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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 August 15th, 2022
When I was a child I was always eager to go to my grandma's apartment (she shared the home with my parents so she was always close by) and begged her to stroke my back. Sometimes she did not really have the time but she still took a few minutes. I was laying over her legs so she could stroke it. It was so comforting and calming and made me feel so good. I still miss her calming touch.


What is the best memory of your grandma or granddad?



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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 August 16th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

Hi, Peace,

That's a nice memory you have of your grandma.

I remember going to my grandma's house, which was right around the corner from our house. She made me tea, and offered me sugar. I put a whole pile of sugar in my cut, and she said in her english with a heavy hungarian accent, "you like shu-gah?" And she smiled a smile at me that showed a life time of wrinkles all over her face that looked like a map to her life. It was beautiful.

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purpleTree4652 August 16th, 2022

@purpleTree4652

in my cup

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 17th, 2022

@purpleTree4652

That's a sweet memory, thanks for sharing it with us.

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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat August 16th, 2022

What is the best memory of your grandma or granddad?

I didn't know my grandfathers. My grandmas lived far away. One thing I remember about one of them was she used the word "ain't" just because she knew she wasn't supposed to.




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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 17th, 2022

@WharfRat

Seems she was a free spirit and did not want rules let restrict her?

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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat August 18th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

Something like that - she did what she liked, within reason, I think.


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User Profile: UberRuminator
UberRuminator August 16th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

Hi Ami:

My maternal grandparents died when I was very young, but I do remember my grandmother’s homemade ravioli. I was a little older when my paternal grandparents died. They lived in another state, so we didn’t see them often. I remember the cherry tobacco scent of my grandfather’s pipe.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 17th, 2022

@UberRuminator

Sorry to hear about your grandparents, glad that you could keep those lovely memories of them. It must have been nice to smell that delicious aroma of cherry from your grandfather's pipe.

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User Profile: RideaRainbow
RideaRainbow August 16th, 2022

बह Awww you have raked such a plethora of memories about my 'Amma', my paternal grandma. My most endearing memory is of sleeping with her till age 10-11 and her regaling me with stories from her life and of my parents. She often renarrated them and the drama queen that she was, would add a new element to them each time. She's been gone for 31 years but it's all to fresh in my mind as the morning dew.


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User Profile: EmbStitcher33
EmbStitcher33 August 16th, 2022

@RideaRainbow

Ah...so sweet... loved your post. I feel the same way about my grandma & grandpa.

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RideaRainbow August 16th, 2022

@EmbStitcher33

Thanks so much, Emb

❤️

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 17th, 2022

@RideaRainbow

Sounds like she was a wonderful storyteller!

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User Profile: RideaRainbow
RideaRainbow August 17th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

ohhh yes indeed was such a passionate and natural one at that.

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User Profile: endearingLion70
endearingLion70 August 16th, 2022

My favorite memory is walking with my parents to visit my grandmother who lived in a neighborhood across town. We did it every Saturday and we walked to her house.


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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 17th, 2022

@endearingLion70

I could imagine you were always looking forward to Saturday to come. Thanks for sharing that pittoresque picture.

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endearingLion70 August 22nd, 2022

have not seen any new posts here since the 16th@endearingLion70

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endearingLion70 August 22nd, 2022

Do not see any posts following the 16th@endearingLion70

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User Profile: EmbStitcher33
EmbStitcher33 August 16th, 2022

@amiablePeace77


What is the best memory of your grandma or granddad?

Awe, what a great topic. I have one for each that just popped into my head. For my grandma... I can still see her lighting off firecrackers off the cement steps by the grainery. She put them under tin cans with the wick sticking out. Off they would shoot high in the air!! Grandma spent most of her time indoors...so it was great to see her come outside and play with us cousins.

Have a few with my grandpa... I think the most heartwarming was after grandma died, I went to stay with him and we'd sit for hours in the living room watching TV. He fell asleep reading his paper a lot. We didn't say a lot to each other. We just felt good in each other's company.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 17th, 2022

@EmbStitcher33

That's a lovely memory of your grandpa - no words needed just feeling the comfort of each other's company!

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User Profile: EmbStitcher33
EmbStitcher33 August 16th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

What a nice memory. 😊

User Profile: Offmytrack
Offmytrack August 16th, 2022

@amiablePeace77 What is the best memory of your grandma or granddad? When she gave me cookies.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 17th, 2022

@Offmytrack

Lol Offmytrack, grandmas always had some sort of treat for the young ones 😊

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings August 16th, 2022

@amiablePeace77


What is the best memory of your grandma or granddad?

Grandma used to make the dough for scones on a little cutting board and then cook them in a cast iron frying pan like a dutch oven. Fresh scones and butter, yum.

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User Profile: EmbStitcher33
EmbStitcher33 August 17th, 2022

@soulsings

Sounds yummy!! Do you have the recipe? 😊

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings August 17th, 2022

@EmbStitcher33 will have to check

Have put the word out to family. Will let you know if I find it.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 17th, 2022

@soulsings

I bet you couldn't wait to taste them 😊

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User Profile: thoughtfulmomma
thoughtfulmomma August 17th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

Soooo many good memories. My grandparents would always play with me as a kid, taught me card games, baking, sewing, fishing, and so much more. I have this one memory of walking with my grandmother to a bakery in the city. I miss them all and think of them daily.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 17th, 2022

@thoughtfulmomma

They must have been amazing people! Nice that you had such a support when growing up.

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