 💃🦋:∆  @emotionalTalker2260 (will be missed in the community greatly)   ~27/08/2022
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Fradiga
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Older expatriate, widowed once when much younger. Raised children and step-children. Speaks several languages. Lives in SW France. Retired. Enjoys music (choir singer and former harpist), hikes with her dog, the outdoors and needlework among other interests. Is learning Arabic. Long church experience and interested in all religions. Has plenty of LGBTQ relatives and friends. Is USUALLY online for an hour or two from 10 AM (in GMT+2 zone), Monday through Sunday (might take days off). Checks her messages the rest of the day. Expat à la retraite. A perdu un mari jeune. A élevé des enfants et beaux-enfants. Polyglotte (apprend l'arabe en ce moment). Vit dans le sud-ouest de la France. Ses activités tournent surtout autour de la musique, les grands espaces, son chien et les travaux d'aiguille. Longue expérience cléricale avec intérêt pour toutes les religions. Beaucoup d'amis et de parenté dans le monde LGBTQ. Disponible à 10h (dans le fuseau horaire GMT+2) la plupart du temps pour une heure ou deux et répond à ses messages le reste du temps.
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Eyad210
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Aiming to share life experiences with others and help people pass through their complains... feel free to text me ! 
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FawkesCare12
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Hello to the amazing person reading this. I'm here to help total strangers deal with all too familiar problems. If you just want someone to listen to you and understand you, I hope to be able to do that for you. Asking for help and speaking about our problems is really hard. So if you're here, you've already overcome a huge hurdle. So if you want to talk or just need someone to vent to, I'm here .This is a completely non- judgemental space, where you are accepted just the way you are because you are doing the best you can and that makes you all the more amazing .
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glamorousAiko0801
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Hello everyone, my name is Aiko! In my freetime I love to read books and listen to music. Helping others makes me geniunely happy, that's why I decided to volunteer as a teen-Listner. If there is something bothering you, you feel down or you just need someone to talk, feel free to message me. Stay strong! <3
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