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Stress and Burnout

User Profile: soulsings
soulsings April 24th, 2025

Burnout is an extended period of stress that feels as if it cannot be improved. It is defined as “physical, emotional or mental exhaustion, accompanied by decreased motivation, lowered performance and negative attitudes towards oneself and others.

  • How do you deal with stress?
  • How do you prevent burnout?


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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 24th, 2025

@soulsings

How do you deal with stress

I find my solace in reading. Journaling and optimistic manifestation.

How do you prevent burnout?

I take a break and pick up a book or simply sit by my window reminding myself of all the hope that still exists. Grounding techniques are also a great practice.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 24th, 2025

@trueconfidant123 good coping mechanisms.

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 25th, 2025

@soulsings

Thank you! 

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User Profile: HealingEcho
HealingEcho April 24th, 2025

@soulsings

I deal with stress by listening to music while going through my thoughts. To prevent it, I try not to react to loudly.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 24th, 2025

@HealingEcho trying not to react can often help me avoid arguments. 

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User Profile: pamharley003
pamharley003 April 24th, 2025

@soulsings

  • How do you deal with stress - I am not one who handles stress easily. I start to fumble in my actions and wording
  • How do you prevent burnout? - I do a lot of meditation through out the day and yoga when feeling burned out 

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 24th, 2025

@pamharley003 I am not always good handling stress either. My habitual reaction is to get angry but that is starting to lessen a bit. 

Keep meditating Pam. Thanks for sharing.

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul April 24th, 2025

@soulsings I'm not good at handling stress. I try but if it keeps piling on I get quiet and irritable. Losing myself in music helps or spending time on a hobby

I try to take time for myself to walk in nature or I go for a horseback ride

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 24th, 2025

@mytwistedsoul nature can be a good cure for stress. 

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul April 25th, 2025

@soulsings Especially now that it's finally getting nice out. All the birds are singing and the flowers are blooming 😊 

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 25th, 2025

@mytwistedsoul yes I was out today and it felt wonderful. 

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 April 24th, 2025

@soulsings

  • How do you deal with stress?  If it's an amount I can deal with alone I will meditate and do things which are good for me like yoga, going for walks etc. If it is excessive and triggers me, talking about it to someone trusted helps more.
  • How do you prevent burnout? I follow a healthy routine and take breaks.


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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 24th, 2025

@amiablePeace77 good ideas.

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User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy April 24th, 2025

Live for yourself first and foremost. Then for others.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 25th, 2025

@Creamyyy I tried that when I was younger but it did not give me a lasting sense of happiness and by the time I got around to paying attention to other people they were not interested in someone that thought mainly of themselves.

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User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy April 25th, 2025

What I meant is you can't pour from an empty cup. We have to ensure our well being before we can truly give something to anyone. As for those who didn't want to receive your attention perhaps they were not meant to be your destined people and you weren't theirs. I'm sure universe will give you people to whom you can be of help when you're ready to give your love.

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User Profile: Dodofaith
Dodofaith April 25th, 2025

@soulsings Burnout prevention is dependent on the situation.  Caregiver burnout is difficult to prevent as a primary caregiver in a prolonged care situation when the course of illness is progresses with complications that are unpredictable.  For me, the issue is how to manage a situation that fosters prolonged exhaustion without maladaptive behaviors and how to stay on track with sleep, exercise, prayer and nutrition.  We are well-resourced and still, this is a fight to the finish for me this time around.  Last time, it was 5 1/2 years with my in-law who had Lewy body with severe psychosis.  This time, it is my husband with unpredictable cardiac issues and complications.  Even with help, with paid staff, the responsibility and the strain are soul-crushing.  Since it's my husband, I have to pray this caregiving situation goes on for years.  

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP May 1st, 2025

@Dodofaith caregiver burnout is difficult to avoid. I find by monitoring anger and doing avoidance I am less burned out and more joyful as a caregiver.

User Profile: peachBeing2025
peachBeing2025 May 8th, 2025

@Dodofaith

I really appreciated reading this comment. After leaving an abusive job 2 years ago, I've been treating general burnout with virtually no improvement in the last 8 months. I felt like something was wrong with me, as I've worked every kind of coping mechanism into my daily routine by now: journaling, mindfulness, meditation, escapism, constant dietary improvements and exercise, but nothing takes me out of the constant "sad or numb" seesaw

It makes a lot of sense to think about how live-in caregivers don't get the full time to decompress and live each day, even if a partner is supportive and tries to facilitate it. There's always going to be a lifestyle check, or just the anxiety of one in the background. While it's discouraging that constant caregiving may be the real reason for continuing burnout, it helps to hear that the failure to improve is with the environment rather than the self. I wish I had some helpful techniques to share with you. 🫂

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User Profile: 139872975
139872975 April 25th, 2025

@soulsings

In this state right now, tagging along to get some help

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soulsings OP May 1st, 2025

@139872975 keep tagging along!

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User Profile: SparkyGizmo
SparkyGizmo May 1st, 2025

@soulsings

If the situation can't be improved, I acknowledge that and give up. I move along and away from toxicity and quietly. 

 *high fives* 😊  and *hugs* ❤️

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soulsings OP May 1st, 2025

@SparkyGizmo you are so wise dearest sparky!

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User Profile: SparkyGizmo
SparkyGizmo May 1st, 2025

@soulsings

❤️❤️❤️

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User Profile: amusingWest5360
amusingWest5360 May 8th, 2025

@soulsings still trying to figure it out😕

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soulsings OP May 8th, 2025

@amusingWest5360 sometimes the first thing that comes to mind is where we are at. 

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