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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat April 8th

What’s a win no one noticed… but meant everything to u? 

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@AiluraTheCat What I am gonna say might sound weird so be readyy.. Everytime I have any argument with my best friend or I feel like she doesn't care about me, I do a little thing to test her. So whenever we are like walking home after coaching I walk slowly and sometimes stop to fix my shoe just to see if she will stop or not and she does stop every time for me. This one single thing is a win for me. It might sound very strange to someone else but for me Its everything..

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AiluraTheCat OP May 5th

@SmoothOpertor55

Hey Smooth <3 🤗

Frist of all, that doesn’t sound weird in anyway to me 😊, it sounds like you’re quietly looking for reassurance in a way that feels safe to you. yk Ppl's actually do sort of things in secret and that's not something wrong, untill it's harmless 😊! Yk, i find you adorable here tbh (⁠/⁠^⁠-⁠^⁠(⁠^⁠ ⁠^⁠*⁠)⁠/

That small moment matters a lot i know, because it shows she notices you and chooses to stay, and I get why that means everything to you 🤗!! 

I'm so happy for you to have kinda friend in ur life 😊💕

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 May 5th

@AiluraTheCat

💛

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AiluraTheCat OP May 7th

@Amanda84

🤗🤗💗💗

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User Profile: CaringSource
CaringSource May 5th

Inner peace 🕊️

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AiluraTheCat OP May 7th

@CaringSource

That's beautiful 😊, I'm so happy for ya <3 🤗


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@AiluraTheCat

I read some poems😄😄

User Profile: eternalHero77
eternalHero77 June 24th

@AiluraTheCat Waking up earlier than usual and taking out personal time to spend alone wit God.

@AiluraTheCat

I got my first pointe shoes a few months ago but my mom didn't congratulate me and my dad kind of just ignored it and only cared about the price. I kid you not, my friend's mother was happier for me than my own parents were. 


not harming myself for 3 days :)

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User Profile: stormieandpaws
stormieandpaws June 25th

@placidTortoise8392

thank great and a big win be proud of your self keep going 

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thank you, i’m trying my best

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stormieandpaws June 25th

@AiluraTheCat

for me it a win after a slip up with self harm i not did for very long time

but i came to see why it happened this time were i not in past it was this time due to being dismissed when i voiced how i was feeling and a  true need  it to me just felt like at first i did something wrong by reaching out saying how i felt then end up feeling like a burden to others this very fast built up to being angry  at self and lashing out at self that end in me self harming due to not being heard and feeling hurt that what i see now

so a new understand as  to  why i did it is a win for me

User Profile: juaannmnnnnnn
juaannmnnnnnn June 25th

I stoped trying to talk with my ex in pinterest

Finishing my Bachelor's in 15% of the time that I took to finish my Associates. No it's not timed. But DAMN I REALLY DID THT :)