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A lesson your last relationship taught you ?

User Profile: Optimisticempath
Optimisticempath May 27th, 2021

A lesson your last relationship taught you is ?

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User Profile: Victor04
Victor04 June 5th, 2021

@Optimisticempath

Friendship needs double sided effort, and you can't ask the other person to make an effort, unless and until they themselves are willing to

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User Profile: Optimisticempath
Optimisticempath OP June 29th, 2021

100% agreed ,it is a two way street and all involved should be equally engaged ❤ @VicK5123

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User Profile: Kanimar7
Kanimar7 June 7th, 2021

@Optimisticempath to step into my authentic self!

User Profile: futureLPCmic
futureLPCmic June 7th, 2021

@Optimisticempath People change, and you cannot stop it! Sometimes you grow out of friendship with someone, go down different paths, form different values, and that is okay!

User Profile: talkanneliese
talkanneliese June 7th, 2021

@Optimisticempath

It's important to have your own identity and goals in a relationship. I felt like I was morphing into my partner and lost sight of who I really was. There's a difference between a one-sided relationship and constantly compromising on things. Remember: compromises take two people making sacrifices. Not just one!

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User Profile: Optimisticempath
Optimisticempath OP June 29th, 2021

I love this @talkanneliese , much needed to be your own person and for both person's involved to be a team . Thanks for sharing ❤

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User Profile: Orthrus
Orthrus June 16th, 2021

@Optimisticempath

The difference between someone that is in love with you, and someone that is in love with the idea of being in love.

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Optimisticempath OP June 29th, 2021

This is deep 😮 @Orthrus thanks for sharing ❤

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User Profile: unique73
unique73 June 16th, 2021

@Optimisticempath
Nothing is permanent, everything changes, even people leave, but the memories remain forever, we can cherish the good memories spent with them ❤

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User Profile: Storyhymns1234
Storyhymns1234 June 17th, 2021

@unique73
It reminds me of this twilight quote:

" When life offers you a dream so far beyond any of your expectations, it’s not reasonable to grieve when it comes to an end "

Have a good day : )

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User Profile: quietNight6288
quietNight6288 June 16th, 2021

Never been in a romantic relationship, but for the friendships I'd say: don't get guilt tripped into doing or saying things. It just makes you get hurt in the end. And be clear with your intentions.

User Profile: dukeofdearham
dukeofdearham June 16th, 2021

If things turn bad, remember what it is all about. Things aren't always as bad as they seem. Don't let your ego take control over your true self.

User Profile: HopefulBambi
HopefulBambi June 16th, 2021

Patience. All the way, and both ways.
If someone is not having patience with you or respecting boundaries, or visa-versa you with them, it's probably best to step away for the time being and reflect for a while.

User Profile: LovetoGod
LovetoGod June 17th, 2021

@Optimisticempath
I have never been in relationship 😭😂😂
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Optimisticempath OP June 17th, 2021

@LovetoGod relationships can be friendships too , not necessarily ones involving a significant other /partner ❤

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User Profile: LovetoGod
LovetoGod June 17th, 2021

@Optimisticempath
Yeah. I was going to write about my friends but I thought it's about relationship so sorry. Umm.. I have lots of friends but not having any best friend but yeah I had bestie for really so many years so I have learnt so many things from her. She was good and caring person but I guess I really trusted her blindly that's why she hurted me but okay fine I really spent good moments with her.

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User Profile: Optimisticempath
Optimisticempath OP June 19th, 2021

Aw I am sorry to hear you felt betrayed by your ex bestfriend , I see you around alot and you're always spreading such a positive vibe, keep it up and no , trust getting broken is not okay , but we can learn lessons and move on to find better people for us who are truthful , loyal and amazing just as how we deserve @LovetoGod . Best wishes 💛

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User Profile: LovetoGod
LovetoGod June 19th, 2021

@Optimisticempath
Thank you so much for your appreciation. That means a lot. And yeah I hope to have good friends in my life. Thank you so much for wishes. Wishing you so much good luck as well. You are doing amazing job. Lots of love❤❤

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Optimisticempath OP June 19th, 2021

🤗❤ @LovetoGod

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LovetoGod June 19th, 2021

@Optimisticempath
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