I have no friends because I'm so weird and awkward
Title says it all. Anytime someone tries to talk to me that I don't know, I completely freeze up and stutter and avoid eye contact. it's just a mess. You'd think I'd grow up at 34 and be a normal person but there are so many things wrong with me. Yeah, I'd like friends, but I think it's probably for the best that I'm left alone. I don't want to ruin anybody else's life.
@thoughtfulSailboat9153 You're not weird, and you're not reuining anyone life for needing friends. it's such a human thing to want some connecting. I'm so, so sorry that you're feeling this way 🙁 Being 34 doesn't mean you gotta have perfect communication skills and stuff- you deserve being loved and seen just as you are ❤️ I'm so glad that ur here and opening about your feelings, instead of bottling up 🤍 please be gentle with yourself ❤️ We're all here for you, and you truly matter 💖 Sending you lots of love and *Big hugs* 🐾💕
Girl i get you! Im 27 and id thought id get over it but no. Its still very hard to talk to people.
Girl i get you! Im 27 and id thought id get over it but no. Its still very hard to talk to people.
@thoughtfulSailboat9153
You are definitely not weird, I am almost twice your age and don't really have any friends out side of cups.
My profile kinda explains it all. I've been an introvert all my life and social anxiety have led me to be mostly alone 😔
@QuietByNature 💝💝
Hello dear try and be going to social gatherings free your self and make friends is good to make friends just view friends.
I've read your profile and I'm 100% you. Maybe I'm shy, maybe I'm quite, but one thing's for sure. I'm an ALIEN
.At workplace, all the staffs would look and smile at each other when they walk by or talk to each other, sit with each other when they're free. But i just CANNOT do that. Even when I'm free, i can't bring myself to leave my office. Even just thinking about going over and starting a conversation with a colleague give me anxiety and my heart rate would go up. What if i sound stupid? What if i say something awkward? How will they think i look like when I'm talking to them? I'm skinny so that adds alot to my social anxiety. I know I'm extremely insecure about the way i look, how I would appear to others.
So eventually, i always end up sitting with myself during workhours/breaks.
I felt so alone. I don't have a single friend to talk to. I would just read books and watch movies or doomscroll my time away.
I see people like me in this App feeling relaxed and making friends. Talking to someone. That gave me a little bit of hope or happiness. But i still have no idea how this works, hope i would soon though.
Nice to see I'm not the only ALIEN on earth
@ambitiousStrings2749
That, you are not. 😬
I did the same when I worked, sat in my office the whole day and only go out on my lunch hour for a walk by myself. I worked a long time for the company and people would say hi to as I walked past them, I nod my head. Then I say to myself, who the heck was that. I could not put a name to the face 95% of the time, even though I seen them around for 20+ years.
I really don't talk to my neighbors, only when my wife drags me out with her then im kinda forced to make small talk. 😊🤗
This app has at least helped me find an online friend that I feel comfortable texting with. This app is all anonymous, no contact with members outside the app.
Hello dear I can be your friend if you permit me just be happy
I've read your profile and I'm 100% you. Maybe I'm shy, maybe I'm quite, but one thing's for sure. I'm an ALIEN
.At workplace, all the staffs would look and smile at each other when they walk by or talk to each other, sit with each other when they're free. But i just CANNOT do that. Even when I'm free, i can't bring myself to leave my office. Even just thinking about going over and starting a conversation with a colleague give me anxiety and my heart rate would go up. What if i sound stupid? What if i say something awkward? How will they think i look like when I'm talking to them? I'm skinny so that adds alot to my social anxiety. I know I'm extremely insecure about the way i look, how I would appear to others.
So eventually, i always end up sitting with myself during workhours/breaks.
I felt so alone. I don't have a single friend to talk to. I would just read books and watch movies or doomscroll my time away.
I see people like me in this App feeling relaxed and making friends. Talking to someone. That gave me a little bit of hope or happiness. But i still have no idea how this works, hope i would soon though.
Nice to see I'm not the only ALIEN on earth
You're not weird or awkward and even if you are that doesn't make you a bad person, sure I'm only 19 but I understand the freezing you're talking about cause I'm the same. You're not better off alone, isolation will only make your life worse. I'm no expert but if you wanna take my advice then at least try to start a conversation that both you and them are interested in. If I said it's anywhere near easy I'd be lying but difficult doesn't mean impossible.
@thoughtfulSailboat9153
I’m so sorry that you believe that you don’t have any friends bc you’re weird and awkward. But I think you’re just being yourself and that’s not weird or awkward. It’s cool, it’s bold, it’s brave, and it shows how strong you are.
Unfortunately we’ve always lived in a world where people always thought to be “normal” we have to be like everyone else, but normal and perfection go together in the same category from the perspective that they exist in people’s minds but they don’t actually exist in the real world. That’s the way I view it.
I don’t care about being “normal” by conforming to everyone else thereby trading my real self away which I will never do. I’m happy with who I am and I hope you’ll be happy with who you are if you aren’t now and realize that you’re just being yourself which isn’t weird or awkward even if others think it is. Everyone’s different and lives differently so what may seem weird or awkward to someone else could actually just be you being you. Simple as that and there’s nothing wrong with that
Hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@thoughtfulSailboat9153 Hey there. You're not weird. You just communicate differently from others. Maybe you don't feel like talking at all. It's ok. Don't beat yourself up. We live within a society that demands us to act certain ways which we probably don't always a line with. That's ok. And you can make lots of friends on here if you want to.
@thoughtfulSailboat9153
Two things, either you didn't find the one or it's better to stay alone, but it's clear that you want to find him, so look for him, don't wait for him to come.
Heyy man, don't say bad things like that, it's okay if u avoid eye contact and freeze up or stutters, nobody is perfect uk, and about the last part, it's not better to be left alone, we are social animals and u deserve to be surrounded and loved
