Should I Stop Sharing The Deep Stuff?

@jesusredeemedme2425 too much, too much, who's measuring? I'll tell you what you are, besides kind, compassionate, brave, etc etc- you, Kiara, are our friend. You are someone quite a few teenies on here look up to- i know i do!- and someone who is willing to struggle alone so that they arent "too much". Dont stop on our account- its your posting the "deep stuff" that helped me gather the courage to make my own "Im slipping" post (one which, i regret to say, i cant bring myself to open again). But i took a step, and youre taking your own steps, and thats not too much, thats as it should be. So share what you want/need to share, and we'll be here 🤷‍♀️🤍

@jesusredeemedme2425 you can share whatever you feel like and it's not too much ❤️ I'm sure this will encourage others wanting to share their feelings too 🤍 you're not alone ❤️ You're Awesome! 🐾❤️

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@jesusredeemedme2425 I feel that way too. But so far people have only responded to me with love so im just grateful

Over here you can share whatever you want. In fact it will make you feel better. Plus you're an amazing person and very sweet and kind. If you're too much then we need too many people like you❤️

@jesusredeemedme2425

Why be here if you need to pretend and you cannot be honest, we have to meet you where you are genuinely at, that's the only way we can support and love you 🥰💜

Ill give you my perspective sweet one.

Look, sharing your thoughts, feelings, perspectives, dreams and desires is a good think,. But at the same time, every single good thing in our lives turn in to bad things easily. Why?, because over sharing without a Purpose leads to pathological loop. That's why we need to know how and when share something. Ask yourself questions, why I wanna share this? What I need? Vent? Find another perspective? Or I'm just sharing for the seek of it? I'm founding s solution?.

Talking and sharing my life with you and with the community here or my family not always was a good thing. Some day I'm feeling great with the mood of share some though or feelings, later I find myself feeling horrible, other days completely the opposite. That's when I realized why, because without a perpuse nothing leads to a good way.

What do you thing about it?

I hope you feeling at least a little better. I send you a hug.

@jesusredeemedme2425
Hi I was stumbling around and saw your post. I also read the 💜 replies 😁 and it answered my own questions as well as see the community here as supportive ( as I read it used to be) yet seems to be so now!
I'm going through a bunch of changes and trying to be strong and do it myself too ( as not to burden others but be supportive. I think 🤔 we forget to " Do what it takes to take care of ourselves/yourself". A Ballet 🩰 teacher used to say that at class a few years ago and it makes sense 😸!
I have a hard time following it too. Maybe because I grew up in the baby boomers' age. A lot of misplaced guilt was put on children then. " Children should be seen and not heard" a favorite quote for the time. 

If there were memes then,it would be a popular one!

I use humor to cover up the pain sometimes. 

Anyway just my thoughts 🤔 💭!

Have a blessed day 🙏 ☯️😸.

@jesusredeemedme2425 Keep sharing, that's what this site is for :)

@jesusredeemedme2425 You're Kiara, am I right? I've been reading your posts and you've been going through a lot. Write me whenever you want. You're not too much. God bless.

-Grace