Honoring Roadie's One-Year Anniversary
Oh man, so is this a special day or what?
One year ago to the day (time zones are silly), an amazing fella with a heart of gold joined the site. People could instantly see that he was something special, just in the way that he carried himself with such respect, and treated others like family, even upon first meeting. He was always member-oriented, but always had a knack for helping out other listeners. The humility he retained in that process was nothing short of amazing. He climbed the ranks, eventually earning the position of mentor leader, and now he does a lot, working with members and ensuring we're not running around like our heads are cut off.
In honor of this amazing milestone in your 7Cups career, @FlowerInDisguise19 and I worked on making this event extra special for you. She's put together an entire slideshow for you; so, despite your busy schedule, we require a few things from you.
1) Get a cup of coffee. Or tea. Or really good chocolate milk. We'll wait, don't worry.
2) If it's cold, wrap yourself up in a blanket. Get that Snuggie that's been dying to be worn; we don't care, just get comfortable.
3) Click on this link. Prop your feet up and enjoy the love!
I have to make a few amendments to this slideshow, however, as there were few comments that didn't make it (late submitters, it happens).
@Lyra : "Dear dance partner,
You're about 90% of the reason that I keep on plugging away in the forums, and I've probably told you this before, but you inspire me to be the best listener and best member of this community that I can be. Enjoy your Cupsaversery, and please take a moment to reflect on just what an amazing difference you've made here in just a year - here's to another amazing one to come!"
@ZaraSmiles : "Roadie, man, what do I say about you? I don't know what words would even begin to capture how much of a role model you've been to me, how much of a great example you lead and what a wonderful human being you are. I remember, the first time I came across you was in my fave thread, the Proud of Myself Because thread, and there you were, bringing your usual Roadie-esque sense of support, compassion and forum protractor-ness to all the members. My first impression of you was "This is my forum role model, no doubt about it." Since then, you've grown in my heart to earn the highest admiration and respect for everything you do and most importantly, for who you are as a great person too. You, along with the lovely OliviaButler, have been my ultimate forum inspirations and I will never be able to repay how much you've (unknowingly) mentored me in so many ways. I've always had the greatest adoration for your calm sensible way of handling things, your uniquely thoughtful way of phrasing things and who can forget your compassion and beautiful forum posts? I cannot wait for the day I am able to PM you, my dear role model. Know that I am thankful for all you have done in your year here and that I wish you so many more anniversaries after this. Happy anniversary, my forum protractor, and have a great one <3"
@OrunLeon - "Roadie, thanks for being awesome. Happy one year anniversary, and keep up the good work dude!"
Lastly, my silly self hasn't said a damn thing, so here goes:
I will never forget the first day that I messaged you, and I know I've said that a million times by now, but hear me out. I had seen you around, and found you to be really amazing, so I shot a PM your way. In response, I got a really large paragraph, filled with amazingly cool things. I was so surprised that I had gotten such a response, as in this day in age, it's usually more appropriate, and more in the norm to reply with something shorthanded and barely... English. But you've always had much more respect than that. You're such an easy person to open up to; I've told you about large parts of my life that you still remember and reference in conversation. We're not the type of friends who need to be up each other's butts all the time, but rather, can get peace in the interactions we do share. Sometimes they'll be few and far between, sometimes we'll write letters; it's a really interesting dynamic. To be honest, your humility has always amazed me, your passion and your wit about you has always been charming and admirable. I have never seen you give up on a single person, I've never seen you be mean to a single person, and I've never met someone who's found you to be less than amazing. Happy 1-year anniversary, lovely Roadie. I look forward to more years of us doing amazing things in the forums together.
If you missed the link presented above, you can also click here to view the slideshow. That being said, thank you to everyone who contributed! <3
@GlenM, @amboredd, @Bane, @Mirage2632, @advictoriam, @heartsncupcakes, @TheDeaningOfLife, @RocketsMom, @AkankshaP, @sunshineNrainbows, @Iara, @Kash216, @Gracey, @MissZ, @Georgie4, @DHawks, @Chrissy, @Annie, @FlowerInDisguise19
Wow, happy one-year anniversary Roadie!
I've said so before, and I'll say it again, I have the highest respect you you @Roadie. Your integrity, humility and compassion lights the way for us all.
Happy one year anniversary, Roadie <3 I hope you continue to thrive, teach, preach, and stay with us because youre an awesome part of the community.
@Roadie Hey you, so it's been a year eh? I still remember you when you were new and we used to hang out in the chatrooms with dawni (oh how i miss her <3 ) Ah well, those were the good days! I've seen you grow so much as a listener and I'm nothing less than proud of you. You are an amazing listener, and even a better friend. I'm so lucky to have met you and talked to you so much! Would you be my mentor, Roadie? ;) :D
Happy one-year anniversary, @Roadie! I always admires your insights and I'm enjoying every time we talk (though they only happen twice lol, hoping they'll be increasing). You've becoming one of lots of listeners that I always look up to!
Thank you everyone. It's very humbling to read this. And thank you @Cadence and @FlowerinDisguise19 for organising this. .. even if you did mention the nana blanket (which one of the girls has .. procured)
It's been a long year, a rewarding year in the same breath. I've seen many people come and I've seen many people go (I miss @camelopardisblue aka Dawni as well, @Anushka1). It's a bit like being a rather large and cumbersome boulder in the middle of a set of rapids. Water flying by every day.. sometimes fast flowing and sometimes closer to a trickle.. but always flowing. But it's always changing. Such is the site that we call 7Cups.
I've had two formal mentors and a number of role models over the last year. And the latter come from all corners of the community - both member and listener. There are some incredibly special people that choose to spend some time here and while I would love to acknowledge everybody that deserves appreciation on this site, I can't.
If you can imagine thousands of people pushing the world's biggest bus up a steep hill, it's not only the biggest and strongest that help with that. It's everyone - big, small, and in between - and so it is here. So for all the listeners here - new listener, experienced listener, and in between - I both acknowledge you and appreciate you. Thanks.
Congrats, Roadie!!! You know I think the world of you, and am truly amazed by everything you have done in just a single year. Looking forward to much more time working together and seeing all the amazing difference you make in the world! 
Happy 7Cupsaversary @Roadie!

