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The SEAL technique

User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 July 16th, 2023

For someone or something that has made you annoyed.

This was taught me by my workplace mentor. I share it in the hope that it might help someone else.

My mentor and I used to communicate by email. Often I would write to them after some situation had upset me. I'd describe the situation in a long rant, and then ask "what do I do?"

In response I'd get:

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Yep, a picture of a baby seal.

My mentor's theory was that is is largely impossible to be annoyed when looking at a baby seal.

Do you agree?

I called it the "seal" treatment. Of course it wouldn't solve the problem, we'd talk through the situation as well. But, it would get me into a better head space for finding a way forward.

I dare 7 cup-ers to fill this thread with as many different pictures of cute baby seals as possible.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou July 16th, 2023

@Clio9876

Seal of approval to this super cutuu post, thankyouu for sharing hehe!🥰

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User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 OP July 20th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Oh wow! Cute videos of seals. Even better.

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User Profile: SunShineAlwaysGrateful
SunShineAlwaysGrateful July 17th, 2023

@Clio9876

ahh cuteness love it


baby goats work as well lol 158e1bf1-b2a6-4625-8aa8-59d114e3e599_1689606152.jpeg😂

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User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 OP July 20th, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful

Oh, yes, indeed. You are totally correct. Goat kids are the cutest and its impossible not to smile when watching them play. The way they ping around like their legs are made of springs, just for the fun of it. I love it!

User Profile: Mahad2804
Mahad2804 July 21st, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful

Mary's little lamb always makes me smile as well

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User Profile: SunShineAlwaysGrateful
SunShineAlwaysGrateful July 21st, 2023

Cuties 💕💕💕💕💕

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Clio9876 OP July 22nd, 2023

@Mahad2804

So many great submissions here ! 🐑

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 July 20th, 2023

@Clio9876

Seal technique, woah learned something new today! 🦭

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Clio9876 OP July 21st, 2023

@trueconfidant123

Yay! Beautiful seal pup. 🦭

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User Profile: Mahad2804
Mahad2804 July 21st, 2023

@Clio9876

omg this is such a cute idea!!!

Here's my seal image

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Wishing everyone a great day!

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User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 OP July 22nd, 2023

@Mahad2804

Thanks for your exceedingly cute addition.

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User Profile: VioletNotes
VioletNotes July 21st, 2023

Aww, I just can't be annoyed with these cute faces ♡ I'm going to be using this 😛1000001502_1689962304.png

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Clio9876 OP July 22nd, 2023

@VioletNotes

Those deep liquid eyes!

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User Profile: Gettingbettertoday
Gettingbettertoday July 21st, 2023

@Clio9876

As cute as that seal is it does not even come close. My anger runs deep.

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 July 21st, 2023

@Gettingbettertoday ohhh yes, that IS a deep thought.

I am wondering, do any of the cute pictures distract you for a moment?

Or do they not change your perspective at all?

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User Profile: Gettingbettertoday
Gettingbettertoday July 21st, 2023

@purplelady568


I recognize them as cute. I don't have an emotional response as result to it.


All my better qualities died years ago, drowned in alcohol.

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 July 21st, 2023

@Gettingbettertoday well, I'm glad you can admit that you had problems with alcohol. However, I'm sure you still possess better qualities. I can think of one - honesty. What else can you think of?

User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 OP July 22nd, 2023

@Gettingbettertoday

Can I add another positive quality? I see the emotional intelligence you have that allows you to recognise your deep seated anger. And the courage to acknowledge it on a forum. Your anger is valid. Most people I've met are more driven by anger than they want to admit (myself included) and I'm always impressed when I meet someone who has taken the step to recognise their anger.

Best wishes in reclaiming what alcohol took from you.

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User Profile: GlenM
GlenM July 21st, 2023

@Clio9876 haha very clever!

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Clio9876 OP July 22nd, 2023

@GlenM

Thanks. I'll forward the compliment on to my mentor.

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User Profile: tiamishere
tiamishere July 21st, 2023

@Clio9876

Omg that's so adorable thanks dor sharing this

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Clio9876 OP July 22nd, 2023

@tiamishere

You're welcome 😊

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User Profile: HenryDeacon
HenryDeacon August 2nd, 2023

@Clio9876

he is very cute


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Clio9876 OP August 4th, 2023

@HenryDeacon

Isn’t he just! So glad you agree.

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User Profile: Hope
Hope August 2nd, 2023

@Clio9876

I love this! What a unique technique

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User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 OP August 4th, 2023

@Hope

Cool!. Im glad you liked it. There's nothing better than a bit of humour to go with a whole load of cuteness.

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