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Trauma Support Community Check-In for January 2024

User Profile: audienta
audienta January 2nd, 2024

Hello everyone,

welcome to this month's check-in! Feel free to answer the questions below and share with us how you're doing.


Trauma Support Community Check-In for January 2024

1) What is your favourite comfort item?

2) What are your biggest worries regarding 2024?

3) What are you looking forward to in 2024?


If you have a question you'd like me to ask at the next check-in, please let me know!

Take care,

audienta


You can get added to or removed from the trauma support taglist here.

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 2nd, 2024

@audienta

1) What is your favorite comfort item?  My doggy pillow

2) What are your biggest worries regarding 2024? My health and the well-being of my husband and home.

3) What are you looking forward to in 2024? Resolving some legal issues

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 3rd, 2024

@WorkingitThrough2 hugs you tightly ❤ how is your health? And your husband and kids? I hope 2024 is kinda to you than last year, hugs you tightly ❤

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 3rd, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

Tiny< thanks for asking. I think that the stress of letting my husband mess with me and the stuff I have been having to do is taking a toll on my health. Lack of being able to eat and my nerves are almost always in overload mode. I hope to be able to destress some of this stuff soon.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 3rd, 2024

@WorkingitThrough2 hugs you tightly ❤ remember I'm always here for you ❤ we all are, I love you ❤

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 4th, 2024

@WorkingitThrough2

A doggy pillow sounds great. I hope 2024 brings you and your husband good health and the energy to resolve what needs to be resolved.

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User Profile: WriteToHeal42
WriteToHeal42 January 2nd, 2024

Hi @audienta, thanks for the check in! How are you doing? :)

1) what is your favourite comfort item?

Probably my stuffed animal, or weighted blanket

2) What are your biggest worries regarding 2024?

Worried I won't be able to get a sustainable job where I can fully support myself financially 

3) What are you looking forward to in 2024?

New opportunities, like a new job, new people to meet, and new ideas to try out


Happy new year everyone! Here's to new beginnings :D

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 3rd, 2024

@WriteToHeal42

I love the fact that with all your concerns, you still have a positive attitude.❤️.

I believe Good things are coming your way❤️ 

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 3rd, 2024

@WriteToHeal42 happy new year ❤ I hope you get the perfect job and have the perfect here ❤ sending hugs and good wishes your way ❤

User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 4th, 2024

@WriteToHeal42

I really like my weighted blanket too. I hope you find the opportunities that help you to create a fulfilling life for yourself.

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User Profile: DinaElwy
DinaElwy January 3rd, 2024

1) What is your favourite comfort item?

Cushions and pillows 

2) What are your biggest worries regarding 2024?

Not to work on my MA thesis as I did in 2023, not to get rid of my reading block, not to find a job and be jobless forever. 

3) What are you looking forward to in 2024?

To finish my MA thesis and find true love. 

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 3rd, 2024

@DinaElwy

Thank you for responding. I do hear your concerns, and I hope that your reader block will soon disappear and that you will successfully finish your MA.❤️.

We believe in you and I think this will all turn out in your favor😊

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 3rd, 2024

@DinaElwy goodluck in your  ma thesis ❤❤ I hope all your worries turn to positives, and you find true love ❤❤ happy new year ❤

User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 4th, 2024

@DinaElwy

I wish you all the energy, motivation and patience to finish your MA thesis and find a job you like.

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User Profile: emotionalTalker2260
emotionalTalker2260 January 3rd, 2024

@audienta

1) What is your favourite comfort item?

Other then my many and many squishmallows, it has to be my growing collection of soft blankets 

2) What are your biggest worries regarding 2024?

that I’ll hate this year more then the previous year, and my biggest worry that’s been going for years is that I might lose my beloved dog, he is an old boy after all 

3) What are you looking forward to in 2024?

Deadpool 3! It’s gonna be in cinemas this year!

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 4th, 2024

@emotionalTalker2260

Aw, squishmallows and soft blankets sound good. I wish you that this year is slightly better than the last one, that you will have a lot of great moments with your dog and that you can enjoy Deadpool 3.

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User Profile: PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
PiecesOfWhoeverIWas January 4th, 2024

@audienta

1) What is your favourite comfort item? PJs and a fuzzy hoodie.

2) What are your biggest worries regarding 2024? That things I need to be changed will continue.

3) What are you looking forward to in 2024? Taking my power back.

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 4th, 2024

@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas

For 2024, I wish you a lot of time in PJs and fuzzy hoodies, good changes and opportunities to take your power back!


User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 6th, 2024

@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas

It sounds like you know what you want in this new year, and I believe it can happen for you. Taking your power back is a huge step toward progress. Do you have a plan for accomplishing this? I am very proud of you. 

Thank you for being here in this forum and for your reply❤️

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User Profile: Crakyz
Crakyz January 4th, 2024

@audienta Hi!! :3 I'd love to respond the questions!!

1) What is your favourite comfort item?

My seal plushie, its very warm and comfortable to hug :3

2) What are your biggest worries regarding 2024?

That Im gonna grow more and I don't like that, or that I'll live worse experiences

3) What are you looking forward to in 2024?

That I'll be a better person or improve in my art skills!

That's all, thanks for reading me :P

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 5th, 2024

@Crakyz

I love the seal plushie and How cuddly they feel. Sounds like you have some valid concerns about the new year. I believe that you will sail through this year with ease and clarity. Improving your art skills is a good goal to start the year off with😊.

Thank you for being a part of this forum❤️

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User Profile: Crakyz
Crakyz January 5th, 2024

@WorkingitThrough2 Oh! Thank you very much for responding, and also for your words, they mean a lot for me, take care, and happy 2024 for you!! :D

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 5th, 2024

@Crakyz

A warm seal plushie sounds great! Are you worried about the physical aspect of growing or about getting older? I hope for you that 2024 gets better and not worse than the last year and that you will have a lot of time to develop your art skills!

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 5th, 2024

@audienta

I just thought I would ask you the same questions If you don't mind❤️?

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User Profile: Crakyz
Crakyz January 5th, 2024

@WorkingitThrough2 Oh, yes! Don't worry, I really dont feel comfortable or safe being older physically or growing up generally, I think Im still too unprepared for grow and that makes me kind of insecure, but I hope things will be better this time!

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 6th, 2024

@Crakyz

When the time is right, things will begin to fall in place😊

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 6th, 2024

@WorkingitThrough2 That's kind of you 💜

1) What is your favourite comfort item?

I have a cushion I like a lot.

2) What are your biggest worries regarding 2024?

I worry about my health and living situation.

3) What are you looking forward to in 2024?

I'm looking forward to being able to do creative activities and be here on 7 Cups.

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 6th, 2024

@audienta

Thanks so much, , for all you do and for the check-in prompt.

I hope that 2024 brings good Health and security to your living situation❤️

Peace, Love, and much happiness ❤️

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 6th, 2024

@WorkingitThrough2

Thank you for your kind words and your work here in the trauma support community!

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User Profile: mish3l
mish3l January 6th, 2024
  1. Cozy pillows and blankets
  2. That it will be the same or worse than 2023. I seriously hope it will not. I'm also worried that I will not be able to manage the returning back to work.
  3. Horse riding and summer.


I'm now on the path to recovery from the last half year of serious depressions. I started antidepressants in the the end of December. It was very bad when I started taking them but it's getting better slowly, I'm thankful for that.

Intimacy still triggers my panic attacks, I want to try the EDMR treatment. I hope it helps with it. I have the first appointment in two weeks.

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 6th, 2024

@mish3l

I love a cozy pillow and a nice soft plush blanket, too.It helps me feel secure😊

I am glad that the depression is getting better now that you are on anti-depressants.❤️. EMDR has had a lot of success with many people so I really hope you gain great benefits from it. Hopefully,.

your depression and EMDR will be better by the time you have to go back to work❤️

Wishing you this year great health, good working conditions, and Peace of mind.😊

Thank you for being a part of this Forum and for your response. We are rooting for you❤️

User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 9th, 2024

@mish3l

I'm glad to hear that your antidepressants are starting to work. I wish you that the EMDR therapy works, that you are able to start working again if you want that and that 2024 gets better than 2023 for you.

User Profile: mish3l
mish3l January 10th, 2024

@WorkingitTrough2 @audienta thank you so much ❤️ I wish you the best year 2024 ❤️☀️

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 11th, 2024

@mish3l

Thank you😊

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User Profile: Amelia763
Amelia763 January 7th, 2024

@audienta Please add me

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 9th, 2024

@Amelia763

If you want to be added to the taglist, please write "Please add me" under this post: https://www.7cups.com/forum/trauma/Resources_2334/TraumaSupportAutomatedTaglist_219256/

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User Profile: Amelia763
Amelia763 January 11th, 2024

@audienta Please add me

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 12th, 2024

@Amelia763

Hey Amelia,

unfortunately, it doesn't work under this post. You need to go to the post here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/trauma/Resources_2334/TraumaSupportAutomatedTaglist_219256/

There you can type "Please add me" to get added to the taglist.

Take care, 
audienta

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User Profile: Amelia763
Amelia763 January 7th, 2024

@audienta ) What is your favorite comfort item?  My comforter. I used to have a support animal who brought me lots of comfort, but he got sick and died last year He was a fine furry fellow.

2) What are your biggest worries regarding 2024? The growing political extremism and polarisation in all western countries. It can lead to persecution and loss of freedoms. Personally I have health concerns. 

3) What are you looking forward to in 2024? Warner weather and blooming flowers in May of 2024.

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 9th, 2024

@Amelia763

I hope that things in your country get better real soon. I am sorry that your support dog died they are so very loving. Do you think you will get another one? Our health gets better to.

I, too, am looking forward to the flowers blooming again and warmer days.

Thank you for replying to the post we are so happy to have you😊

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User Profile: Amelia763
Amelia763 January 31st, 2024

@WorkingitThrough2 It was my cat who got old and sick and had to be put to sleep forever. 

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 February 1st, 2024

@Amelia763

I am sorry❤️

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP January 9th, 2024

@Amelia763 I'm sorry for your loss. And I understand that political and health concerns can be very stressful. I hope that you can enjoy the spring and have a good 2024.

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