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Finding purpose in the face of adversity

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 March 8th

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When interruptions in life make you lose your sense of purpose, it's important to remember that purpose is not a fixed state but something that can be redefined and rebuilt.

What helps you to find purpose in life in the face of adversity?


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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings March 8th

@amiablePeace77  What helps you to find purpose in life in the face of adversity?


I realize I am not suffering alone. We all do not want to suffer and we all want happiness. The purpose that I find uplifting is the aspiration to help other's find happiness. That is a true and lasting source of happiness for me.
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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP March 8th

@soulsings

I believe this is a good reminder in tough situations!

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 March 9th

@amiablePeace77

Hope.

Faith.

Resilience.

Knowing it will pass.

Letting other people help me through it.

Asking for help 🧡

@amiablPeace77

Sometimes adversity helps us pause and look within. In those difficult moments, we realise our strength, our compassion, and what truly matters to us 💜

During such tough times, pure faith works as a ray of hope, when everything feels uncertain ✨

User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 March 9th

@amiablePeace77

What helps you to find purpose in life in the face of adversity?

What is currently helping me is to rest as much as I need, and take a step back from all the things I had been involved in.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP March 9th

@purpleTree4652

When we obtain the rest we need, life often feels easier.

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User Profile: Fradiga
Fradiga March 9th

@amiablePeace77

The notion of adversity can be very different from one person to another. It also does not means that adversity affects everything in one's life, hence that some purpose is not affected. 

I (73F-fr) suppose that since I am in palliative care, a lot of my life is affected, but mostly because I cannot physically move and work as I used to. Also, memory lapses are frequent due to the meningitis crisis of last year.

I do not mind all the medical appointments (averaging 4 every week) either. I do mind that it requires a ton of paperwork and apps and this living room ought to be better organized.

However, retirement income and savings are the same (no medical payments in France); plenty of social life, whether in person or online; still interested in the news out there plus history, linguistics, and other subjects (thanks to the internet, I get all that right at my fingertips plus the occasional shopping); the presence of my dog and being in the old family home in the countryside are always a comfort too!


What helps you to find purpose in life in the face of adversity?

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP March 9th

@Fradiga

I truly admire you for carrying on in life as you do despite your health challenges!

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown March 10th

@amiablePeace77

What helps you to find purpose in life in the face of adversity?

Using adversities as challenges that motivate me never give up and continue onward. 

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amiablePeace77 OP March 10th

@akunknown

Awesome strategy! 👍

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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine March 10th

@amiablePeace77

Not been in a good place the past few days but it is only temporary and will pass, breathe !!!

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@RunningMachine Come visit us in 50+ and or mindfulness if you need some company.

 this discussion.

schedule  https://www.7cups.com/forum/50plus/QAsDiscussionsResources_1770/50plusDiscussionsandTopicsFebruarytoMarch2024_207920/

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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine March 10th

@adventurousBranch3786

A couple of night shifts left to work, I'll joing in during my nights off.

Thanks 👍👍

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@RunningMachine. Btw the clocks in The US have turned an hour forward since Sunday. 7cups is now on EDT time.

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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine March 10th

@adventurousBranch3786

Cheers, I check online, thanks for the heads up, ours doesn't go forward until the end of the month.

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User Profile: heavenLight1323
heavenLight1323 March 10th

@amiablePeace77 Love this!

User Profile: cyanDrum2401
cyanDrum2401 March 10th

Thanks great question.

User Profile: eternalHero77
eternalHero77 June 23rd

@amiablePeace77 I have used a sayin’ for several years now which is never give up on hope. Give up on hope ya lose everything but keep hope alive ya never know what happiness and good can come yer way.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP June 23rd

@eternalHero77

It's a good saying!

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