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How to be grateful to yourself and others

User Profile: pamharley003
pamharley003 December 7th, 2025

Regular gratitude exercises like, journal writing, gratitude exercises and just writing thank you notes will boost your happiness while ehancing our wellbeing. Gratitude is simply saying thank-you to those in your life. Incoporting gratitude exercises into your daily life can also improve relationships with family, spouses and friends,develop a positive mindset, and emotional awareness.

Here is a link to a positive tool kit to have on hand: https://pro.positivepsychology.com/wp-content/uploads/giveawaytools.pdf

Gratitude is also known as greatfulness. It is when we recognize the positive and be grateful for what we have in our lives. This is done through our cognitive,emotional, and behavioral responses. Positive gratitude plays an imporant part of who we are. 

4 examples of gratitude exercises:

Gratitude list: This is basically a list of what you are grateful for. It can name the people who love having in your life,allowing to be ourselves not only to ourself but towards others.

Gratitude journal:  a great way to use mindfulness writing down on paper. Sometimes our words can come out better when they are written down.

Gratitude jar:  This is a simple jar where we can write positive affirmations, simples notes to ourselves and taking them out to read when we are down. This help us to think in a positive way everyday.

Thank-you letters or notes:  Writing down a thank-you letter or simple thank-you note to someone who has gone out of their way to make us feel special. It can include why we are thankful for them being in our lives.

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Who are you thankful for in your life?

How do you show gratitude towards others?

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User Profile: YourCaringConfidant
YourCaringConfidant December 7th, 2025

@pamharley003 I love this post! Thank you for making it. 😀

1. Who are you thankful for in your life?

I'm thankful for my husband, my kids, my stepmom, my dad, my siblings, etc. I'm also thankful for the people I've met here on 7 Cups that have inspired and encouraged me along the way on my journey. ❤️

2. How do you show gratitude towards others?

I love gift giving to people. Making or picking out a specific thing for just the right person to let them know I'm thinking of them and am grateful for them. On here, graphics are my way to show love. ❤️

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User Profile: pamharley003
pamharley003 OP December 7th, 2025

@YourCaringConfidant

I am glad you enjoyed reading it. I enjoyed reading your answers too 🥰

User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 December 16th, 2025

@YourCaringConfidant

I have always imagined you as a university student for some reason. My bubble is broken. 😂

I'm so happy for you though.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 7th, 2025

@pamharley003

I'm thankful for God.

I'm thankful for my family.

My friends.

My health.

My community.

I love to write thank you notes 💖

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User Profile: pamharley003
pamharley003 OP December 7th, 2025

@Amanda84

Those are great things to be grateful for 

User Profile: ShadowFaerie
ShadowFaerie December 7th, 2025

@Amanda84 I love to write thank you notes, too 😊 I find people are pleasantly surprised to receive them in the mail. Many have told me that it's a "dying art" and my response is always "not if I have anything to say about it" haha 


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User Profile: pamharley003
pamharley003 OP December 7th, 2025

@ShadowFaerie

I still like sending a thank you card in the mail the old fashin way then a email or phone call, kind of catch the person  by surpirse.

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User Profile: ShadowFaerie
ShadowFaerie December 7th, 2025

@pamharley003 Yes, exactly 💕

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 7th, 2025

@ShadowFaerie

I agree, I find personal notes beautiful, they are more warming and knowing someone takes the time to put the effort in , is also nice 💖

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User Profile: eternalHero77
eternalHero77 December 7th, 2025

@pamharley003 Years ago Oprah Winfrey had her show on tv. She would consistently have fans do a gratitude journal. I decided to do somethin’ like it except no journal. I Had 2 young children so once the 3 of us were in bed for the night the Goal for each of us was to say 5 of each: What are we grateful for?, what are we proud of About ourselves? Then what were we proud of for one another. We did that for a few years. Once my mom passed of whom we lived with. We still did the first part I stated but now added to it was what were my children proud of their grandmother and along with her as well as the the other part added to it was what did we Wanna to accomplish in our lives. Theres more but I would say many here will get the jest of it. I always wanted my children to look at themselves and value who they were as well as have gratitude for everything including themselves regardless of how big or small it was and I too gained so much in doing this. At first it was intended to be just for them but in the end it became my thing as well.

User Profile: eternalHero77
eternalHero77 December 7th, 2025

@pamharley003 I am grateful that I have the capacity to help another person when I am able to do so.

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 December 8th, 2025

@pamharley003

Thank you for this amazing post and all the helpful information!

Who are you thankful for in your life? How do you show gratitude towards others?

I am thankful for all the people who helped me in my life, especially to 7cups who helped me to grow, understand myself and taught me to accept and love myself how I am. I am thankful for my mother who made it possible that I got a good education and my husband who stood at my side when people judged me for being different than they are and my very close friends overseas who are always there for me and deeply understand me too.

I show gratitude for being there for people, helping them and just surprising them with something they like. 

User Profile: breanac19
breanac19 December 8th, 2025

@pamharley003 I'm thankful for my family, friends, getting an education, and having a roof over my head!

User Profile: soulsings
soulsings December 9th, 2025

@pamharley003  Who are you thankful for in your life? I am grateful to everyone that played a part in my life because I would not be here without them helping me along in different ways. 


How do you show gratitude towards others? Many ways, sharing, caring and not reacting to them. 
User Profile: LeoInPerpetuity
LeoInPerpetuity December 9th, 2025

Hello @pamharley003, I'm thankful for my family, friends, and the supportive community like 7Cups. I show gratitude by expressing it directly, through kind words, small acts of care, and being present when others need me.

Gratitude is love spoken softly;
Thankful hearts shine brightest in simple acts.

User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 December 16th, 2025

@pamharley003

Who are you thankful for in your life?

My sibling. I cannot imagine living this life without her. She's my backbone.

How do you show gratitude towards others?

I like to offer people to help with their chores.