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What was challenging this week? What went well this week?

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amiablePeace77 August 15th, 2025

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What was challenging this week? What went well this week?


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User Profile: Rose1324
Rose1324 August 15th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

What was challenging this week? I  thought my exercises were challenging this week. It took more effort for them. But I did finish them. I also thought getting other things done was a challenge as well. 

What went well this week? I finished my physical therapy session for my illness. I also got to relax, rest, and finish getting better; the area is almost healed. Also, other things had gotten accomplished on my time off from everything. I also returned to 7 Cups on August 11th, the first time in over a month due to my illness. 

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 15th, 2025

@Rose1324

I find when the body is not 100 % because of illness, heat or other things any work or exercises can feel much harder than they usually would. 👍 that you kept going!

Good to hear that you're healing and nice you're back on the site!

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown August 15th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

What was challenging this week? 

All the realizations of my family. The negative realizations I’m talking about. 

What went well this week?

Journaling, writing songs, singing and dancing along to all my favorite songs, and everything else that had nothing to do with my family. 

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amiablePeace77 OP August 15th, 2025

@akunknown

Dancing can freeing for sure!

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 August 15th, 2025

What was challenging this week?  My new neighbor who lives under me pounds on the walls and ceiling.  I don't hear any noise so I don't know what she is pounding for.  I complained to the leasing office about her.  Then she confronted me.  I don't like confrontations.  She scared me, but I kept calm and told her that it cannot be me.  I am very quiet.  

What went well this week?  I think I got a good deal on my new lease.  If I understand it correctly, it went down by $200.  I asked why and they said their head office set it up that way.  I made sure I asked lots of questions and am pretty sure I understand, but I just sent them a follow up question.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 15th, 2025

@purpleTree4652

Wow, that's truly a good deal, so happy for you! I can understand though that you wanted to make sure it's not a mistake.

Sorry about your neighbor. I hope the lease people will do something about it fast.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 15th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

I haven't gotten much sleep this week 🥺

I'm working on boundaries to allow myself the space I need to just be me 🥰

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amiablePeace77 OP August 15th, 2025

@Amanda84

We all need that space for ourselves Amanda! Good that you work on setting boundaries!

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 15th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

Thank you.

I don't know why, put I feel on edge, or incomplete if I'm not helping people 🥰

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User Profile: azureAcres1605
azureAcres1605 August 15th, 2025

What was challenging was there was a lot of traffic when I drove up to NJ to visit my brother.

What went well was it was a nice visit and my brother said, “I love you.”

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 19th, 2025

@azureAcres1605

I can only imagine how good those words felt when you heard them from your brother!

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User Profile: azureAcres1605
azureAcres1605 August 19th, 2025

Very good. Thank you. ❤️

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User Profile: amusingWest5360
amusingWest5360 August 16th, 2025

@amiablePeace77 what was challenging this week? Dealing with college things 

User Profile: CombatNebula
CombatNebula August 16th, 2025

What was challenging this week?

Realizing that I messed up so much this entire summer, and I can't ever fix it. Not being able to land a job also

What went well this week?

I apologized to my dear children for over sharing things only an adult should know and deal with, and I promised them I wouldn't do it again. This is why I'm here. I found this place searching for help. Thank you for existing🥲

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 19th, 2025

@CombatNebula

When our emotional bottle is overfull whatever is in there comes out. Please don't be too harsh on yourself. You took a good decision to reach out for help, and I hope coming here will give you the support your need.

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User Profile: braindamag3
braindamag3 August 16th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

What was challenging this week?

The restraint needed to step back from a friend who I said that communication is left open but she has to initiate first, I don't want to overwhelm her.

What went well this week?

I bumped into someone I hadn't seen in a couple of years and we spent a better portion of an hour catching up. She made some comments that made me feel seen, something I don't get from anyone else in the office. She brightened up the rest of my day.

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amiablePeace77 OP August 19th, 2025

@braindamag3

You're very considerate to give your friend time! Glad that you bumped into that person and had a good time with them!

 

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings August 16th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

What was challenging this week? A four day heat wave was challenging but it was manageable because cool nights allowed me to open windows and cool the house down. 

What went well this week?  I am starting to read for a half hour a day and it feels good to get into the reading habit. 

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 19th, 2025

@soulsings

Many people find reading very relaxing, it's a good habit to have!

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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat August 17th, 2025

What has been challenging this week and is still challenging is that my therapist is moving away and I have to find a new one.  It was a year ago that my last therapist moved away, too.


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amiablePeace77 OP August 19th, 2025

@WharfRat

It can be quite hard not to have the person you are used to talk to anymore. I hope you find another therapist for you soon!

Btw Does your "old" therapist do zoom meetings? Would that be an option?

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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat August 19th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

I don't have zoom on my computer.  It's an old computer and has no camera or microphone.


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User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 August 19th, 2025

@WharfRat. There are attachments for mics and cameras that I found at for my old computer to attend zoom meetings. 

The sell them at places like Best Buy , Office Depot and Amazon.
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