July 10: Ask Questions Feature Added to Q & A System
Hello Everyone!
One last update on this glorious Friday night!
We've created a new & improved system by which you can submit your very own questions to our community Q & A system!
Here is how it works & how you can submit your very own questions:
Step 1: On the main Q & A page you will find a new questions box
Step 2: Type in your question!
The search function will search through all the existing questions to see if there are any similar! Woohoo!
Step 3: You'll be brought to a page that looks like this:
Make sure you review all the questions reveals to ensure that your question has not already been asked. We need to avoid duplicate questions where ever possible! Please make sure to double check!
Step 4: Select a topic category for your question!
Step 5: Submit! We will review your submission & approve it for the submission to the Quesiton box located on every users dashboard.
Step 6: Repeat!
I hate myself so bad... Like , literally I'll be sitting and make myself upset. I like someone so so so so so so much but he went after my sister... I don't understand. Why do I hate how I look and feel... I hate myself so bad but I don't want to end my life because I have family who would suffer ... I need someone to talk to because I feel alone. I feel like everyone hates me. But I don't want to talk to relatives. I now hate my sister... I need to vent but I don't want to talk to my family or a counselor, but someone who is like me and understands me. But I guess it's to much to ask for. I feel like God hates me.. I hate myself. I hate my body. My laugh, my smile, my eyes, my self esteem, my everything. I'm scared of losing everyone .. I hate it.. It's like I'm in a nightmare and I can't escape.. I need help finding my way out..
@teengirlthatneedshelp Fam you still need help?
@teengirlthatneedshelp
@teengirlthatneedshelp if you need to chat message me xxx
I just need to talk with someone about my life and problems i still have and know someone's opinion. It's important for me.
@Happilydead I'm here to chat X
@Happilydead
How do you become a listener on the iPhone app? Can't find it anywhere thanks.
Is there any way to ever be positive. As I never can think postively always negatively
How can get some respect nd be less angry. I feel like evry1 thinks I'm nothing nd my feeling dnt matter cuz as they put it "its never that serious..." I'm jst so tired of hearing that nd would love if some1 any1 would jst sit me down nd actually ask me wats going on in my head or at least care enough to wanna know 😩😩
@bblack331 I feel the same way with literally everyone in my life... I feel so alone
@bblack331 feel free to message me anytime! I would love to chat with you!
Maggie
@bblack331
Hello there, my love, I'm so sorry that you're feeling marginalised and belittled in this way. I promise you categorically that your thoughts and feelings are valid. No one's experiences are the same as anyone else's, and no one has the right to tell you that your thoughts don't matter, no one at all.
There are a few questions in the Q&A that might be interesting to you, try this one and this one, but please do sumbit your own if you'd like! You can find out how on the first page of this thread :) I do think that you would really benefit from connecting 1 on 1 with a listener, and it might take some time to find someone who suits you well, but please don't give up. You can choose your own listener here or post here to explain exactly what you'd like from a listener!
I hope things get better for you soon, lovely, you deserve that at the very least, and so much more.
Can someone please tell me how to delete my account?
thank you.
@Arik - Under My Settings, below save changes, you find the link to deactivate your account.
@shiningCherry13
thank you! I'll try that.
@shiningCherry13
oops. Now I see I'd already gone looking for something like that, but it's not there on "my settings" under "save changes". There is nothing. But thanks for your help. Maybe it's a bug in my version.
Does anyone know how to delete my account if there's no "deactivate" option under settings?
Thanks!
Idk if I should stay with my boyfriend. We were only dating for a week before we both moved to different states for new jobs, and now we barely have time to talk to each other and I feel neglected. When we met all I wanted was a cuddle and date/drinking buddy and it could blossom into something more naturally, but now it's like I feel like we're force to define what we want because of the distance, and I'm not getting what I need from the relationship. I don't want to say anything cuz idw to distract him from his job, and I feel like if I tell him to talk to me more it's gonna feel forced. Idk what to do
@honestApple8697 Hi:) I'm sorry to hear your are going through a difficult time in your relationship.In your post you said that you don't know whether to stay with your boyfriend or not. You feel like your being neglected and don't get anything out of the relationship. I think if he wanted the relationship to work then the distance and the job wouldn't be in the way of your relationship he would've made time to spend with you or made a effort to stay in touch.You said that you both have new jobs and that's great :)
@honestApple8697 I think you should focus on your new job maybe you will find someone new or if you want to stay in the relationship you should let your boyfriend know how you feel. I hope everything works out well :)
@honestApple8697
Hello there, lovely, thank you so much for asking this question! I had a look through the Q&A, and I don't think anyone has asked anything about long distance relationships! It would be amazing if you could submit some questions, you can find out how on the first page of this thread :)
I hope things get easier for you soon, my love, and please remember that all listeners are here for you if you want to talk. It sounds like you might really benefit from someone to talk to 1 on 1 what with all of the complications in your relationship at the moment, please don't hesitate for a moment to reach out to a listener.
All my love, Lyra
Ho can I make new friends?
@creativecCranberry3434 hi :) there you should introduce yourself to new people and start up a conversation or find someone you have the same interests as you have. Or greet a neighbour in the morning and start up a conversation etc. Or you can be my friend :) if you like Good luck :)
@creativecCranberry3434
Hello there, lovely, thank you so much for asking this question! I had a look through the Q&A, and I don't think anyone has asked this, this was the closest match I could find! It would be amazing if you could submit this question to get it answered, you can find out how on the first page of this thread :)
I hope things get easier for you soon, my love, and please remember that all listeners are here for you if you want to talk.
I feel as if my life may almost be too perfect. It doesn't seem like it in my own head. I find ways to make it more difficult than it should be.
@SundiSundayz
Hello there, lovely, thank you so much for asking this question! I had a look through the Q&A, and I don't think anyone has asked anything similar! It would be amazing if you could submit some questions, you can find out how on the first page of this thread :)
I hope things get easier for you soon, my love, and please remember that all listeners are here for you if you want to talk. It sounds like you might really benefit from someone to talk to 1 on 1 right now, so please don't hesitate for a moment to reach out to a listener! You can choose your own listener here or post here to explain exactly what you'd like from a listener.
All my love, Lyra
how can i start having more self confidence and improve my self esteem ?
@spacemax do something to challenge yourself ,not too hard at the beginning, increase the hard level step by step.
@spacemax
Hello there, lovely, thank you for reaching out in the forums. I'm so sorry to hear that you're feelinf this way at the moment! It is so incredibly hard to battle with our own minds, so I'm really proud of you for reaching out to get some help!
These questions have already been asked in the Q&A, they might be a good read for you:
How can I become more self confident?
Why did I let go my self confidence?
You can find out how to submit your question on the first page of this thread :) In addition, all listeners here are here to support you, if you want to go 1 on 1 <3 I hope this helps, and I hope things get better for you soon.
cc. @Anglique