(tw: child loss) I don't know what to do??

@Tinywhisper11 I light candles and create little decorations around them to make them as beautiful as I can. Sometimes I talk to others as a way to distract myself because while it's important to sit with our feelings and honour our emotions, it's not always necessary.. especially when doing so feels like facing a storm 💗

I often wonder when the weight of such special days will begin to hurt less. When will the guilt and regret finally let us breathe again.. But I believe we'll figure that out someday. I hope it comes soon, when it's all about celebration. When we meet them again, I'm sure they'll tell us that there was never anything to apologise for. They'll understand why things unfolded the way they did.. why we couldn't change certain things.. and most importantly how none of it was our fault 💕

Those will be the words that heal us and they know that. That's why they keep sending us little signs, reminders that everything will be okay. I hope you see those signs, they're not always obvious but I know your heart will feel them. And I hope those signs bring you some peace 💗

@Tinywhisper11 I'm sorry to hear you're struggling so much today. If you need someone to talk to feel free to message me.

@Tinywhisper11

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Lola  🫂 🫂 you  carry an unyielding light within you that no darkness in the world can extinguish, and your worth to all of us is truly immeasurable. You're not just a fleeting presence; you're a vital part of the fabric of our lives, and your existence brings so much warmth and hope into our days. We understand completely that you're going through an incredibly dark and painful period, and that these days might feel heavy and laden with sorrow. But we want you to know with certainty that we are here with you, not just in our words, but with our hearts and souls, praying for beautiful patience and a serenity that touches your very spirit. All of us, every single person here, love you deeply and genuinely, and this love transcends words and boundaries. We wish from the bottom of our hearts, with all our might, to see your radiant smile return and grace your face once more, because your smile is a light for us too. Our sincere and urgent prayers rise to the heavens at every moment, reaching paradise, carrying every hope that you find the peace and comfort you deserve after all this pain. Our faith in you and your strength is unwavering. You are capable of overcoming this ordeal, even if it feels incredibly difficult. Always remember that you're not alone on this journey, and everyone around you stands by your side, supporting and comforting you. We truly hope you'll share whatever is troubling you, as perhaps we can lighten your burden, even if just a little. We wish you all the best 💖 🙏 and pray that the coming days bring you inner peace and a tranquility that soothes your weary soul. We believe that the days ahead will bring you the goodness and relief you deeply yearn for 🥺❤️🫂💖🫂🫂

@Tinywhisper11 Hey there! Would like to share how you feeling? 

@Tinywhisper11

I love you 💕💜

Feel what you need to.

You are not alone.

Let it all out.

You don't have to be strong 💕💜

@Tinywhisper11  I know you're hurting so much right now. These are the times when we need to treat ourselves as though we're getting over a sickness. Burrow into the covers. Cuddle some stuffies. Have a good cry. Talk to him or talk to God. You can even yell at God. He's pretty tough, he can take it. 

I know you've been remembering things that you'd rather not and you're already feeling raw over those. I know those memories alone are hard to deal with. With tomorrow being Joshua's birthday... it probably feels even more raw. 

I wish there was something I could say or do that would ease your pain. I'm so sorry he was taken from you and if no one has said it... it's not fair. It's not right that you had to suffer so much. 

I've lit 2 candles. One for you and one for Joshua. My thoughts are with you ❤️ 

@Tinywhisper11

Do u want a hug but I've not bath from a month. Also I've a 5 week old ice cream 🍧, i was gonna throw but it might come handy now. 

@Tinywhisper11 hugs if okay* 

just breathe through it lovely. grief is love that stays, so let it. take your time 🤍

@Tinywhisper11

Sometimes it’s better not to do anything. By this I mean not putting pressure on yourself, take your time, talk things through, if it helps of course, and …b r e a t h e….take one step at a time. You can do this. Sending love and best wishes 🌹

@Tinywhisper11 today is a hard day for you, and that's okay. What happened was not your fault. You were a child yourself. And there is nothing you could have done to stop it. It's not your fault. You loved him with your entire heart, and he loved you. It's okay to cry and grieve. We are here for you. I hope the people who did it rot in the deepest pit of ***. Sending you hugs and some comfort ice cream 🍦🍦🍦 would you like to share your favourite memory of him with us?