the reason why i'm here is because i want to feel less lonely
this self loving journey is so difficult:( i prefer to post a thread than chat, it's better when ghosted on a thread than ghosted in chat with listener
@hopefulencounter
You'll never be ghosted here 💛
@Amanda84 thanks T__T
@Amanda84
I’m sorry for embarrassing and humiliating myself by making myself look less cool by the following but to be honest I’m not familiar with all of the current slang words. What does ghosted mean??
@akunknown ghosted is like when someone ignored you without a closure, just suddenly not responding to you
@hopefulencounter
hiii, I hope you feel less lonely. I reply to you because i feel the same way 💗
@independentPlumie thank you :")
i didn't like it when i already typed a lot but then they stopped replying 😞
I'm sorry that happened to you, it's truly unpleasant and a lonely feeling 💗
@hopefulencounter
Am sorry you feel or experienced this dearie 🤍
Take care of yourself
Can we talk
I feel you.
At times I feel what's the point of even trying anymore.
I hope you find people that will stick by you and don't have to worry about being ghosted.
But I think both are equally hard when the silence hits.
@Layfon21 Thank you for saying that. I'm sorry you've felt that way too. The silence can really make you question a lot, but I hope neither of us lets it convince us that we're not worth sticking around for. We both deserve people who communicate, stay, and care. I genuinely hope things get easier for you too..
Thank you.
At this point I've dealt with it so long that I've come to terms with it.
Just going to go on with life and await what comes to me instead of getting more depressed for what hasn't come or won't.
I'm lucky enough to have a family but unfortunately no one understands what goes on in my head. How deep the darkness goes. But they are more than enough to keep me going.
Stay strong! We only have this 1 life to live. So much to see and so much to learn!
@Layfon21 that's good to hear, I'm glad. by the way, my family is like that too. I feel like they're looking down on me or see me as stupid sometimes, they don't really understand me and how noisy my thoughts are 😅. I wish the best for both of us, may we always be heard
Hehe yes, may we always be heard even if it is just ourselves mentally. So we never stop fighting. 😊
(But yes on the family, hate when they say just go to sleep. I can't! A millions thoughts race around and I have to listen to each one 😑) lol.
@hopefulencounter I can relate to this. You're not alone, I'm here for you 💜
@fossilfellow that means a lot to hear. thank you for your kindness and for reminding me that I don't have to go through things alone. 🧡
@hopefulencounter ❤️❤️❤️
@hopefulencounter I think your behavior is good for saying this. What made you feel lonely?
@HealingwithMinionn i'm lonely because i feel like i'm taken by granted, all of my friends are leaving me and they have new friends. they also look more successful than me now
@hopefulencounter being ghosted by a listener is frustrating, its happened to me more than once
@amusingWest5360 yes it is, when that happened I ended up questioning myself 😅
@hopefulencounter I'm really sorry that you experienced that. I hope you are able to find a safe space where you feel comfortable expressing yourself without fear of getting ghosted. You deserve all of that and more.
@beautifulJoy6475 thank you🧡
i was ghosted by some listeners, if not ghosted, they replied shortly then not replying again :/ it's such an unhappy experience
@hopefulencounter
I am sorry you had that experience. I am often lonely and there really is no substitute for talking with a real person. Personally I like the threads better than listener chats. I don't know what to say to listeners.
@carefulEast6708 I understand you, yes apparently this site is the best for me to share. I've tried other apps, they're worse
I'm grateful for 7cups, it's just what annoyed me was the listener that seemed uninterested with my problem so they replied shortly then ended the chat 😞👍
@hopefulencounter I am also so lonely, it seems that no matter what I do I feel as though I’m excluded. It is a relief to know perhaps that there are many others that also struggle with loneliness, like me, I do have one support group of 3 other people and I feel so unseen, my father is end life and no one checks in or even acknowledges me, which also raises abandonment tensions in me, I’m here if you would like to chat, finding someone to talk would be like a breath of fresh air so I’m giving this platform a go , and very best of luck to you, let’s not give up
@kindMaple8745 thank you for sharing that. i'm so sorry you're going through so much, especially with your dad. feeling unseen when you need support the most is incredibly hard. i'm really glad you reached out. sending you so much care, and i hope we both find a little more light and kindness along the way. 🧡
@hopefulencounter
If that is the reason you came here be glad you did bc you came to the right place. While I still feel lonely since being here I honestly feel less lonely than I was before I came here. I hope the same thing happens to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@akunknown :") yes, this is actually the best site for sharing. i come back here often, i hope i'm not annoying 😹
People who ghost others should be banned
@ResonantRadiance if only i knew i'd be ghosted, i wouldn't interact with that person at all
