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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 September 22nd, 2021


Hello beautiful people in Mindfulness

If you could see a measuring scale above people's heads, what would you want this scale to measure?



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September 22nd, 2021

I would definitely want to scale a person based on their compassion and supportive output! ❤️

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amiablePeace77 OP September 24th, 2021

@Nerdtastic01

Compassion and how supportive they are can give a lot of information about someone.

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September 23rd, 2021

@amiablePeace77

I would like it to measure a person's integrity. We are not always what we appear to be.

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amiablePeace77 OP September 24th, 2021

@scarletPear1945

Well put scarlet, some people perform but not show their true self. They might appear rough but truly have a big heart but also appear kind and are not.

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soulsings September 23rd, 2021

@amiablePeace77 I would like to see a scale of kindness.

Mr Rogers Neighborhood was an example of extreme kindness.

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amiablePeace77 OP September 24th, 2021

@soulsings

Agreed soul, the few videos I watched also had some very deep thoughts.

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cafedaydreams September 23rd, 2021

I would like scale of a person's trustworthiness and compassion.

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amiablePeace77 OP September 24th, 2021

@cafedaydreams

Good qualities to look out for!

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September 24th, 2021

@amiablePeace77 Great question 🧡
I would like to measure the positive vibes. If it's more, I will bask in some. If it's less, I can try to help. Because, people do find it hard to express how really positive they are feeling at present. So, yeah..

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amiablePeace77 OP September 24th, 2021

@DonaldDraper

Positive vibes can be very infectiouness! Nice that you want to help those who need it!

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amiableBeing8117 September 25th, 2021

I'd like to see a "Holding space" meter.

There are not many I've found in my life who can put the focus on the other to support them as they feel their feelings.

And holding space in managing judgments while you're present.

So being physically, mentally and emotionally there for that person.

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amiablePeace77 OP September 26th, 2021

@amiableBeing8117

Creative a holding environment for another person is wonderful, it gives them safety.

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User Profile: gracefulPurple9181
gracefulPurple9181 September 25th, 2021

@amiablePeace77 - Deep and an important question

I believe we all have a good and a bad side. Using this meter, I would like to see what that person gives more importance to - good or bad, qualities or quantities, real person or status of that person, empathy or practicality.

With my experience in life, I have realized the importance of the qualities myself and the importance and affect they have not just on our lives but on others too.

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amiablePeace77 OP September 27th, 2021

@gracefulPurple9181

So true, no one is just good or just bad but knowing the values of a person or on what they put their focus on tells a lot.

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User Profile: BeautifulSun298501
BeautifulSun298501 September 27th, 2021

@amiablePeace77

I would have this scale measure emotional availability. I think that everyone's opinions are valid. Everyone deserves to be able to say what is on their mind. I think the capacity to see if the other person is going to take what you say with learning and understanding in mind, instead of scanning for threats is important. It is truly a gift to sit with someone and debate your views without feeling offended and with ability to nonjudgmentally keep your views intact with the other person.

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amiablePeace77 OP September 27th, 2021

@BeautifulSun298501

How much a person is emotionally available is truly important to feel heard in a compassionate way.


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User Profile: onwardforevenmore
onwardforevenmore September 27th, 2021

days until death!

so people make the most of every second!

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amiablePeace77 OP September 28th, 2021

@onwardforevenmore

Right, savor the time we have!

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GoldenRuleJG October 6th, 2021

@amiablePeace77 Their emotions and the thoughts they want to express aloud but choose not to 😌

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amiablePeace77 OP October 6th, 2021

@GoldenRuleJG

That can gives a different picture of the person, could be in both ways though negative but also positive.

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