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User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz October 27th, 2025

Not sure where to start.  I am looking for hopefully long time friends on here.  I'm 35.  Disabled so I have a hard time doing things.  I also suffer from depression.  

I also get attached easily and hurt easily which I'm working on.  

When I'm not as depressed I like playing video games, drawing, watching tv. I do like going out, just prefer to go with friends.

As a friend I always try to be there.

I love animals, especially cats and foster them.

Right now I'm grieving my cat Hopper,  and I feel so alone.  I also realized I love hugs from people.  

I've always been socially awkward, so I'm hoping to improve and even make friends near me down the line. (Not sure where to start near me if you know good places please let me know)

So if you're looking for a friend to chat with let's start.  As I said I'm socially awkward so please let me know if I overshare or undershare.

Thank you for your time and hope to make some good friends!

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User Profile: TheReflex
TheReflex November 10th, 2025

Shelly: You’ve got TONS of replies…so wonderful! And yhank you for taking the time to explain fully who you are. I really appreciate knowing a bit about you. Please feel free to reach out if you’d like to chat. I’m here!!

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP November 11th, 2025

I was so nervous about posting that but figured it'd be the best way to meet people. I'd love to chat with you!

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User Profile: fairmindedBlueberry3134
fairmindedBlueberry3134 November 10th, 2025

You sound like a really cool person. I’d love to be your friend! That’s really cool you like to play video games. Do you have a favorite game you like to play?

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP November 11th, 2025

Thank you! I'd love to have you as a friend. Zelda is my favorite, bur I play just about any games. Left 4 dead was one, fables, pokemon, harvest moon. And many more lol.

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User Profile: JennaDavina
JennaDavina November 11th, 2025

Hi, I’m Jenna. I’m also disabled, but I find writing helps me cope. I’m saving for a kitten, but although my house is immaculate, my top level bedroom is tornado aftermath. I fostered kittens twice, 3 day old litter and 6 week litters. I was told none of the 3 day old kittens would survive, but the kittens made it to eight weeks and were adopted out. Once, I worried because I couldn’t find the kittens in the cardboard box, but I found them on the milk blanket in the bathroom. I hope to get a Siberian kitten after Christmas because the breed is naturally hypoallergenic. This is the first time in my life without a pet. I hope we can be friends.

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP November 11th, 2025

Hi Jenna, so far 7cups has helped a lot for me. I'm so glad you saved those kittens! It is so hard when they are that small and young! I hope you get the kitty you want, the thought of having no pets makes me sad, since I spend most of my time at home. And love to be your friend!

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User Profile: affableDog5067
affableDog5067 November 11th, 2025

@ShellyZZ

🫂 so sorry to hear about Hopper!

I am in the same boat as you - we can talk if you like!

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP November 11th, 2025

I'd love to

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User Profile: azureAcres1605
azureAcres1605 November 11th, 2025

Wish you the best. You will find support here. ❤️

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP November 11th, 2025

Thank you. I've found more support here then anywhere else.

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User Profile: RaviEmpathy
RaviEmpathy November 11th, 2025

Welcome!

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP November 11th, 2025

Hello!

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User Profile: gentleDreamer7482
gentleDreamer7482 November 12th, 2025

@ShellyZz

hi hope your doing good i see your looking for new friends 

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ShellyZz OP November 12th, 2025

I'm doing well, how are you?

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User Profile: GreaterThanMyFaults
GreaterThanMyFaults November 12th, 2025

@ShellyZz hello and welcome. There's alotta great people on here. You're in the right place. 

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP November 12th, 2025

There are! I've never meant so many nice people before.

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User Profile: kawasakiKRT400rr
kawasakiKRT400rr November 12th, 2025

@shellyzz

Hi I’m Tania I also have been suffering from depression I just sit in bed and rot and it started with my dad moving in and then committing suicide in my room. I’ve been changed ever since and I had a friend living with me and helping me through this and she just up and left Sunday left the house key and blocked me on everything . I don’t even know where to begin my life I have 10 year old twin boys and I’m trying to to my best for them but it doesn’t seem good enough . I can’t find a job my friend was helping me pay the bills now I don’t know what I am going to do . I miss her so much and wish she would come back .

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP November 12th, 2025

Hi Tanis, I'm so sorry to hear about that. Are there social workers or charities nearby that can help? I'm not sure all that social workers do, but one is supposed to call me to help.

I'm sorry your friend left you, and worse that she blocked you from everything. Have you had a job before? If you are seeing a doctor you might be able to get disability for depression. Or maybe even disability for your boys. Not sure what it's called buy social security might be able to help.

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User Profile: exuberantSugar1844
exuberantSugar1844 November 13th, 2025

Hello everyone I am highly sensitive person who feels deeply and intensely i am also looking for life partner actually someone I share my love to him I am highly sensitive women actually also i am don't have any friends also i don't know what to do I am feeling alone how and whom I share my feelings which is very very deeply intense I also struggling with career stress financial stress health stress management it really really hard to do so

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP November 13th, 2025

If you're looking for friends I'd be glad to become your friend. I try my best to always respond.

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