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New Year, New Me? 💜

User Profile: amazingNutella24
amazingNutella24 December 28th, 2021

Hey hey, everyone! I hope you all are doing well 💜

Happy New year, everyone 💜 As we're freshly into this new year, I do hear this a lot - New Year, New You. While this is an absolutely amazing mindset to keep moving forwards with, I like to believe more in - New Year, Better You 💜 Though it may not be possible to completely change our lives, it’s still the little steps for the betterment of self that matters! One day at a time 💜

For everyone,

1. What are some small steps you wish to take this new year to promote self-growth? Feel free to share with us 💜

(For me, one small yet life-changing step would be trying to put self-care first. As someone who easily loses track of time at work, I do believe some self-care time can help me grow 💜)

2. Tag your fellow Cupsers so that they can share with us too 💜

Tagging some amazing people: @GoldenRuleJG @cheerfulIceCream @Fristo @Bubblegumwings1234 @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @VerseArt

Good day, all 💜

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User Profile: Clarisse29
Clarisse29 January 1st, 2022

@amazingNutella24

Happy New Year!!!

1. What are some small steps you wish to take this new year to promote self-growth? Feel free to share with us 💜

I plan on setting stronger boundaries with people, acknowledging myself as a person with needs, and not feeling bad about asking for help/having someone take care of me.

2. Tag your fellow Cupsers so that they can share with us too 💜

@Bubblegumwings1234 @AriadneLove !

User Profile: 777Bre777
777Bre777 January 1st, 2022

I pick a word each year and this year it's "Focus." I want to maintain focus while growing as a person. Instead of trying to take more stuff on, I want to focus on what I'm already doing.

User Profile: Jaeteuk
Jaeteuk January 1st, 2022

I agree with you. When I'm working, I'm more of the workaholic type. I'm supposed to take 2 coffee breaks, plus a meal break, but my working personality, I am unable to just drop everything and walk away for a break (while all my other colleagues are like this). Especially when I'm in the middle of a task. So, I usually end up only taking a longer meal break instead. So, in this new year, I'm hoping to take at least one of those coffee breaks~

@amazingNutella24

User Profile: GettingBack2Mi
GettingBack2Mi January 1st, 2022

Some small steps I plan to take are:

-meditate for at least 5 min daily

-stretch for 10 min daily

-drink more water

-do something fitness or creative at least once a week.


I may go longer or do more than the minimum but I decided to set minimums as my goal so I don’t get discouraged and can still feel I accomplished something for myself.

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User Profile: Daydreamer47
Daydreamer47 January 2nd, 2022

@GettingBack2Mi Those are really good concrete steps!

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User Profile: GettingBack2Mi
GettingBack2Mi January 2nd, 2022

Thank you! I plan to stick with them too :)

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User Profile: Daydreamer47
Daydreamer47 January 2nd, 2022

My intentions/resolutions for the New Year:

1. Build/strengthen connections

2. Ask for help/express my needs/wants more

3. Take baby steps towards career/hobby goals in a mindful/peaceful way

4. Focus on my health-walk/exercise and eat more fruits and veggies.

I struggle most with breaking down "build connections" into real steps and not getting discouraged.

User Profile: rrretsuko
rrretsuko January 2nd, 2022

happy new year's, everyone ! <3

1. some small steps i wish to take this new year to promote self-growth are being more diligent with my work, remembering to be kind and understanding, and taking care of my plants and animals <3

2. tagging friends if they would like to answer as well ! :

@YourEmmmie @najijanice @Iamsidhere @FallenStarss @emotionalTalker2260 @RandoEnby @funnyZebra5328 @navyHouse3677

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User Profile: YourEmmmie
YourEmmmie January 2nd, 2022

@rrretsuko ur too sweet for thinking of me<3

1. realizing that my goal isnt to be skinny but rather to be healthy, be more confident in myself, and to also learn to be patient with myself and feelings.

2. tagging some people! <3

@TayTayy @Zoup @huntingshawty6969 @AsinineCigarette


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User Profile: rrretsuko
rrretsuko January 2nd, 2022

@YourEmmmie aw of course <3 sending love, emmie

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User Profile: RandoEnby
RandoEnby January 2nd, 2022

@rrretsuko youre so sweet. i didnt think that any listener would be thinking of me even when it comes to tagging me. c: <3

i find it difficult to follow through goals i set for myself but i do generally rely on the guideline that i set for myself that;
1. i should learn to build tolerance for people i highly disagree with.
2. to develop my patience levels regarding generally everything.

i dont talk much with anyone here so i have no one to tag so far <3

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User Profile: rrretsuko
rrretsuko January 2nd, 2022

@RandoEnby absolutely ! <3 sending much love :)

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User Profile: AriadneLove
AriadneLove January 4th, 2022

@amazingNutella24



Happy New year all! Thank you so much for sharing, noting down:) and thank you Nuty for initiating this amazing post💜

1. What are some small steps you wish to take this new year to promote self-growth?

- I will try to balance each week in a way that time is equally divided between Health, Relationships, Activities and Growth. As a person with ADHD, it is difficult for me to shift from one thing to another, so I easily can forget about lunch or read a book all night😌 Therefore, I have drafted 16 categories and a complicated gamelike system that hopefully will make balance more accessible to me😅

- and another step I would love to read a new book each week from an unknown area for me😏

User Profile: amazingNutella24
amazingNutella24 OP January 11th, 2022

@DarkPiT23 @RideaRainbow @DonaldDraper @Bubblegumwings1234 @BeautifulSun298501 @Moonlemon48 @impartialTalker5228 @nordurnStar @Clarisse29 @777Bre777 @Jaeteuk @GettingBack2Mi @Daydreamer47 @rrretsuko @YourEmmmie @RandoEnby @K8tjee @AriadneLove

Hey hey, amazing people! I loved reading through your lists of small steps towards self-growth 💜 I want to send you all best wishes for this year and I wish that you are successful in taking these steps for yourself! I absolutely admired how everyone is keen on trying to be a "Better You" 💜 Good luck with everything ahead!

P.S Loved how appreciative you all were of each other in this thread! Always makes my day to see this support 💜