Shining with Sun
Interviewee: @sunisshiningandsoareyou
Many of us on cups have been blessed by the sunshine of our sun! They are one of the most humble, kind and adorable creature on the 7cups Planet. They can literally be called sun of cups, given the warmth they so generously shower on us, in forums, in chatrooms, and I am sure in pms to many too!
How were your initial days on 7 cups like?
Sun: Ooof initial days, been a while hehe! My initial days were like any other new listener's I think, where I had many different kinds of chats, members, good and bad experiences etc. For a good amount of time, I didn't know the world outside PMland lol, it was astonishing and still is to see just how huge this place is and how much 7 cups has to offer to us. I'd like to address myself as a forever newbie though, it's just easier and better that way, to always leave a certain room open for exploring, learning and growing!
What change do you see in yourself as the result of your stay on cups?
Sun: I do feel like an overall better person as a result of my stay in cups. I'd say, each interaction here, everyone I've met here has left an impact, it's fascinating to learn different things from different people (sometimes even when they are not "actively" teaching stuff). To pick a specific one though, I'd say, I've never thought about self care or even used that word as much as we all use, talk about and value in 7 cups. It's a good reminder for me being here, how important self care really is and how I should continually make it a priority (or at least try to xD).
What is something you’d like to learn more about?
Sun: I'm open to learning everything that's around to learn and grasp, and maybe even, to share with others, on a later date. But something that I'd like to make as a forever favorite subject is "balance". For me, it's a diverse word with many different meanings and attachments. My focus is to learn the art of balancing between on and off cups, self care and hustle (for the lack of a better word at the moment).
What is one challenge you’ve faced and what progress have you made in conquering that challenge?
Sun: Ahhh difficult question lol, challenge is part of this learning process hehe, balance in itself is a whole different challenge, it gets difficult to sometimes establish boundaries and to implement what I know should be implemented. So something that I've been working on is better prioritizing things, establishing and affirming my boundaries (personal and those with other factors involved).
I'd say, my goal is something neither short term nor long term, it's what I see as a "continual" goal, that will always have to stay close and worked upon efficiently/ without a miss, to make my experience as fruitful and satisfying in every possible way, and it has been going alright thus far, I think! *self pats*
When not at cups, what do you like doing the most?
Sun: Good question for someone who's mostly at cups xD *remembers balance*
I am a simple sun hehe, I like to take naps, listen to music, watch something fun and lighthearted, take walks etc, anything that makes me feel good and relaxed!
What’s something you’d like to work on for the rest of your life?
Sun: Myself, in every way possible, be it physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally!
“The best project you’ll ever work on is you.”
— Sonny Franco
What are the top 5 things good for your mental well being?
Sun: That's a great question, it gave me a chance to reflect also! Okay so I feel, 5 things are:
♡ Alone time/ me time, it helps me recharge lol
♡ Being around loved ones
♡ Being around people who have a certain positive vibe, they uplift me and bring the best in me
♡ Traveling, exploring and learning new things
♡ Musicccc, other forms of art and media and,
♡ Special mention to Pizza :P
Sun, you care for us a lot, carry a lot of warmth for us, and this community wishes the same warmth for yourself. Keep shining!
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This interview is part of the Living with Leaders Interview Series. Learn about the series here
The questions were just wow 😮 @Fristo Heres your pizza instead of claps hehe🍕
@Sunisshiningsoareyou I love you sun ☀️ Shine like you❤️ ✨
@hopezzy
Thankyouuu for taking the time to read the interview, hopezzy, and aww that's so sweet hehe *blushes* xD lots of love and extra sunshine to youuu! 🤗❤
Sun you are kind and warm hearted. And since I’ve been on cups you’ve always been there in the comments as a motivator. My ray of sunshine on 7 cups. You are a rare individual that I have been fortunate to know. I’m so grateful for all you do and for always being there for so many on 7 cups and can imagine in life in general. Keep shining your rays of love.
i love this. Keep being amazing! @Fristo
@Fristo amazing interview !! <3 @Sunisshiningandsoareyou, you deserve so much recognition and appreciation from the community for everything you do :) thank you so much for all the compassion you spread and all the days you brighten ! you have put a smile on my face so many times !
@Fristo amazing questions and thank you for being such a great interviewer ! i really enjoyed reading this and i can't wait for more :)
@rrretsuko
Hiya lovely Suko, that's so so nice to hear aww, big thankyouuu for being such a warm presence around! You make me smile everytime I see you, just like you did, right now. 🤗❤
@Fristo @Sunisshiningandsoareyou
This was such a lovely interview to read! Thank you for posting it, Fristo, and I'm so happy for you, Sunny! (^W^) Sending congratulatory pizza your way, as with love as always~ 🍕🍕🍕♥️💛💖
@TheAutumnWitch
Autumnnn, I so appreciate you, lovely! Thankyouuu for being so encouraging and sweet always! *noms the bestest pizza ever* sending lots of love backk! 🤗♥️
@fristo
@sunisshiningandsoareyou
This was genuinely so beautiful, @sun the way you word things is so incredible <3 literally so beautifully worded
I really enjoyed reading this interview, and im so glad it popped up in my notifications ☀️🌅💛
@KrystalRose01
Aww yay, I'm glad you enjoyed reading the interview, Thankyouuu so much for your kind words, Krystal, much appreciated! ❤💛
@Fristo
@sunisshiningandsoareyou
Hi Fristo! 😊❤️ Thank you for the post, amazing interview and thoughtful interview questions!
Hi Good Day Sunshine! 😊❤️ Thank you for handing yourself over to the interview process! I loved hearing your responses and it's an opportunity for all of us to get to know one another even better as a team! I'm someone that truly enjoys your mindset. Keep rocking the house!
*high fives* 😊 and big *hugs* ❤️
Great interview @Fristo lots of notable messages there!
Hugs @Sunisshiningandsoareyou 🤗 warmest person I ever met & definitely a smart cookie in the jar!
@ouiCherie
Awww coming from you, it certainly means the world to me, Cherie! Thankyouuu for being your amazing self, my friend, you spark joy around, and hey, warm hearted you say? Well, it takes one to know one, lovely ;) . *Hugs* back 🤗💜
@Fristo @Sunisshiningandsoareyou
This was an awesome interview! I loved reading it. Thank you for such insightful answers, Sun! <3<3<3
@HealingBrokenWIngs
Hey hey Wings, good to see you! Thankyouuu for taking the time to read the interview, I'm glad you found it insightful! ❤️
I started 7 cups in April of 2021. It initially started as a class project while I was obtaining my bachelor of science degree in behavioral health science. Even after the class was over I decided I wanted to stay with this site. Being able to give sunshine to someone who is being challenged, feels lonely, or feel that they no longer want to be on this Earth truly helps me to put myself in that person's place. I would want someone who was understanding and compassionate.
My first few days I was very nervous. I didn't want to say the wrong thing and I didn't want someone to leave our conversation feeling worse than they did when we started. After about a week I became comfortable and I like the fact that there are notes flashed while you are listening to a member. These notes really helped me to stay on the right track and to encourage me to be a better listener.