50+ Check-in June 5-8, 2023
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Let's do some reflection together today and answer the following questions ❤️
- How do I feel today?
- What do I need today?
- How do I want today to go?
UPDATED TAGLIST 5/30/2023
1st part
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- How do I feel today?
On a scale of 1 to 10, I'm about a five mentally, and an eight physically.
- What do I need today?
I need everyone to just be calm and not bring me any problems.
- How do I want today to go?
I want to get my work done, attend meetings I need to attend, and then go out at my lunch hour and relax, maybe grab a treat. Go to my afternoon appointments, make dinner, relax, and watch some fun, lighthearted TV.
@thoughtfulmomma
I hope your day came true as you wanted it.
Watching some fun , lighthearted TV after a day's work sounds good!
@amiablePeace77
It wasn't exactly what I wanted, but it turned out okay. Here's hoping it can happen again today.
- How do I feel today?
prone to anxiety attacks- I never realize it until I notice that I'm breathless
- What do I need today?
I practiced deep breathing, telling myself 'I am okay, I am safe'
- How do I want today to go?
It will go how it goes.... that I have the strength to be professional yet present at work, and allow myself to be emotional as I work through grief.
@ALifetimeAgo
I'm very sorry for your loss. It's okay to be sad and take the time you need to mourn. I hope practising deep breathing and saying supportive mantras will help you to get through this hard time.
@amiablePeace77
- How do I feel today?
Tired, drained, nervous, accomplished (weird combination for sure)
- What do I need today?
A nap :D I need to breathe, to be gentle with myself as I ask questions about a possible mental health related diagnosis.
- How do I want today to go?
Smoothly. Not sure... just want to know I'm on a good path, and see if I can find further roadmaps to help me through.
@galfromaway
I hope the nap helped to get centered again 💙. Here is a link where you might find the road map you need https://www.7cups.com/path/modifier/.
Thank you, @amiablePeace77. That's a big help.
And napping definitely helped. <3
- How do I feel today? Today I've been fighting a terrible headache and I cannot just stop life because of it. I suffer from headaches...have for a long time.....based on testing and headache tracking, they are mostly weather related(changes in barometric pressures, drastic temperature changes, falling pollen, etc....kinda like knowing when it is going to rain when you have arthritis, I can tell you by my headaches lol) so... according to my Dr. there is really no "fix".... I have prescribed meds that sometimes work and sometimes don't.....I've learned to live with and prepare for them based on the forecast....anyway...
- What do I need today? For the headache to go away and the medication to work
- How do I want today to go? Easy....I need an easy day
@CyclingThroughLife
When everything hurts so much going easy and being gentle with yourself sounds best! 💙
- How do I feel today?
Lazy, no morning plans/afternoon plans. - What do I need today?
I need to exercise, and a shower.
Then, my "work," cat-sitting for my neighbor, picking up my medication (optional), and driving to bf's house at 5pm, for dinner. - How do I want today to go?
I want today to go productive, and comfortable.
@tealBear2472
I hope your day turned out productive and comfortable as you envisaged!
@amiablePeace77
- How do I feel today?
I was feeling pretty good today I got my exam results today and learned I have passed my 3rd year of medicine 😄 however my placement got changed which took that 10/10 feeling to a 7 perhaps.
- What do I need today?
I just need to relax and mentally let go of the stress I have been holding onto waiting for results.
- How do I want today to go?
I want the day to end with me feeling accomplished and fulfilled.
@charmingEagle47
Congratulations to passing your 3rd year of medicine! Sorry it was "tinted" by the placement but I hope you still feel accomplished and fulfilled about when you put your head on your pillow tonight!
@amiablePeace77
How do I feel today?
Need a break. Feels like I am spinning my wheels and getting no where.
Not that I need to be anywhere. Wouldn't not mind being home (a want)
Grumpy, Old, Achy, Crabby
What do I need today?
Need? We can confuse needs and wants. by thinking something we need is really only something we want.
I think my needs are all met. Have Food, Water, home, work, spouse, dog.
How do I want today to go?
Quickly, Quietly, smoothly
@Barltik2065
I hope you get that break latest in the weekend! Good point about needs and wants. Often our wants seem to be much bigger than what we actually need.
@amiablePeace77 I’m feeling Anxious Depressed and flustered. The site has been experiencing a prolonged Glitch that’s causing a large amount of lagging. Which make it difficult to see the new post being posted. I understand that you’re doing an update. But it’s been going on for almost two days .I like today to e just a little better than yesterday. I don’t think that’s asking too much. Oh and fix the Glitch.
@OnlyDarkness
I'm so sorry that the glitches cause you to feel bad. Please hang in with us, hopefully tomorrow all will be back to normal 💙