Cheers to the heart of broken
I just went to sleep n woke the same without the comfort n feelings of compassion i so needed, I’m tired of figuring things by myself, tired of guidance by trial n error I just need somebody or ppl that would cheer on me without constantly trying to hold it together myself its so lonely n I’m struggling w my own compassion, i did so much this year to ppl but none of them gave me back, world is shallow n i wish somebody gave me back what i need 🙏🏻😔🌷❤️💔❤️🌷
please cheer my heart on🙏🏻🌷
@livbinny
hang in there! ❤️
I feel the same way! We got this.
I feel the same. Thanks for speaking out. We will get through this too. ♥️♥️
Another poster i can say i go through the same, if that helps at all. Waking in the morning has been worst for me for years, alone, no one to find comfort. Tried reaching out for new friends, found bumps and hard knocks instead. It IS tiring. And old. I have learned to give myself the grace to know I’m a good person trying my best in a difficult world. Still I cannot influence people to care about me. And so it’s having to learn to go through life alone. Hard to find joy in this but I keep trudging on.
@livbinny you got this! Moving the world around us is a heavy task, you can surelly move it right now (and find a listener in me if you need someone to listen). 👋🏻
@livbinny
It sounds like you feel under valued, under appreciated and lacking in support. It sounds so familiar. I used to feel like that all the time. Sometimes I still do. But it has got better for me. So we can hope it will get better for you too.
Keep trying. Try something a bit different. It might work. It probably won't. But come here and tell us what you tried, so we can celebrate the trying with you. Eventually I think you will find what works for you.
And come here again and tell us when you are fed up with trying again. Its OK to be fed up with trying. It's hard thankless work. Find the stubbornness in the anger of its not fair to try once more.
This morning I was fed up with trying. I'm going to get up and try once more for you.
@livbinny You are definitely not alone. Chin up.
@livbinny You're doing great and I feel lonely sometimes as well. I learned over the past few years that I'll only give my energy where it's deserved, since I only have so much of it. Learning to love myself helped me to create healthy boundaries, so I didn't give too much, and leave myself exhausted.
I wish you the best. You can do this! You're strong and capable of enduring this and finding friends on the other side that will value you.
Thanks, honestly I love socializing n just being w ppl so I always have a lot to say n that’s where I cannot stop cuz I have so much to express plus I do show them care with surprises cuz im grateful but then it always leads up overboard n only way out is to cut ties off
but all of them hurt me either way so I did :(
just saying
i dedicated 2024 for making friends but this happened every time i did
i don’t have hope for ppl but I’m glad u think i can still do it
@livbinny
I hear you, I see you and I understand.
You deserve the compassion you give, and I believe it will come your wayð«¶