What is one thing would you never would like to change about yourself? What is one thing you like to work on?
What is one thing you never would like to change about yourself? What is one thing you like to work on?
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@amiablePeace77
What is one thing you never would like to change about yourself?
My silliness and imagination
What is one thing you like to work on?
My a-social / Introverted personality, times like this I wish I weren't so shy and guarded and could use a couple of true friends.
@braindamag3
The ability to be silly at times and able to imagine things (in a healthy way) is wonderful and add to our life quality!
I hope that coming here and being active in the forums and maybe discussions or other events will help you to find it easier to approach people and feel safe to be around them.
@amiablePeace77
I hope that coming here and being active in the forums and maybe discussions or other events will help you to find it easier to approach people and feel safe to be around them
Not sure that will happen, I am ever so guarded after my last Friendship/Relationship Trauma. At least not here at work where I plan to retire at the end of this year.
Maybe I will join some keep active groups with my wife in the new year and that might be the time to start looking for a few new friends.
@braindamag3
It's sad when a Friendship/Relationship Trauma changes so much in life. I hope you will meet people to make friends with in the next year (and hopefully even before). Starting a "new life" can open so many opportunities!
I would never change the fact that I am loyal to my family.
@azureAcres1605
Your family must mean a lot to you!
My family means everything to me.
@azureAcres1605 This is sooo beautiful! Your family is so blessed to have you! ♡
@azureAcres1605
Same 💕💜
I currently don't work on anything. I'm not getting better, only worse. But if i could choose, i'd like to keep my health the way it is. But for me that's not a choice.
@DryRain16
It takes a lot of strength to cope with health issues! I hope things will not get worse for you.
They will, it's as inevitable as the coming kf the next day. But thanks for saying it
@amiablePeace77
What is one thing you never would like to change about yourself?
How kind and caring I am.
What is one thing you like to work on?
Setting boundaries and saying no to others when I need to, especially the ones who take advantage of how kind I am. Sometimes I feel like I’m too kind, too people pleasing.
Despite knowing I’m not a problem solver or therapist for others I noticed I’m solving others’ problems and like actual therapists I’m always hearing others vent or complain about their problems to me.
@akunknown
Sometimes we need to say "No" to others to be able to say "Yes" to us.
@amiablePeace77
What is one thing you never would like to change about yourself?
I think the will to learn new stuff every day.
What is one thing you like to work on?
My mental health ahaha
@daydreammemories
Learning something new every day is great and keeps your brain fit! Your mental health is important!
@amiablePeace77
😌🦋
I would never want to look down on people for what they dont have or ‘cause of race. I wanted to continue accepting all people regardless of tace, color or creed and not look at myself as being better than anyone else. Everyone has feelings everyone has the same color blood an everyone has the same emotions as I do.
I would like to work on wit people dat’s everyone deserves respect doesn’t deserve to be disrespected and to bring giving and caring to each other. I’m already trying to do just dat neither my granddaughter. She already holds doors open for people going IN out a store And today I worked wit her when Ya see someone having trouble walking or crossing ‘da street to ask the person if they need help.
@eternalHero77
You are teaching her valuable lessons! 👍
People are not divided into class A, B or C like some fruits are. People are people just like you and me.
True an everyone can use a hand every do often even if it’s as simple as a smile and’ sayin’ God morning to someone. But in some ways it could be people you’ve seen around cause a stranger you need be careful. I got followed one day for doing just dat I’m my home town. Not everyone is like this but there’s many places Ya can still perform good deeds.
@eternalHero77
Being mindful/cautious is always important!
I wouldn’t change my commission snd empathy for others.
I would like to help more people around ‘there community as well as outside there community.
I wouldn’t change my love of learning.
I would change so many things. But to pick one, I wish I could have a clearer sense of what’s real. I’m exhausted by constantly being unsure of I’m doing the right thing, having so many regrets and painful experiences. I’d love to have a lighter spirit and to feel calm that I’m where I’m supposed to be.
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
Going through painful experiences and having regrets is hard and becomes even harder the more we bring them to mind and even punish ourselves for them. I had to learn to look back with the eyes of compassion and tell myself "I did the best I could at that time". Be kind to yourself please 💙
Your love for learning indicates curiosity! 👍
I would never change having hope... but I would like to work on listening to my intuition.
Sometimes, people and things change for the better
but a lot of the time, when your intuition tells you "no", you should listen to it.
Honestly, maybe I just need new experiences by now.
@BelongtotheSun
Our intuition is precious, some people call it the "second brain".
What would be a new experience you like to make?