Is there something you would have said, or you would say, to someone important to you?
Hello everyone!
Ah words!! They can play a big role in communication!
So... is there something you would have said, or you would say, to someone important to you?
I want to say 'I don't want to leave you' to my girlfriend who I am visiting currently (we live on opposite sides of the world normally), but I know that will just make me leaving worse for her.
@Blanched
Awww that's so lovely!
@BeyondTheInvisible I wouldn't really call it lovely, I feel horrible about it. Sorry for putting a downer on this
I still love you. I'll never forget you and how you touched my life in a way no one did before.
@neatBalloon7178
Hi there!
These words are so deep!
@BeyondTheInvisible

@BeyondTheInvisible
This is what comes to mind:
- Self care
- Be as honest as you can
- If you get overwhelmed, you will not break
- The earth is important because you live here
- It is okay to admit that you were wrong about yourself
- Everyone is the same and deserves the same respect - yes EVERYONE
- To forgive does not have to mean saying the persons actions were acceptable
- Struggles are not an excuse for you or anyone else to treat another person badly
- Just because it feels good doesn't mean it's wrong & Just because it feels bad doesn't mean it's wrong
"The meaning of life is to find your gift and the purpose of life is to give it away" - Unknown
The problem is not to find the answer, it's to face the answer - Terence McKenna
We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same. - Carlos Castaneda
I would say to my old friend and first love......
"I'm sorry for letting a friend like you drift apart too suddenly,
I'm sorry for playing our game of avoidence,
I'm sorry I felt like I wasn't good enough for you,
I'm sorry for never being brave enough to say anything,
I'm sorry for making you say goodbye to me when I didn't want to say goodbye to you the day you moved,
And I'm sorry for letting you see me cry at my worst"...........
However, I would also tell him........
Thank you for befriending me back then when I was just an antisocial nerd,
Thank you for generally liking me for who I was,
Thank you for always being there for me at my best and worst,
Thank you for always being nice to me,
Thank you for inspiring me to dream for the first time in my life,
Thank you for remembering my birthday when no one or myself did,
Thank you for making me want to be better everyday,
Thank you for being my first love,
Thank you for making me feel and experience beautiful emotions of love, happiness, anger, confusion, fear, anger, jealousy, belonging, and every other emotion possible,
Thank you for letting me reconnect with you again out of no where despite us living in different states now,
Thank you for being patient and kind to me,
And thank you for just being you".....
If given the chance to see him again in person, I would say this and more even if meant losing him again. If only.
I would/ will say I love you.
@MelanieDaniels63
An important word to say! ![]()
Amazing