What was the best thought I had today?
It does not have to be an earth shaking thought. If can be really simple but recognizing our best thoughts validates them and reinforces them so as they are repeated, they grow stronger and more numerous.
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What was the best thought I had today?
I will get through this
@hopeisacure
I will get through this
@hopeisacure Love your positive attitude,my friend.
@soulsings That things will work out if I take it one step at a time
Love this thought
@positiverainbows34 This is so true.
@soulsings
That I am here for a reason
@sarahR2004
im trying to find my reasons for being here.
@Stacygebler1995 maybe there is no reason for existence, you're just here to be you and that's more than enough. The flowers never questioned themselves and just bloomed and enjoyed some sunlight.
@Stacygebler1995
You may not know why you are here right now but there is a reason for your existence trust me!
@sarahR2004 I love that thought. I have to keep reminding myself that a lot of pain and suffering was endured for me to be here and I want to contribute in some small way to return the kindness of others in helping me grow to adulthood.
@sarahR2004 Yes you are my friend.
Please do not ever forget this.
You matter to us here at 7cups.
That with all things you get out what you put in, so if I need more out of life I should go actively do things I like. Take control of the things that are within your control :)
@GraciousCalf620 Thanks for sharing this with us, my friend.
I hope you stay active for a really long time.
That I got lost more then I realized. That I could hear but could not listen more than I realized. That I looked but couldn't see more than I realized. That I might have lost my best friend and soulmate forever, but that we both know we will always be connected. As the bond is too strong to ever dissolve.
@dukeofdearham Maybe try calling them up on the phone, or maybe send them a message.
I hope this helps some.
@Happy900,
she wants to be left alone. I told her earlier I leave it up to her to reach out.
Had a challenge recently, lost my car keys. She helped me to sort it out, including paying a cab. While she is low on money.
Apart from being there for each other when in need, there is no contact. Basically. At times I get goodies from the super market I work at, and drop them off. She recently started to thank me again.
@dukeofdearham Thanks for the update.
@dukeofdearham
I hope that things in your life will get better soon and that it will not be the end with your best friend and soulmate.
@amiablePeace77,
thank you.
Will never happen. My wife is too damaged by her past, getting older and seeking warmth, love and non-confrontation in her spiritual world. That I feel has helped to enlarge the damage. Love her unconditionally and I am, I guess, too close by and too confronting. Like a mirror.
@dukeofdearham
I'm very sorry to hear about your wife suffering so much from her past. Please never forget that we are here for you if you want to share more in pms. 💙
@amiablePeace77,
I know, thanks.
Ny wife got drained by all the drama and emotions. I also started to realize that recently.
We both got drained. For my wife it was simply too much.
@soulsings my best thought today was that I am able to help people I need
@crispButterfly436 helping people has made me happier than anything I got or did for myself.
@crispButterfly436 I love that thought.
I to love to help others, my friend.
@soulsings
I want to make this work and I will put all my efforts into it.
@soulsings
It was probably something to do with being thankful. But I can't remember it now because I am so upset. My bathroom has flooded a little for the fourth time in maybe two weeks.
@purpleTree4652
Oh dear, that’s awful, Purple! My bathroom flooded about a month or two ago and it wasn’t fun. I hope your situation gets fixed soon. I care about you and you’ve been on my mind lately. ♥️
@TheAutumnWitch
God bless you, Autumn! (hugs) You're such a good person.
The problem seems to have been fixed, after 11 floods and about 8 plumbers. The apartment has been dry since last tuesday night.
How are you?
@purpleTree4652 Oh no,my friend.
I hope you can get the problem fixed, as soon as possible.
I also hope, it does not cost a lot, to fix.
@Happy900
Thank you, Happy! The apartment complex paid for the plumbers...about 8 of them over the course of about 2 1/2 weeks. I lost track. It seems to have been fixed. Let's keep our fingers crossed.
@soulsings
"I should probably open up to my therapist. It can do no harm"
Sending love ♥️ @TryingTBH2021
A beautiful thought. I am thinking of how far you must have come and the things you have overcome. Considering opening up to someone, especially a therapist, is a fantastic step. Letting someone in who is non judgmental, and purposefully with you to support you and help you build your strength is a positive step. I support and acknowledge your courage.
@MayStorm
Thank you for such a heartfelt and thoughtful message. I haven't considered half the things you said, because I often think the worst of me. But today I cried to my therapist, when I usually don't allow anyone to see my tears. She said "be kind to yourself"... I didn't know how. But I read your words, cried a little, and they made me feel a lot better, think of the events of today in a more positive light. Thank you. It may be a start, but I want to be kind to myself, like you were kind to me. Please take care ⭐
@TryingTBH2021 The more you open up, to your therapist, the more they will be able to help you.
@Happy900,
I really needed that reminder. It is scary, sometimes. But if I focus on your words, it gives me new strength to keep on trying. Thank you.
@TryingTBH2021 Your very welcomed.
That I survived the long day of driving despite feeling like crap. Hopefully I will feel better tomorrow.
@bestVase7265
Hi Vase!
Driving can be pretty tedious indeed. I hope you’ve managed to get some rest ever since! Take care. ♥️
Thanks. Today was driving day two of three. I still don't feel very well, but we keep moving forward. @TheAutumnWitch
@bestVase7265
Progress is progress, Vase! 😊
Exactly. @TheAutumnWitch
@bestVase7265 I hope you feel better soon,my friend.
Overall I am okay. Thanks. @Happy900
@bestVase7265 Glad to here this,my friend.