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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 March 31st, 2024


I am getting older, like we all are 😀, and experience some effects of aging like lower energy than when I was younger. So my priority right now is to stay as healthy as possible physically but also mentally/emotionally for me but also so that I am able to offer the best support I can here on the site.  

What are your current priorities in this season of your life, and why?


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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP March 31st, 2024

UPDATED TAGLIST 2/20/2024

1st part

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP March 31st, 2024

2nd Part Taglist

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User Profile: cal1860
cal1860 April 14th, 2024

@amiablePeace77  I aim to live healthily, enjoy a slower pace of life, enjoy being creative & enjoy snail-mailing again.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 16th, 2024

@cal1860

You mail snails?!  😲

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User Profile: cal1860
cal1860 April 17th, 2024

@amiablePeace77  yeah, but they keep escaping from the mailbox...


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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 18th, 2024

@cal1860

Oh dear. But enjoying a slower pace of life sounds good and less stressful!

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings March 31st, 2024

@amiablePeace77 

What are your current priorities in this season of your life, and why?

The biggest priority to me is try to transform some of the negative emotions that I have carried in the back of my mind most of my life.

I do not want to leave this world with these on my mind.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 1st, 2024

@soulsings

May you become free of your emotions that cause you suffering 💙

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User Profile: GoingInCircles365
GoingInCircles365 March 31st, 2024

Current priorities: Like you, I want to focus on good health. I am not necessarily trying to live as long as possible, I'm trying to live as healthy as possible. That said, I will NOT follow this post with a bowl of ice cream... lol. 

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings April 1st, 2024

How about plain yogurt and fruit? lol

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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat April 1st, 2024

What are your current priorities in this season of your life, and why?

I've been having a hard time lately, and I'm trying to see this as just a normal part of recovery.  I've read that we all have some setbacks from time to time, and this might be one.

I'm just trying to keep going.  I've had a hard time in my group meetings lately, because they seem redundant now.  We need new material.  We keep going over the same material again and again.



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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 1st, 2024

@WharfRat

Unfortunately setback happen and they can be hard but they can also teach us new ways. Sometimes change is needed. Never forget please we are here for you.


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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 April 1st, 2024

@amiablePeace77

Hi, Ami,

I, too, am working on keeping my health the best I can until I graduate.  I am trying to hang on as long as I can until I can get a job that gives me health insurance, then I can start to take care of my health problems.  Then I can relax.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 1st, 2024

@purpleTree4652

I hope you get that health insurance very soon.

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 April 4th, 2024

Been trying to live more healthfully myself, with only intermittent success.

My insomnia & lack of circadian rhythm are unsolvable problems.

It is rather difficult for me to stay disciplined because I know that it will all be to no avail in a few years. (Why do something you know is ultimately useless?) I also don't wish to live past 70 years of age. Both my parents kicked the bucket at 71; the final years/months were not pleasant for either of them...or for me.

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 April 4th, 2024

@slowdecline48

I'm so sorry.  May whatever God or higher power you believe in, release you from your distress over the end.  

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slowdecline48 April 4th, 2024

Hey Tree, what's happenin'? We haven't talked in a bit...I hope your situation has improved in some way since then.

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 April 4th, 2024

@slowdecline48

I've been thinking about you and want to talk.  Please give me your link for your pics again.  My computer recently went bonkers and I lost an important file, so I had to do a reboot of all my files, and a lot got mixed up.  I don't know what happened, but it was a mess.  I'm about to go look at an apartment.  I hope to talk to you soon.

--D.

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 April 4th, 2024

You don't have to get to my art/craft journal to talk to me...we could do that in a Pen Pals thread, if you like. That might be more sensible overall. Let me know if you like the idea.

Aside from that, the chicken scratch be here.

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 April 4th, 2024

Also - to put it in perspective, my fatalistic gloom is not unique. Almost everyone who knows (s)he will eventually d!e has likely felt the same way...the only difference is mine is a bit more exaggerated than most. I get pretty morbid at times. Guess that's one reason why we artists do what we do: it is a way to cheat death. We won't live forever, but our works will outlast us.

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 April 5th, 2024

@slowdecline48

I think a penpal location is fine.  Do you want to start it?

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 7th, 2024

@purpleTree4652

A "pen pal" thread on the site sounds interesting! 😊

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 April 8th, 2024

@amiablePeace77 ...that was what I meant. 😒

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 8th, 2024

@slowdecline48

Awesome! 

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User Profile: LionsFan
LionsFan April 10th, 2024

@amiablePeace77

Yes, have you ever tried walking?  Around the neighborhood, walking paths, around the perimeter of in-door malls, or even taking your pooch for a couple of walks each day.  I think walking can help with our energy levels, mobility, socialization, and weight.  I lost over 45 lbs a few years ago simply by walking, drinking water, and maintaining a sensible diet.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings April 10th, 2024

@LionsFan I walk around the neighborhood and it helps boost my mood. 

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 10th, 2024

@LionsFan

Wow 45 lbs! Congratulations! (I assume it was a healthy weight loss). I too realized that walking gives me energy. Sometimes I walk to the beat at home when it's too late to go walking outside.

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