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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings November 29th, 2023
  • What is the best thing happening in your life right now?
  • What is the biggest struggle or challenge you have at the moment?



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User Profile: SunShineAlwaysGrateful
SunShineAlwaysGrateful November 29th, 2023

@soulsings

the best thing right decorating for the holidays love it 💚♥️♥️💚♥️♥️💚

The most challenging thing is not buying too many chocolates for the house 🏡 bc I am at 50lb weight loss this week and want to not sabotage myself over the holidays …. Soo I got a plan purchase small amounts to satisfy only 

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP November 29th, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful good plan take it easy.

Congrats on managing your weight. 

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User Profile: SunShineAlwaysGrateful
SunShineAlwaysGrateful November 29th, 2023

@soulsings

Thank you 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 30th, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful yaaay decorating and xmas 😁😁😁 well done for loosing Xmas  weight, however Xmas calories don't count 😋🎅

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User Profile: SunShineAlwaysGrateful
SunShineAlwaysGrateful December 1st, 2023

Truth ♥️💚♥️💚🤣🤣🤣🤣

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 November 29th, 2023

@soulsings

  • What is the best thing happening in your life right now?
  • What is the biggest struggle or challenge you have at the moment?

I would say the best thing is that I feel healthy.

My biggest struggle is accepting certain things in my surroundings which affect me in a negative way but which I also cannot change. Mindfulness helps me to turn to acceptance. 


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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 30th, 2023

@amiablePeace77 gives you a giant festive tiny hug ❤❤

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User Profile: Fradiga
Fradiga November 29th, 2023

@soulsings

What is the best thing happening in your life right now? 

  • New grand niece!
  • A great report card from a kid I am tutoring.
  • Grandson's handwriting improving. 
  • Still living in the countryside and exploring the hills with my dog and sometimes another dog owner.
  • Quiet but busy days.
  • Most of Xmas shopping done early - that's a relief. Also expecting a new foot massage machine.
  • My sister is in better mood these days. 

What is the biggest struggle or challenge you have at the moment?

  • It's been raining since mid-October. Can't hang the laundry outside and the dog is always wet and muddy. 
  • Getting business done online: What you think should take five minutes ends up eating up the whole evening! Scan this, print that, get old account numbers out of archived emails, fill up these PDF forms and hope they don't turn into JPEG files and bury themselves in unknown laptop folders when you were about to send them out. 
  • I got shingles again but it's not too bad - I started the medication early.
  • Burma shave


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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 30th, 2023

@Fradiga it sounds like you have a lot of love for your family ❤❤and congratulations on a grand niece 🤗 shingles?? Is that the one like chicken pox? I'm glad you wasn't to ill with it... And yep bl@@dy rain😁 merry Christmas ❤

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User Profile: Fradiga
Fradiga November 30th, 2023

Yes, it is the chicken pox virus which is not dormant enough as far as I know. Thanks for your wishes. I hope your year-end holidays are a bash! ((Whisper))

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 November 29th, 2023

The Best thing is that my sister got to spend my birthday with me, my niece, my grandson, and one great-granddaughter. Cooking 3 meals a day was more work than I have done in the last 20 Years😂. But I enjoyed it so much.

The worst thing is that my sister's remains have not been found as of yet.


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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP November 30th, 2023

@WorkingitThrough2 I am happy that you had family. That is more cheery for a birthday.

I am sorry to hear about your sister. It must be unsettling to have the case of your sister's disappearance still out there. PM me if you need to discuss in private. 

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 December 4th, 2023

@soulsings

I really thank you so much❤️

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 30th, 2023

@WorkingitThrough2 yaaaay! Your family did manage to spend thanksgiving with you ❤❤ yaaay! I'm so glad to hear that ❤

I don't know have my sons remains either😞 so I can understand how this can feel.  If it helps you can still put a cross somewhere special and have a service for her there ❤ gives you a giant festive tiny hug ❤merry Christmas sweetie

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 December 2nd, 2023

@Tinywhisper11

Thank you so much. They will have her memorial on the 9th, and I will put a candle out for her😊.

Thank you Tiny😊❤️

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User Profile: neatBlueberry5213
neatBlueberry5213 November 30th, 2023

@soulsings

1. I'm recently completely debt free after 7 years of working at it.
2. uncertainty about my job

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP November 30th, 2023

@neatBlueberry5213 congratulations on being debt free.

When I have had job uncertainty I sat down and made a bare bones budget to save as much as I could as a rainy day fund. The money you used to pay off debt you might be able to save. Having many months of expenses covered in the bank could make that uncertainty less imposing.

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 30th, 2023

@neatBlueberry5213 that's great news. Debt free 🎉🎉🎉 yaay well done ❤❤ I'm sorry about the uncertainty with your job though 😞

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 30th, 2023

@soulsings best thing in my life rn is Xmas and 7 cups and my carers ❤

Worst bits rn is my health. I've had a unknown virus since the week before Halloween. I'm kinda scared

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP November 30th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 I am glad you have some good things.

Sorry to hear about the virus. Hope you find a way to heal from that.

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User Profile: communicativePond1728
communicativePond1728 December 1st, 2023

@soulsings

What is the best thing happening in your life right now?

Maybe beer? Bought a bunch of fun, craft beers, one which won last year's best beer award.

Tons of famous craft breweries around where I live and I hardly ever drink...like once every few years so thought I'd splash out a bit.

And my meals have been a bit boring and dry lately. I like pairing food with drinks.

But also my hobbies and interests maybe because I'm focusing more on pushing myself past a plateau I've been at for a while lately.


What is the biggest struggle or challenge you have at the moment?

Well, aside from the neighborhood barking dog, which needs apparent and alleged punting, I'm probably, oddly enough, struggling most with the beer.

Alcohol isn't the healthiest, even if it is artisanal and organic and local and small batch...maybe I need to just return it, because I got 18 cans.

But I figured hey! I don't have an addictive personality and maybe I can do a mini review on all the different brews I got (Nine different kinds, all new releases except for the award winner.), and it went well with my burger today.

God I really get riled up when a dog just barks and barks though, it's so stupid...I need to stahp.

User Profile: maskedtitan1999
maskedtitan1999 December 3rd, 2023

The best thing in life right now is my relationship.

The biggest struggle is my software engineering degree.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP December 3rd, 2023

@maskedtitan1999 I am glad you have a good relationship. That can help us through difficult times.

Software Engineering is difficult - have you completed your degree?

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User Profile: maskedtitan1999
maskedtitan1999 December 3rd, 2023

I'm in my 4th semester right now... currently giving exams to wrap this semester up. I honestly feel like I'm gonna fail even though I studied since day 1..still not that great at programming 😫


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