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@disgracey Hello, I'm here if you need to chat
I don't really know how effective this is going to be. But quite frankly, I just got in a row with my wife, it was all about dinner, she's been on me to cook dinner and have it on the table on time. And this time it got out of hand she threw at me something that I was supposed to cook. I had no idea what it was supposed to be until she told me it involves the chicken, please pick the chicken off the bones which I did, and then all of a sudden, I'm making this whole plate. I wasn't prepared to do when I asked questions about it. She said figure it out. I'm going to take a bath, so I figured it out, I was going to make a salad with chicken and mushrooms, corn onions toss that up roast some potatoes have that on the side and I left it open in case she wanted the chicken salad. That she had mentioned earlier making a chicken salad, but she wasn't clear on what that was exactly. She just had a chicken salad so that could go either way so I did I went the other way she came out and said, no, not the chicken mixed in with the salad. I want a chicken salad. So I put the chicken salad together, I pulled out the roasted potatoes. I forgot to leave the oven mitt on the roasted potatoes, you burned herself, all I get is a bunch of slack and say how careless I am. We don't have kids. She saw me pull a pan out of the oven and put it on the stove. She knew it was hot, but she went ahead and grabbed it anyway. I feel terrible, of course, but then trying to apologize to her makes it only worse, because we're in a horrible fight and she's been nasty and just on my case all *** day. And I don't even know why it's like I can do no good. And there's nothing that I can do to improve the situation with that's my rant.
I Walked out, I told her that I really was very sorry that she burned herself and that I didn't even admit on the PAN that I just pulled out from you. I told her how sorry I was and but I also said, I can't stay here. II have to leave. I just have to go for a walk. I just can't be here right now. It's not just that we're in a fight. I have a situation where my wife is studying with the narcissistic expert Romney, and she is pegging me at every turn and corner as a narcissist, calling me cruel and sadistic, and maybe the other person reading this. We'll say well, are you?And I will say , if somebody gets pegged enough times being called our narcissist , then they're bound to see nothing but narcissism in that person I think it's a dangerous thing to learn these things online and see only the negative in a person and not the whole picture. I aint the best person in the world, but I am not a horrible person, and I am being pegged as a horrible person. My life is more Valuable, that match to constantly demean and devalue. I'm not feeling much like a man nowadays. Just not I'm sorry to sex who I am, but for crying out loud to not feel like a person is not, it's not helping me at all, it's not helping her at all She just gets meaner and more frequent with her accusations. And we just keep getting deeper and deeper in debt because of the fantastical thinking, I'm a positive person I'll look at the details, but I am a positive person. I don't know how that helps my situation now. Though. Thanks for listening.
@indigoMaple3268, I am so sorry you had to be in that situation. If it makes you feel any better, there are a bunch of people out there who feel that they can help you. I am not trying to get you to try a course or anything like that, I just really want and need you to calm a bit, take a deep breath, and make some space for you to clear your head and have an open mind. I will do everything in my power to help you, and if you need absolutely anything, I am on here for a bit longer. Thank you for sharing this message, Indigomaple3268. You are loved.
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Thank you for ranting with us. And just so that you know, you kept your effort and gave the best you could. How others react to your efforts is on them, and it honestly doesn’t mean that you can do no good, even though I totally agree that their reaction impacts you. I really hope your situation get better with time.
If I may ask, how long have you been facing these situations and is there anything you doing to make it better?