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Mother's Day check-in

User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 May 14th, 2023

Hi All. Today is Mother's Day.

This day is often a joyous celebration of moms and caregivers.

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Moms, we appreciate you! <3

I also realize that Mother's day can be difficult, and bring up a lot of hurt and mixed emotions. If you are in that place, there are 10 tips for making this time a little easier: https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/mothers-day-coping-mechanisms-258601

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So, for this week's check-in, can you tell us one thing that you admire about your mom or mother figure? Maybe it is a physical trait, like you're glad you have her hair, or lovely complexion, or love of music and art, or maybe it is something deeper, like patience, kindness, generosity, or determination.

Please share in the comments, if you are comfortable doing so.

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 OP May 14th, 2023

One of the things I really admire about my mother is her ability to adapt and grow. She is not the same person that she was when I was younger. She has done a lot of work within herself, to better herself, and has done her best to forgive and mend broken relationships. It has been a wonderful thing, to see her walk through that process.

User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 May 14th, 2023

@purplelady568

TIL that mother's day in my natal country is not the same as mother's day everywhere else.

To any mother who is being a great mother despite challenges, you are the best.

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 OP May 14th, 2023

@Clio9876 IL not sure what country you are in, but Happy Mothers Day all the same!

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User Profile: compassionateCar7091
compassionateCar7091 May 14th, 2023

Mother of 3 and I feel lucky today

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 OP May 14th, 2023

@compassionateCar7091 I hope your kids find meaningful ways to show you their love and appreciation today 💗

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User Profile: Caitlyn7COT
Caitlyn7COT May 14th, 2023

My mother, rest her soul, was the biggest influence in my life - I owe everything to her and I carry her with me at all times.

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 OP May 14th, 2023

@Caitlyn7COT That is so sweet. I'm sure you cherish the memories with her. I'm sorry she is no longer with you here on earth.

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User Profile: MindonFire6
MindonFire6 May 14th, 2023

@purplelady568

i love u mommy


thx for everything 🤍🤍

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 OP May 14th, 2023

@MindonFire6 ❤️

I hope your mom can feel the love

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User Profile: Jaeteuk
Jaeteuk May 14th, 2023

My mother has a good intuition, she can often feel what us kids are thinking or worried about. Although she doesn't always talk to us directly about what she has sensed, but we can tell she can see through us at times. There is this saying in Chinese, that kids are like a worm from their mother's tummy. Since we were once a part of them, our mothers are able to sense when there's something off with us.

@purplelady568

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 OP May 14th, 2023

@Jaeteuk What a wise thing, i love that you shared that about your mother. Sometimes moms are good at knowing things without using words.

Oh, and I like that Chinese saying! I agree, i think mothers and their children will always be connected in some way.

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User Profile: NewYorker11
NewYorker11 May 14th, 2023

@purplelady568

Happy Mother's Day 2023!

one thing that i admire about my mother is her ability to perservere regardless of the difficulty of any situation that she is in. also, my mother is a leader by example, she lives her life to show others a positive path of life.

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 OP May 15th, 2023

@NewYorker11 - How nice! I'm so glad your mother has been a good role mode land example of leadership to you and others. <3

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User Profile: NewYorker11
NewYorker11 May 22nd, 2023

@purplelady568

thank you so much for your kind words, i greatly appreciate it!!!

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User Profile: TreaureSeekers3
TreaureSeekers3 May 15th, 2023

It’s not Mother’s Day here. In uk

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 OP May 15th, 2023

@TreaureSeekers3 When is Mother's Day celebrated in the UK? Sorry, I don't know.

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User Profile: pamharley003
pamharley003 May 17th, 2023

@purplelady568

please remove my name for the list I no longer want to be part of this team

User Profile: turqoiseOrange7980
turqoiseOrange7980 May 22nd, 2023

I miss my mother so much. I lost her in the summer of 2022. She was my best friend, my confidante. She knew me and understood me like no other person. I miss her bright smile, her love - not for who She thinks I should be - but just for who I am.. her daughter.. her affection, her positive attitude even in the face of a terminal disease, and her love for her family. Ma wherever you are I love you and I miss you. Every. Single. Day.

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 OP May 22nd, 2023

@turqoiseOrange7980 l am very sorry for the loss of your mother. It sounds like she was a wonderful role model to you. I hope you can cherish the memories you have with her.

I hope that you give yourself time and space to grieve her loss, whatever that looks like for you. I have learned that grief does not follow a linear pattern, it can hit you at unexpected times, and it does not have a clear timetable.

Please reach out if you'd like a listening ear.

Take care. -Purple

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