ðAbout MeðHey there everyone! I am LavenderFlower, but you can call me Lavender or LavÂ I like video games, writing, acting, music, and art. Iâm super interested in Psychology and Forensics as well. I listen to those with Personality Disorders and Dissociative Disorders on top of the categories I have listed. I also take chats about attention seeking and lying. I am an empathetic listener who will do their best to support you. If you want to schedule a chat with me personally, you will have to do so using my Booking Button, which can be found at the bottom of my page. Please only take 1 slot.ðInvolvementsð
Support Session Leader
Verified Listener + Verified Listener Team
Intern Mentor + Intern Graduate with Honours
Quality MentorBooking Button!ð
I'm Jenna. I've been here for 5 years and it has been an impactful time in my life both for my own well-being and having the privilege to support others. My main focus on chat topics is anxiety, bipolar depression, DID, and trauma chats. You can find a full list of topics I support down below under categories. I work almost non-stop at my real life job which unfortunately has a huge impact on my availability. For this reason, I am not able to take on long-term members at this time until I am able to find a balance.â¥I only take scheduled chats for 1 hour a day based on my work scheduleâ¥My InvolvementActive Listening 1Depression Support Team LeaderFeed Team LeaderForum MentorPeer Support LeaderSafety PatrolVerifying ListenersMy Twinderfuls:@asthebeesays@coolvibes@fluffyUnicorns84@Teagan@vivelespatates@wonderfulPumpkin71
Due to own mental health I am CURRENTLY UNAVAILABLE to give emotional support. Please connect to one of our other amazing listenersÂ you canÂ use the search functions to find a listener for your own needs. using https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners
"You are always one decision away from a totally different life."Hello Community, I am known as Obs. I am a 7Cups Ambassador and one of the Community Mentor Leaders of the Relationship and Friendship Support Subcommunity.Â I am also aÂ â¨ Chatroom MentorÂ â¨ Quality MentorÂ â¨ Forum MentorÂ â¨ DoorkeeperPlease feel free to message me, if you have any questions or doubts regarding the community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts.Â Note-Â I am unable to take chat requests as I am unable to respond timely. I request to connect with other available listeners here-Â Â Browse Listeners.Â We all are here with you to listen and support.Â Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character building day." - Les Brown
Thanks for checking out my profile. I'm Alex, and I'm a trained Active Listener here at 7 Cups.
I have been through many experiences dealing with depression, stress, and trauma in my day, and I still struggle with anxiety. So, I can most likelyÂ relate to you and your experiences.
As an Active Listener, my job here is to listen to you, whether you're ranting to me or simply seeking a friendly voice to have a conversation. Just know that you are never alone, and I commend your strength and perseverence.
Most of my Active Listening days are spent on prescheduled chats, but if you would prefer immediate support, you can enter the queue to speak with the next available ListenerÂ hereÂ at any time, 24/7/365.
What do I feel comfortable helping with?
There are many different topics that I am willing to chat with you about, and many of them are listed below. However, nobody's experiences are ever cookie-cutter in nature, so please do not let my listed areas of expertise turn you away from seeking my support - simply send me a message and I will be more than happy to listen to you.
What do I do outside of Active Listening?
What I love about 7 Cups is how much more there is to it than simply connecting 1-1 with a Listener. With that said, here's a list of what I do here at 7 Cups, other than listening to Members and Guests:
Community Mentor LeaderÂ (Listener Learning & Journey Subcommunity)
Global Group ModeratorÂ (I can modÂ allÂ Group Support Chatrooms)
Peer SupporterÂ (Listeners - I'm here for you after you've had a rough chat!)
Chatroom Teen StarÂ (I moderate Listener Chatrooms)
Quality Teen StarÂ (I grade Active Listening 2 exams)
Forum Teen StarÂ (I monitor the Forum Flags and moderate the Forums)
Teen Anxiety Support Team Leader
Group Support Chatroom Doorkeeper
*Not taking new chats at the moment due to time constraints!**Life is a journey that everyone goes through. Think of it as a story told by you. There are many ups in life as well as many downs but it is up to the author of each story to determine the next chapter.* ~Anya Members/GuestMental health is important 365 days/year. Many people suffer from mental health struggles but they are too afraid to speak about it because of the stigma all around us. But whatâs harder than dealing with mental health issues, is pretending that you arenât struggling. You shouldnât have to pretend like you are always okay, out of fear that others will judge you or talk about you or think any less of you. No matter what you are dealing with, you are still you. The only thing that matters is that you know your strength and your courage, and let me tell you, everything that you are is more than enough, no matter who you are or what you are going through. So donât be ashamed of any part of it. Your battles are what shape you into the strong and amazing person you are. And no matter what anyone tells you, itâs okay not to feel that you are strong and amazing every day. Itâs okay not to believe it for a while. Itâs okay to struggle. I assure you, you are not alone. Every single one of us goes through that at some point or another.I will always be here to listen to your story, and I will not ever judge you, or make you feel ashamed of what you are going through, or see you as anything less than the wonderful person you are. Because I know that at the end of the day, the one who has the courage to speak about it, is the one who is the bravest of them all.ListenersI want you all to remember that you guys are truly amazing. Spending time on here to help others during your free time shows dedication, compassion, and kindness on your part. Thank you so much for doing this. I know that all of our fellow members truly appreciate it! Got a question for me? Feel free to send me a message at any time and I will get back to you as soon as I can!
My InvolvementChatroom Ambassador
Teen Listener Teams Leader
Listener Learning Support Team Co-Leader (Teens)
Trauma Open Chat Host (Teens)
It's okay to say you're not okay.
Â It's okay to cry.And sometimes you think,And you might say,Â But we all look like this:You're not alone.Give me a moment and I'll be right there!How can I help you?Now...A little about me: Most people call me Azure or Azu~ I love anime, kpop, cpop,Â and netflix. I'm also a huge fan of Jackson Wang ^^Â I'd love toÂ haveÂ a casual chat on those topics as well as the topics listed on my page. :') I am working towards a degree in psychaitry. If you just need some positivity in your life, 98.5% of the time, I'll find some way to cheer you up! But know if you wanna change, I will guide you but you must take the steps yourself. If you fall, pick yourself up again. Send me a message and let's see if we click~
I will take any chats listed on my profile. TheÂ two topics that I am the best at are Self Harm(I have distractions and helpful exercises) and Student Support(High School and College related are both fine).
Please note I do not take chats on Innapropriate topics or Domestic abuse~If you ever need support and I'm not here, please contact one of my ever so wonderful twins or 7cups family:
My lovely and supportive twinny: @sweetLily41
My kind and thoughtful twinny: @oceansand17
My encouraging and helpful twinny: @AnActiveListenerHere
My artistic and cheerful twinny: @kindSoul10Â
My reliable and outstanding twinny: @TsukinoTheHag
My caring and beautiful sis: @onedirection1213For listeners:If you are a new discussion leader or group mod, I would be more than willing to cohost with you until you are comfortable.Â I am also a global mod so please don't hesitate to PM me!Â
Before you reach the very end, I'd like to share these 4 beautiful quotes:"My dream isn't to become the 'best',Â it's to be someone who I'm not ashamed to be.'' -Key(SHINee)"We don't look at a flower and think it will look prettier with a different colour or different height. We take it for what it is. Why can't we do the same for people?" -Mark Tuan(GOT7)"Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth." -Jackson Wang(GOT7)"Even when I fall and hurt myself I keep running towards my dream." -Jin(BTS)
"The hardest choice in life is deciding between what you want and what you deserve."You deserve to live a beautiful life!
Hey there I am Bear! I am so glad you have stumbled across my profile!Â I enjoy watching netflix, walking my dog, reading and meditating in my spare time. Self-Care is highly important to me to ensure a balance within my life and I highly recommend some form of self-care to everyone to include in their day - even if it is something as simple as making a cup of tea and taking a moment of reflection.Â cick me to find some free mindfulness audio guidesÂ All the images on this page have hyperlinks related to the information above them. Please click them for more information!Â I am currently in BST timezone to find the time difference between our time zones click the clock image below to link you to a time converter.At this current time my schedule is unpredictable so I will mainly be taking general requests when it suits my availability best. If you need to talk to someone and I am unable to chat you are welcome to click the bear below to find another listenerÂ My involvementÂ ð»Â Self-Harm Recovery Support Room LeaderÂ ð»Â Self-Harm Recovery Forum MentorÂ ð»Q&A Approval TeamÂ ð»Chatroom MentorÂ ð»Verifiers TeamÂ ð»Quality MentorÂ ð»Global ModÂ Click below if you would like to see some cute imagesÂ
Hello! I'm Blaze
I am not taking any new 1-on-1 support chats. You can find another listener here:Browse Listeners
If you do contact me, please leave a message saying what you need and how I can help you. I will not reply to single messages saying "hi" or "I have a problem" and nothing else. This goes for both Members and Listeners.
Iâm strongly focused on Quality ProjectsÂ on 7 Cups.Â Iâm a Quality Mentor. If you're a Listener and would like toÂ get in touch with a Quality Mentor, you can message me.Quotes
Do not listen with the intent to reply, but with the intent to understand. ~Stephen Covey