ðAbout MeðHey there everyone! I am LavenderFlower, but you can call me Lavender or LavÂ I like video games, writing, acting, music, and art. Iâm super interested in Psychology and Forensics as well. I listen to those with Personality Disorders and Dissociative Disorders on top of the categories I have listed. I also take chats about attention seeking and lying. I am an empathetic listener who will do their best to support you. If you want to schedule a chat with me personally, you will have to do so using my Booking Button, which can be found at the bottom of my page. Please only take 1 slot.
Support Session Leader
Verified Listener + Verified Listener Team
Intern Mentor + Intern Graduate with Honours
Hello lovely people of the 7cups community. I'm glad you found your way to 7cups. I am a listener on this site. Everyone needs support in one way or another. I am here to help you in whatever way I can by supporting you, listening to you, and being here during your difficult times. I would love to talk to you!Â
Some things I enjoy doing are reading poetry, listening to music, making digital art, and being apart of the 7cups community <3
My 7cups Daughter : Paytonfaye2003 - Love you <3Â
Currently on vacation and not returing until late April 7Â with limited access to internet.Â
If you need forum help with 35+ please contactÂ SoulfullyAButterflyÂ for Room questions please contactÂ pamharley003Â orÂ caringPanda45.Sorry not accepting member chats at this time other than regular members that IÂ listen to. Please see here for a listener:Â Â https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/I like to help others and like to be helped also. Created the following to help everyone please let me know if there is a web site that I should add as a resource:
-Â An Introduction to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
CBT resources -Â How CBT can help-Â AnxietyÂ Worksheets-Â Â Cognitive distortions
-Â Â Health anxiety
-Â Â psychologytools.com/download-therapy-worksheets.html
DBT resources -Â psychcentral.com/lib/an-overview-of-dialectical-behavior-therapy/
-Â Coping with Flashbacks
-Â Feelings wheel
-Â Turning the mind
Activity Scheduling Activities can be connected to the way you feel. If you track feelings of depression, you may discover that when you are depressed you are more passive and less active. Following the observation that depressed people tend to stop doing pleasurable activities, depression treatments often emphasize increasing the weekly number of pleasurable activities. Additional ways to improve mood:
Surround yourself with people who have a positive impact on you
Invest in friendships and have a âgo toâ person that you can trustBecome more forgiving - forgive yourself and forgive others
Build on areas of strength and note evidence for new beliefs that replace old negative beliefs (praise yourself for things you accomplish)Keep a gratitude journal
Coping skills -Â Alphabet of Stress Management and Coping Skills
-Â Adult Pleasant Activities
-Â Adult Pleasant Events
-Â 99 Coping Skills
Books -Â 5 love languages and then discuss it-Â Mindfulness for borderline personality disorder
Contacts -Â Cancer-Â Cahoots-Â Doctor Reviews-Â Doctor Specialists-Â Acupuncture-Â Chiropractor-Â Dermatologists-Â ENT â Ear, Nose, Throat-Â Find A Hospital-Â Find A Physician-Â Find top rated doctor in my area-Â GI - gastroenterology-Â Gynecologists-Â Doctor search-Â What to expect from visit-Â Hospital Reviews-Â How To Find A Doctor That Accepts My Insurance-Â How To Search For Doctors That Accept Medicaid-Â Massage-Â OBGYNs-Â Ophthalmologist and Optometrists: Similarities and Differences-Â Types of Doctors-Â Urgent Care-Â Find a Trusted Mental Health Treatment Center for You-Â Hourglass-Â Mission-Â NAMI-Â National Suicide Prevention Lifeline â 800-273-8255/Text 741741 (Text Start)-Â Pleasant activities list-Â Couples-Â Find a therapist-Â Open Source Counseling-Â Optometrist-Â Psychologytoday-Â Types of Therapists-Â List of suicide crisis lines-Â befrienders.org - helps you find helplines by country-Â imalive.org - an online crisis chat service, for anyone anywhere in the world.-Â Psych Central Common Hotline Phone Numbers-Â suicide.org - List of suicide helplines-Â suicidestop.com - helps you find online chat, emergency numbers and crisis hotlines for many different countries in the world-Â Warmline-Â White Bird-Â WomanSpace
Self-help guides -Â 7cups
Other Links -Â Abortion-Â Advice for Teens-Â Alcohol-Â Anger and Aggression-Â Anxiety-Â Bible Study-Â Breathing Exercises And Techniques
-Â Â Detox Local-Â Exercises for Relaxation-Â Problems-Â Problems: Causes, Tests, and Treatments-Â Coping with Depression-Â Crisis hotlines the recovery group-Â Depression - A majority of people experience depression at least once during their lifetime, but they may or may not be aware of it. Understanding what depression is begins the journey toward recovering from depression. You may not realize that depression symptoms are not just emotional. Depression is much more than a low mood, feeling sad, and being irritable. There are cognitive (e.g., self-criticism and hopeless thoughts), behavioral (e.g., isolating from others and having difficulty âgetting startedâ with activities), and physical (e.g., sleep problems and change in appetite) symptoms as well. The mind and body are very much connected, and the way that depression affects someone demonstrates that strong connection. Learn more about what depression is by reading the Depression Guide on 7 Cups of Teaâs website. You can also talk to someone about your experience of depression by requesting to chat with one of our listeners.Millions of people suffer from depression everyday? How do I know if I'm depressed or if I'm just sad?-Â Forgiveness -Â How to Get Help-Â Key To a Happier Future-Â Letting go of grudges and bitterness-Â Minors Legal Questions and Answers
Panic Attacks -Â 10 Ways to Stop a Panic Attack-Â Psychology and its practice-Â Psychologytoday-Â What Does the Bible Say-Â Guide to Women's Self Defense and Self Protection-Â Healing Self-Hate-Â Healthy Relationships, Sexuality and Disability-Â Help with your sex life-Â How to help a friend who is being abused-Â Instant Self-Denfense-Â Self Help Resources-Â Womens Health-Â MentalHelp - Comprehensive Mental Health and Mental Illness information on topics like Depression, Bipolar, Suicide, Anxiety, Addiction, Schizophrenia, and more.-Â Mindfulness meditation-Â A Bad Dream Is More Than Just A Dream: The Science Of Nightmares-Â Adult nightmares-Â Causes and facts-Â How can you interpret dreams-Â Research and Treatments-Â Prevent nightmares-Â Psychologytoday-Â Sleep Disorders-Â Sleep Education-Â Parents & Teachers: Tips & Advice for Talking to Teens About Sex-Â PTSD: National Center for PTSD-Â Women and PTSD-Â Child sexual abuse-Â Dealing with Rape-Â How to Prevent a Potential Rape-Â Help after rape and sexual assault-Â If your child is raped-Â http://www.sarsas.org.uk/self-help-guides/-Â https://www.helpguide.org/articles/ptsd-trauma/recovering-from-rape-and-sexual-trauma.htm-Â Medical Examination of the Rape Victim-Â Raiin-Â Rape Victims Prone to Suicide-Â Sex, Sexuality, and Sexual Disorders-Â Sexual Assault Survivor's Guide-Â Sexual Misconduct Law and Legal Definition-Â Statutory Rape: A guide to state laws and reporting requirements-Â Survivors Chat-Â Things Not to Say to a Survivor of a Sexual Crime-Â What is Sexual Violence-Â Recovering Your Mental Health-Â How Can I Satisfy My Sexual Desire If Iâm Destined For Singleness
Read the book5 love languagesand then discuss it-Â Setting boundaries-Â Understanding Ourselves and Our Relationships-Â https://www.rainn.org/articles/self-care-after-trauma-Â Self Growth-Â Self Injury outreach and support-Â Self-Soothing Techniques: Distraction-Â Sex Addicts Anonymous-Â Sex Therapy-Â Social Anxiety-Â Taking Care of YOU: Self-Care for Family Caregivers-Â Teaching kids consent ages 1-21-Â Teen Health-Â Therapy Worksheets and Handouts-Â Trauma Self-Help Books & Workbooks-Â Why do men rape women-Â Women self defense
Hey all my names Brit. Iâve been a listener for a lil while now I'm a verified ATL too I'll only take chats for one hour slots at a time if you need regular we will set up a time and date after every chat i take Always accepting long term members .
id prefer SCHEDULED chats only you can use the book now at bottom of bio if you cant see this pm me and ill give you the link for it .since im super busy with my other roles i dont take chats after 5pm EDT thanks for understanding
Teams Iâm On
Peer supporter this is for the listeners who get rough chats we also can support the Mentors in answering any questions you may have
Support teams : Disability Support , Teen Trauma Support and Adult Trauma , Self Harm Recovery
Iâm also a Trained Verified Listener passed the VL mock chat and done the training recently to join the Verifier team to verify others if youâd like to become verified or want to know more message me :)
Chat Support i can give ongoing chat support if you are Stuck in a chat also able to give basic mentoring
Project Agent for VL (1-1 trainings and member checkins )
Group Mod Buddy
Q&A approval team (Answers and editing answers)
Peer Supporter Buddy
ATL (Adult Teen Listener
Forum Supporter Disability
Forum Support Self Harm Recovery
Forum Support for Trauma Subcom
Safety Patrol Team checking profiles follow guidelines & Feed Team
My Listener Twins are : MagicallySmiles50 , PalmTreesNRainbows, BeckyisHere ( bunny twinny) and RumpleSteeleSkin
Please click below on the book now if you wish to book a chat with me
Click HERE to book me if you cant see the above button
Hello! I would loveÂ to talk to you, because I have dealt with many of the issues you are going through. I know multiple people with eating disorders, I have anxiety, depression, am LGBTQ+, and used to self-harmÂ myself, and I hope these experiences can help you.Even if I'm not online, please leave a message and I'll get back to you ASAP! Sometimes I'm online even when 7cups says I'm not.My schedule (All EST):
Monday- 3:30pm-4:30pm; 7pm-9pm
Tuesday- 3:30pm-5pm; 8pm-9pm
Wednesday- 3:30pm-4:30pm; 8pm-9pm
Thursday- 4:30pm-5pm; 6pm-9pm
Saturday and Sunday is whenever I can be on!
Hello right now I am only taking my old member.
if you are female member than I might try to listen. Though Not in frame of mind to take new member. If possible can pls switch to other listener. Take care.
Hello, thank you for stopping by!â¤ï¸ I am veryÂ happy to be here! Helping others makes me feel happy and all warm inside. I am an old soul that can relate to the most diffused kinds of pain. I am here to help you through what has been keeping you up at night! I am really caring, compassionate, sweet, bubbly and soft! â¤ï¸ Please reach out, if you feel like having a great time and an engaging conversation! ð
Pr. S. : I don't take chats on sexual issues at present. But I'm willing to hear, if you like :)
Well well well..... there's a sudden overflow of thoughts whenever I'm faced with the task of describing myself, expressing myself.
Let's give that a try, anyhow.
So, I'm six feet, science enthusiast, who is good at things that are usually practically trash. I like to do many things... I'm not going to list them (huh ð) . And I play chess. And I like spreading positivity. And I think that's enough for an introduction.
Greetings! My name is ArinaÂ and I'm so glad you found me on 7 Cups! I listen patiently and compassionately, but I do not give advice as I believe the answer is already within you. However I can help you to brainstorm some ideasI want to help the best I can, so before you send me a personal chat request, I advise you to read my profile firstÂ I handle these topics especiallyAnxiety
Borderline Personality Disorder
ADHD/ ADDI do not handle these topics (for now)Breakup
Alcohol Addiction/ Substance Abuse
Sexual Topics (LGBTQ, Erotic Businesses, etc)
CrimeMy AvailabilityTuesday 5 AM - 11 AM (ET)Friday 1 AM - 9 AM (ET)Weekends 1 AM - 9 AM (ET)*this isn't fixedOnline, means I accept personal request chatsOffline, means I'm away from keyboard or I'm not taking chatsBusy, means I'm currently handling a chat, therefore I won't be able to reply to you ASAPFun Facts About Me!-I do NOT like the color pink (yikes). Therefore I choose pink for my profile theme colorÂ -My MBTI type is ENFP-A! (took the test multiple of times just to be really really sure)
-I'm afraid of dogs! I run at the very sight of them! (especially the big built ones)
-However I'm a cat lova! (yeah they're mean yada yada...they're acutely cute)
-A hopeless romantic! (go aww-ing at every sight of romance)
-Whenever I got to go outside, I have to check the keys to my flat (yes it isn't automatically locked) in my purse multiple of times just be sure it's there. Like, I will open my purse, then close it, then open it again to see if it's going to disappear. (I don't have OCD)
-I love everything inspirational and motivational. So maybe I'll quote a lotFavorite QuotesBook a chat with me?
Not available from Montay to Friday until 10 a.m. EST!
Hi pal, my name is Manuel, I am 20 years old and study "social work".
I am glad you are here, please feel free to leave a message!
Don't let the â¼Â go down, take care!
My current roles here on 7Cups
Verified Listener: I am verified by the community for having a high level in active listening.
Adult-Teen Listener: I can talk to both - adults and teens! How cool is that? I can speak to everyone!
Peer Supporter: If you have been through a difficult/triggering chat as a listener, I can give you support and resources to help you in case you encounter that situation again.
Room Supporter: I am a group room supporter in Relationship-Support, LGBTQ+ & MOGII-Support and Teen-Support.
Safety Patrol Team: I am able to flag your profile for inappropriate content - so, stay out of trouble!