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Forum Moderation Guidelines for Religion & Spirituality

User Profile: CheeryMango
CheeryMango September 12th, 2023

Hello everyone!

I would like to take a moment to introduce some additional forum moderation guidelines that we will be implementing to ensure that this community remains a respectful, constructive, and inclusive space for all members.

Note: All forum moderation will be handled by the forum moderators or community leaders.

1. Respectful Dialogue: Encourage respectful and open dialogue that allows members to express their feelings and thoughts about religion without targeting specific religious groups. Ensure that discussions maintain a courteous and tolerant tone.

2. Avoid Forced Beliefs: Remove any posts that attempt to impose personal religious beliefs on others or pressure individuals to adopt a particular faith. Our community respects diverse perspectives and choices.

3. No Shaming or Discrimination: Prohibit any posts that involve shaming, discrimination, or derogatory language towards individuals, religious groups, or spiritual beliefs. Promote an inclusive and accepting environment.

4. Focus on Personal Experiences: Encourage members to share their personal experiences and insights related to spirituality and religion, emphasizing the impact on their lives rather than making sweeping judgments or condemnations. Moderate with Sensitivity: Exercise moderation with a sensitive and understanding approach. When removing posts, provide a clear explanation to the member and offer guidance on how they can rephrase or refocus their discussion in a more constructive manner.

5. Feedback and Appeals: Allow members to provide feedback on moderation decisions through the forum@7cups.com email or messaging the admin, @CheeryMango directly for those who believe their posts were unjustly removed.

6. Consistency: Maintain consistency in applying these guidelines to all posts and members, regardless of their religious or spiritual background. Ensure fairness in moderation.

7. Community Building: Lastly, focus on creating a positive and supportive atmosphere within the religious and spiritual community, where members can freely explore and discuss their beliefs and feelings without fear of judgment or disrespect.


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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou September 12th, 2023

Extremely important to be mindful about, thank you for sharing, Mango!

User Profile: Jenna
Jenna September 12th, 2023

@CheeryMango

Thanks for the updated guidelines!

User Profile: beck1
beck1 September 12th, 2023

@CheeryMango Thanks for the update!

User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence September 12th, 2023

@CheeryMango

That's a very useful post, thank you for having put it together Cheery!

User Profile: soulsings
soulsings September 12th, 2023

@CheeryMango I like the idea of not grouping all religions into one category and saying negative things about religion as if it was all one. Every religion and every person practicing it is unique.

The way to avoid this would be to speak of one's own personal experiences with religion and or spirituality.

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence September 14th, 2023

@soulsings

Hi there Soulsings, the point is to NOT say anything negative about EACH religion, not because "it's like if it's one religion".

Hope that clarifies it better.

Take care

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo September 14th, 2023

@MeaningfulSilence This actually confuses me more.

User Profile: soulsings
soulsings September 14th, 2023

@MeaningfulSilence @AffyAvo

I think both points are valid. I think saying something negaitvie about another religion closes off communication, as does focusing on the differences between each religion as if to underline the differences rather than to find common ground.

I think generalizing aboiut any group, religious, mental health oriented., ancestry or political leanings, is falling into black and white thinking. I need to think outside of the limiited ideas that I have been taught and look at things with fresh eyes or I risk walling off people with different ideas and communication is difficult.

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 September 14th, 2023

@soulsings Not every person (inside 7Cups or outside it) has had positive experiences with a religion--any religion. For at least a few of us, honestly speaking about our personal experiences with a given faith tradition will inevitably involve the very criticisms, emphasis of differences & stereotyping that you deplore. Stereotyping gets a bad rap (deservedly, as often as not) but the fact is, any belief system will impose some degree of conformity on its followers. That is how religions & ideologies perpetuate themselves. No religion would last for very long if it allowed its believers to all be as "unique" as possible. Thus the members of faith communities will have common doctrines, traditions, customs, habits of mind, etc. And yes, some people outside the faith community will find those things offensive--no matter what religion that community follows.

Can't say I'm surprised...in this little community, all opinions are equal but some opinions are more equal than others.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 9th, 2025

@soulsings well said 💜🥰 It's important for people who have faith to also feel like they can celebrate it without being made to feel they are forcing it on others 💜

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 September 14th, 2023

Rules 2 & 7 are inherently contradictory, as are 3 & 7. There may be an implicit contradiction btwn 4 & 7; however that one will likely be more manageable overall.

User Profile: RogueOne1983
RogueOne1983 September 14th, 2023

@CheeryMango great guidelines thanks much!

User Profile: thoughtfulCoconut694
thoughtfulCoconut694 July 8th, 2025

@CheeryMango
Please add me 😊

User Profile: MyHina
MyHina March 4th

@CheeryMango good guidelines IMO.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings March 4th

@MyHina I agree.

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