Discussion 05: Ethical, Cultural, and Group Management Issues
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This discussion highlighted some of the major points related to ethical, cultural, and group management
The competent group leaders act ethically in leading the groups. And, achieving this type of competence requires more than good intentions. Many well-intended group leaders have engaged in an activity while lacking solid ethical principles. It could probably be because of unawareness of the code of conduct and guidelines. So, a high level of familiarity with the guidelines is important so they act as professionals and leaders while leading any group.
A few points to remember:
Privacy and Confidentiality. It could be possible a group leader may also be a long term listener for a member. Members might have shared their situation in detail with them in a 1:1 setup. But, when you are a group leader, you need to ensure you are not bringing up the matter discussed in 1:1 with members unless the members themselves bring up the topic and discuss it with the rest of the group as well.
Follow Community Guidelines. Preach what you can follow. As a group leader, you would need to intervene from time to time to ensure the group is running effectively. Reminding users that they follow community and chatroom guidelines while participating. But, at the same time, remember to be the first to follow the guidelines too. So, you are able to model the role behavior in the groups.
Make unbiased decisions. In a group, everyone is equal to you as a leader. Even if you communicate with some of them more frequently than others. If anything goes wrong or you find anyone being unsupportive or unacceptable behavior, take the decisions without any bias. So, the group could trust you and know that you are impartial and there for everyone and against wrong behaviors. For more, here are the community guidelines.
Members in the group come from different backgrounds, demographics, and cultural differences. So, as a leader, it is significant to respect and acknowledge the cultural differences and highlight the common grounds to connect all members of the group. Such behavior allows members to feel inclusive and comfortable in the groups to share.
And the group management issues include conflict management. You may observe that sometimes misunderstanding or disagreement causes conflict between two or more people leading to an unsupportive and unhealthy environment in the room. So as a leader, it is your time to take action and settle down the conflict to ensure room and group stay supportive and comfortable around each other. Spontaneity is the key to restrict such events from happening.
Discussion: What is one ethical, cultural, or group management issue you recognized in the room? What would you do to handle it?
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@ASilentObserver
Discussion: What is one ethical, cultural, or group management issue you recognized in the room? What would you do to handle it?
Finding things everyone has in common can be such a difficult but doable task! I have seen icebreakers always open up those avenues.
@kindFish9215 another way you can rectify that issue is to knowledge that we all have different backgrounds. Religion is a sticky subject especially when you don't want to offend anyone so I would leave religion out of it if at all possible. You can stay in the room that you are aware that we come from different backgrounds altogether including religion. However you could State that you recognize person Faith.
What is one ethical, cultural, or group management issue you recognized in the room? What would you do to handle it?
@FrenchToastClub
Cliques can really make new comers feel unwelcome. Glad you want to keep the space open for people outside the cliques.
@ASilentObserver
I'm not sure if this falls under a cultural issue but there has been times where a language other than english has been used. Its exclusionary to those who cannot understand that particular language and cups has made it clear in that english is what should be used in chatrooms to try overcome thie barrier.
I've asked for the conversation to continue in english (as per the guidelines) so that we can all understand and follow along.
What is one ethical, cultural, or group management issue you recognized in the room? What would you do to handle it?
I think majorly it is the language barriers, because I've spoken to many people who need to use translating apps or have not the best grammar due to different languages being spoken. Then there are usually explanations, because if you didn't know what someone meant, how do you respond to it?
Really, reminding people to be respectful of language barriers would be helpful, as some people need to translate and their grammar or spelling may not be perfect.
@Kpopcat2020
Thanks for adding on a bit more about how language can be a barrier!
@Kpopcat2020
That's really insightful. I wonder if some kind of english language guide or something could be made? I feel like there might be an opportunity for us all to learn from each other here that we're missing!
@Kpopcat2020 I didn't think before that people could be using language translator apps. Imagine how terrible some comments can come off as, especially irony and hyperboles! Thank you for sharing this.
@Kpopcat2020
True.
@ASilentObserver
What is one ethical, cultural, or group management issue you recognized in the room? What would you do to handle it?
Group management: I recognized a mod and a member kind of snapping at each other. And the mod seemed to be rude instead of being professional, this mod expressed their frustrations and the emotion part got in the way. I would have handled it a little different, i would have expressed please do not “do abc” and than if the member decided to continue to keep going about it, i would have been professional and expressed “i know you may be feeling some tense emotions right now towards me, but what can we do to solve this?” Also if you have any concerns about the group rules I would have given them “abc” resources.
@ASilentObserver Issues that I recognised in certain rooms of the 7cups community are:
* Newcomers feeling unwelcome in an ongoing discussion and as a result, not trying to participate at all.
* Sometimes some members just start talking in their native language that some of them may understand, but the others do not.
* It might turn into a 1 on 1 chat as many fellow Academy members have already brought up.
* Sarcasm or jokes can be taken seriously and may cause unnecessary escalation.
I feel that it is a challenge to talk online through texts as compared to a normal day to day conversation that we might have with people, because we do not get to see expressions or make any eye to eye contact. Hence it can be a little difficult at times trying to understand what the other person is saying.
@StargirlTina I do agree with you on the first point. People dont tend to participate because they feel they wouldnt fit in
One group management issue that I have faced is the forming of cliques. I think it is hard when cliques form and a new member comes in. It can be challenging for a member to join in the conversation because cliques are exclusive to others, leaving them ignored, and not able to get support. This creates an unwelcoming and unsupportive environment, which cups should not be. I think that in these scenarios, it is important to bridge the gap between the older members and the new ones. You can use options like posting icebreakers or having a new game that nobody has played before. I can also make sure to welcome anybody that enters the room and ask how they are doing. It's a small step, but it can make a difference in making someone feel not alone. It can be lovely to make strong bonds with friends, but also important that we can maintain everyone feeling welcome and included.
@Estrellitaa
I totally agree with you Estreeee. Bridging that gap between old and new members is difficult but I love your suggestions to do so!
@Estrellitaa
I totally agree Estre, that's super important :D !
Tabby
@ASilentObserver
What is one ethical, cultural, or group management issue you recognized in the room? What would you do to handle it?
1) I think there is a tendency to view things from a white western lense on many platforms including cups and I would be really interested in finding more ways that we can shift that.
I adore that as a community we try and shine the spotlight on different holidays/celebrations/cultures in the forums but I feel like this is missing slightly from group support.
Perhaps we could create some feedback groups particularly for people who are not in the UK/USA/Aus to share there experiences of the platform?
2) In the group rooms I've seen a few instances of people using different languages. I agree that we need to have a central language to use on cups and I understand the reasoning for choosing English as that language but what if we could include other languages too? Maybe a language exchange/lesson or saying hello in a variety of languages could be acceptable?
When in the group rooms I've just kindly reminded the member of using english and why it's important and then asked them something else about there language, in English e.g. does it have a similar alphabet to english or how many languages can you speak etc. This shows that I care about language and culture but still promoting the rules.
@ASilentObserver What is one ethical, cultural, or group management issue you recognized in the room? What would you do to handle it?
I feel one main problem existing in groups if feeling left out of the conversations. usually the topics concern a specific people and the others feel out of the conversation not knowing how to take part in the conversation.
I would try to handle it by welcoming everyone and discussing on a certain topic rather than a random topic to ensure everyone is a part of it
@ASilentObserver
What is one ethical, cultural, or group management issue you recognized in the room? What would you do to handle it?
I have to say 1-1 chats, we are a group, which means everyone gets a chance to participate.
It gives other members a feeling of being left out, and most questions can be easily ignored.
What would you do to handle it?
I would kindly ask them to involve others as well or suggest a topic we can all talk about, suggest a game, or anything that goes along with a group.if they wish to carry on with their chat there is PM for that, and all good💜
@jasmineishereforu Thats one of the things we could do!! It would be a great way to engage a lot of people
@yourbuddy30 I completely agree😊❤️
@jasmineishereforu
That is an amazing way to approach it :)!
Tabby