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March 7: Age Categories!

User Profile: Laura
Laura March 8th, 2016

Hello all!

I am excited to make this announcement! You all have been asking for MANY months... for better age identifiers!

We are excited to announce that by the end of this week, this will become a reality.

The age categories will be:

- Teen (under 18)

- 18 - 35

- Above 35

The updates you can expect:

1) A group support chat room for 35+ community members

2) On browse listeners the ability to search by age. You will be able to search for a listener by one of the age categories listed above. You will be listed within a specific category depending on the DOB you entered on 7 Cups when you signed up!

This is a suggestion box success! Big thank you to everyone who has left a suggestion! Keep them coming! We are excited about this!

cc @Anomalia @heather @iara @krinkthemellowunicorn

UPDATE:

If you are a listener, and you would like to not be included in the age categories, please just fill out this form to opt out.

Those who submit, will have their ages nulled and not be part of the age sorting update. We hope to accomodate everyone by providing this option.

Thank you!

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User Profile: shoootingSTAR
shoootingSTAR March 10th, 2016

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User Profile: kIrStYxx
kIrStYxx March 10th, 2016

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User Profile: thewintershadow
thewintershadow March 11th, 2016

This is amazing! Thank you! I was waiting for the 35+ group :)

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User Profile: KrinkTheMellowUnicorn
KrinkTheMellowUnicorn March 11th, 2016

@thewintershadow - we are here! :)

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User Profile: majora2016
majora2016 March 11th, 2016

After browsing through this thread, I really appreciate how hard working& thoughtful 7cups is putting into the site to make everyone happy :)

This is quite an accomplishment imo! and well explained as to how the decision came to be.

I have been one of the members wanting this feature for a long time!!! So was pretty excited xD

And I just have to say, the difference feels great! now I don't have to awkwardly ask a listener their age range and have some feel weirded out and say "I prefer to keep anonymous" or tell me "but age doesnt matter!"

Sure, it's not black and white, I don't think one is right or wrong, but I think the great thing about this site is that I can chat with a random new listener, OR browse and decide who I want to chat with. I also sometimes want to chat with a certain gender at times. Like I want a womans perspective (physical wise, emotion wise) or sometimes I would like to get a guy's perspective on certain things.

At the end it's not that I want to define someone by age, gender or country, but the experience, culture through that certain person is a way for me to try have someone relate to me.

But I do see how tricky the gender section can come off. Although from reviews, you can pretty much tell whether a listener is a "she/he" and sometimes it's funny when some mistake the listeners gender xD But then it makes it seem like it shouldn't matter.

Anywho! I am looking forward to the upcoming features!

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User Profile: KrinkTheMellowUnicorn
KrinkTheMellowUnicorn March 11th, 2016

@majora2016 - the choice is live now on Browse Listeners - give it a try!

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User Profile: Laura
Laura OP March 11th, 2016

@KrinkTheMellowUnicorn

This is very exciting!!! thank you making this happen Krink!

User Profile: Anomalia
Anomalia March 11th, 2016

@KrinkTheMellowUnicorn - Woohoo! Thanks to you and the team for getting this up and running and finding a solution that works for everyone!

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User Profile: ShaquilleAndTamia
ShaquilleAndTamia March 11th, 2016

Follow me on Instagram [edited by @Laura for sharing social media]

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ShaquilleAndTamia March 11th, 2016

:)

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User Profile: Laura
Laura OP March 11th, 2016

@Shaquille057

Hey there - friendly reminder, please keep all your personal information (including social media accounts private). Thank you!

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User Profile: calmBunny4275
calmBunny4275 March 11th, 2016

Why does it hurt why are men so cold why can't I just find someone who is nice

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User Profile: 2genpoet
2genpoet March 11th, 2016

@calmBunny4275

excellent questions

and totally irrelevant to this forum

we can discuss them in a chat if you want

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User Profile: ShadowFaerie
ShadowFaerie March 11th, 2016

Being a listener in the (well) over 35 category, & having had the listening experience I've had here, I think this is a great starting point. Many people have an idea of the age range they'd be comfortable talking with, for their own personal reasons. Many times I have been asked about my age in chats & generally have not found it to be a problem for myself or my members. However, sometimes people want to talk to a contemporary (whatever their age group) or seek the perspective of someone older or younger! In any case I think this change will only further our ability for members to self-match with the best possible listener choices for them! Thanks for all your hard work making this happen. Yay!

March 11th, 2016

The lovely Age...I really miss that was a childhood...pure,no harm,truly,innocent.although,we grown up...wish the pure and honest still inside my heart as a child.....

User Profile: Frankie
Frankie March 12th, 2016

I love this new update! I just have one question? If you're logged into a teen account you can no longer search for people who are over 18? Is this going to be a permanent thing? Just it can be really useful sometimes when you need to search for someone! Thanks <3

@laura @krinkthemellowunicorn

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User Profile: Frankie
Frankie March 12th, 2016

In fact, I just logged to to see it on guest and can only search teens? Did I break something? XD

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User Profile: Anomalia
Anomalia March 12th, 2016

@Charli - I'm not sure, but I'm tagging in @KrinkTheMellowUnicorn to know if this is just a bug, or a decision.

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User Profile: KrinkTheMellowUnicorn
KrinkTheMellowUnicorn March 12th, 2016

@Anomalia sonds like a bug for sure. teens need to be able to find adult teen listeners, and guests need to be able to search all

User Profile: Nekoviii
Nekoviii March 12th, 2016

@Anomalia I totally agree

User Profile: Frankie
Frankie March 13th, 2016

@Anomalia Thanks oldie! I tagged Laura and Krink in the first one, just in white. :D

@krinkthemellowunicorn Ooh okie, thanks for letting me know! <3

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User Profile: KrinkTheMellowUnicorn
KrinkTheMellowUnicorn March 17th, 2016

@Charli - Is this problem still happening?

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User Profile: Frankie
Frankie March 18th, 2016

@KrinkTheMellowUnicorn

Yep, can still only search for teens. Sorry!

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User Profile: KrinkTheMellowUnicorn
KrinkTheMellowUnicorn March 18th, 2016

@Charli - ok, so the bug is that teen users can no longer search for adults, yes?

Is that the only bug people are reporting on this thread? I want to be clear for @devTeam

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User Profile: Frankie
Frankie March 18th, 2016

@KrinkTheMellowUnicorn

Yep that's it! But I logged out an went on a guest account and had same issue so not sure it's age related? If you need a screenshot let me know and I'll PM you one :)

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User Profile: KrinkTheMellowUnicorn
KrinkTheMellowUnicorn March 18th, 2016

@Charli - I tested from a guest acct and had no problem so maybe there was a cookie affecting it for you?

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User Profile: Frankie
Frankie March 18th, 2016

@KrinkTheMellowUnicorn

I'll clear them all and check! :)

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User Profile: Frankie
Frankie March 18th, 2016

@KrinkTheMellowUnicorn

I logged out and in guest can't search for teens! So:-

~On a teen account can only search for teens

~On guest can't search for teens, just adults

Sorry love! <3

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User Profile: KrinkTheMellowUnicorn
KrinkTheMellowUnicorn March 18th, 2016

@Charli - how strange that I can see all as guest. we'll have to delve a bit deeper. I'll talk to @devteam about it...

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User Profile: Frankie
Frankie March 19th, 2016

@KrinkTheMellowUnicorn

Sorry love, and thanks <3

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User Profile: KrinkTheMellowUnicorn
KrinkTheMellowUnicorn March 19th, 2016

@Charli - no worries. this helps us get it right which will help more people!

now I just went in with an incognito browser window as a guest and saw all the options... curiouser and curiouser

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User Profile: Frankie
Frankie March 19th, 2016

@KrinkTheMellowUnicorn

That's strange! Retried now and got this!

https://imgur.com/QXAfmN6

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User Profile: EllaByYourSide
EllaByYourSide March 18th, 2016

@Charli @KrinkTheMellowUnicorn

I can only search for teens too.

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