Reflections on the Year so far
Hey folks
Today June begins. We have completed 5 months into the year.
Looking back, how do you reflect on your journey?
Are you happy with how you have grown?
What are you going to do differently for the remainder of the year?
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For me. I spent a lot of time on the marriage app .. and even though good has come out of it... Ive met some nice people and acquired knowledge of whats going around in the marriage hunt market in my culture... its kinda not the place for me ... So Im rerouting from there.
I also explored a lot of my fashion interests. And that was really fun. But its saturated now and im shifting the focus to books again. I had taken a long break from reading. I intend to read at least 1 book every month.
I have been using cups less but I keep connecting on the forums again every now and then. I really love the vibe here and the friends too. That will stay the same :)
I need to work out regularly.... and control sugar .... no more slack.
Ive also got Netflix now.. yes im behind.. everyone i know has had it for long... but i had lost interest in movies.. its kinda picking up a bit now...
Im off my depression med after gradual tapering. And adjusting fine. so I hope that stays in tact.
Writing. Ive been exploring different ideas. And I might be arriving to lightbulb moments where it feels just right.
Now tell me about your updates.
@Amanda84
@jesusredeemedme2425
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
@peachthinker662
@YourCaringConfidant
@IzzyGamer
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
@mytwistedsoul
@Torean
@chillmoon
@Heather225
@LoveHashira
@Creamyyy
This is gonna be long. Gather some energy to read it xD
Reading your update, it sounds like you've spent these past months exploring different parts of yourself and figuring out what truly fits you. I liked how you described stepping back from the marriage app, not because it was all bad, but because you realized it wasn't where you wanted to invest your energy :) that's wise, and kind of self-awareness is valuable I'd say <3
It's also nice to see you reconnecting with books after a long break :) I've seen you talking about books using my member account actualy and I loved it! One book a month sounds like a realistic and enjoyable goal And honestly, I can relate to needing to be more intentional with time and habits. 🤗
As for me,
Looking back at these 5 months, I can't say I've been fully satisfied with my progress, but I can say I've learned a lot about myself 😊. I've realized that discipline is something I need to build every day rather than wait to feel motivated for.
I've been working on improving my health, building better habits, and becoming mentally stronger. Some days have gone well, while others felt like I was standing still, but I'm still moving forward <3
For the rest of the year, I want to spend less time scrolling and more time investing in the goals that truly matter to me :) I want to stay consistent with exercise, take better care of myself, read more, and focus on growth instead of perfection.
And congratulations on coming off your medication and adjusting well. That's a significant milestone. 😊 Wishing you lots of good books, creative breakthroughs, and continued happiness for the second half of the year!
*Hugs* 🤗
Thank you for your loving encouragement 💛
Good point you made about working on discipline and not waiting for motivation to arrive. I can use that for some goals like working out. But for creative pursuits the clock works in its own way.
Figuring out what truly matters is important. Im sort of doing that as well.
@LoveHashira
@Creamyyy
A pleasure 😊.
I am glad to hear that. i think we somehow walking the similar path. Together we got it.
@Creamyyy I enjoyed reading what's new with you. Thanks for sharing. I hope things continue to go well with you and you get done everything you hope to. Happy June, my Creamyyy friend. ♡☆
As for me-- I just want to say I'm my "regular", but I know it's not true. I'm filled with certain things internally and every day I have to distract myself with either 7 Cups or the Finch app just to help me get through the day. I literally just take it one day at a time because it's all I can do.
Reflecting on the past 5 months so far... I've done a pretty great job being consistent with appointments and that's big for me. 👏
I've allowed more people to come back in my life. The circumstances I won't disclose, but to allow my heart to open and do family bonding... well, that's big for me too. 👏
Like you, I have every intention to read more. I don't do it enough but since it's summer time, I will be picking up a book! As a matter fact, tomorrow me and the kiddos will go to the library and pick up our summer reading log to begin officially. I am excited! 😀
Anyway, that's all I have to share now. Hope you have a great day!
@YourCaringConfidant
Letting people in again is Huuuugeeee! 💖 I’m sooo proud of youu and yayy for staying consistent with your appointments, Desiree. 🤗
Whatcha planning to read?😮
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou 🌞!!!!! How are you? So happy to see you!
@YourCaringConfidant Aww that’s such a sweeeett thing to hear! And the gif ooof🥺🫂💖 Missedd you too, Desiree and always super happy to run into you in the forumland! 🥰
Me been alrightyy hehe, making it through the ups and downs like always xD Got to visit this nature retreat recently with family though, and it was a greattt experience, away from the hustle and bustle of city life. Also didn’t get to use my phone much, the break was nice!
How have youu been? 🤗💖
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou Awww. I'm so glad you had a great time at the retreat with your family! So happy for you, 🌞! It's actually great that you took a break from 7 Cups and got out and enjoying life! This makes me happy to hear. But still, I'm happy you're back. It's always a joy! 🥰😘
@YourCaringConfidant Hehe yes just a break from everything! xD
Aw yes yes I don’t want to fully disappear from here ever either haha, sooo this sun will be aroundddd every once a while! 🥰💖
I hope life’s been treating you with lots of kindness and loveee, I know you’d ace through whatever anywayyy. Much love always, Desiree! Thank youuu for adding sooo much colour here. 🤗💖
Cups is a healthy distraction for me. Im a love kid. I take the paths where I spot love. That kinda shapes my goals too.
Its amazing to open your heart towards family bonding. Its certainly not easy.
I havent truly appreciated a lot of my family and even social connections and even tagging along for maintaining social decorum has kinda felt burdensome. Because you really want to be true to yourself and not be pretentious. I guess they know through my body language how I feel, lol. I made efforts before. Distance is better for me since a while.
I just hope I can find good new connections that are more of a wavelength match.
@YourCaringConfidant
Sameee about being less active on cups but still trying to stay in touch or hop in every now and then. It’s wholesome in a way, how even when things can feel overwhelming or demanding off-cups, we still find our way back here. 💖
And also what? June? 😮 Time has been flying but I’ve realised that no good comes out of complaining about it, once a while I’ll still do though xD embracing the “hooman-ness” in me unapologetically!
Not too many fun updates on my part hehe, but I got to travel with family, few short trips, road trips too and I’ve liked that part about this year the most.
Aside of it, my fair share of ups and downs have held me occupied, I don’t mind the downs much xD I’ve got my comfy mattresss fixeddddd on like 3 levels below the rock bottom and some emergency pizza for support so we are doing just fineee lol! 🥰
Ooh and it was one of my “to dos” to read more this year but other things overpowered this one and it took backseat. Nevertheless I’m considering this a reminder and will pick atleast one book today, even 5-10 pages count right?! 🤧💖
I’m always happy to hear from you, @Creamyyy 🫂💖 you’re one of those friendly “faces” I hope to spot around here every time I log in here and to have a tag waiting from you in my notifications is just extra delightful.
Great to hear you’re exploring the writer inside you more anddd that you’re off your medicines, hope you continue to feel better on this front. Our health being good is quintessential I feel, rest everything can literally always wait, and be attended to, at our pace! We’ve got this! 🫂💖
I love hearing from you too. Your energy is enthusiastic and it makes me happy seeing your posts 🤗
Traveling sounds adventurous. Where did you go to?
I attempted making some travel plans too but they got stalled. Lol. Lets see.
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
@Creamyyy
My year is going good, it's flying on to be honest 💚🤗
Chaotic at times.
But I'm glad to be making more memories with the people I love 🩷🤗
So you’re going to do the summer reading programs and watch Million Dollar Secret? ;)
@Creamyyy
Im happy to hear that things have been alright for you. I hope things continue to improve. (:
Its crazy to think that its already June, time is going by way to fast. 🙃 There has been lots of ups and downs for me tbh. I'm just doing my best in trying to navigate my chaotic life.
Not really sure if I've grown, and if I have then I guess I'm kind of happy with it? Been trying to cut myself off or distance myself from the parts of my past that I no longer want to be controlled and hurt by. Its just hard facing the past again but it is something that is unavoidable atp. Also been seriously considering for the first time whether or not I want to get help with all of this. Still not sure about it tho.
For the rest of the year I want to try to get back to doing some of things I used to enjoy and also try to find other things as well. Maybe I'll finally finish some projects I've been wanting to finish lol. 🙂
Im really glad youre making efforts for yourself. Thats all that matters. 🩷
Getting help > give it a shot.
I tried therapy. It wasnt a good fit. But thats because in my culture all the therapy is religion focused. And they gave me *** judgment that was no good.
But if you feel there is something good out there, check around. I know a lot of people have benefitted from right support.
The good therapists often have so much knowledge and can help you identify pattern in your mind that are not beneficial for you.
I hope you finish your projects. I hope I finish mine too. 🤗
@IzzyGamer
@Creamyyy
I'm sorry I left
It wasn't right
Please still be there
My motion
My might
Oh no need to apologise. Youve been deeply missed though. ð©·
So happy to see you again.... how have you been?
@cyanessence
@Creamyyy
I spent much of my absence counting the costs of my disappearance. Despite our distances, I feel I am heard here, even though my writing has no volume.
@Amanda84
I don't want to cry when I think of what I have missed here, though I do, and each tear brings tears to my eyes.
@cyanessence
What a significant achievement of weaning yourself off of antidepressants (and doing so safely)! I like how you continue to learn about yourself and identify your needs, wants and preferences
For me this year has really busy and I know I’m experiencing a high level of stress, but I’ve had a lot of growth professionally and personally. Also, I’m 5 months closer to my graduate degree than I was at the beginning of the year!
