(TW) What's the worst thing someone ever said to you?
Answer this however you'd like! I added the TW because I feel this thread might contain triggering or disturbing responses, so I'm putting it out there just in case! 💗
Although I can think of many things, I'll start with this: "The warmth in my heart is not there anymore. I know it's an a(censored)hole thing to say, but you deserve the truth.", Bonus: "I don't love you anymore. To me, you're not even significant or important, so why should I pretend to care for any longer? I only put up with you because I thought you would stop with this whole "abuser" nonsense. You're worse than him because at least he has an audience... and you don't."
That's technically two things, but it still works!
@lovingCat6978
he has an audience? I didn’t understand this … so the abuser with the audience is more important than the other without audience ?
Probably when my mom says here comes my "drama", or that i'm being dramatic, it's really painful
My mother telling me she wished she never had me when i got upset about something small at 8 years old, and my father making uncomfortable/sexual comment of me growing up. And an ex telling me i have a black heart and soul for not forgiving them.
My dad yelled at me “ he doesn’t love you”!!! When I was practically begging my x husband to care …. I was pregnant and he was out with another girl. She actually answered his phone . It hurt like *** but I guess I was pissing him off by not understanding that he really didn’t love me
@lovingCat6978
”you did it to yourself, pull yourself together” like I know I got myself into this situation, but it’s hard to hear that from others :/
@lovingCat6978
“All You think about is yourself”
“You’re an ***”
@lovingCat6978
“Youre worth nothing”, “You’re so annoying shut up”, “Go ky-”, “shut up nobody likes you”. 👍🏻👍🏻
it's not fair for anybody to say that, I'm really sorry. it always hurts to hear, but I promise it's not true. you matter to the people on here <3
@lolorye89
Thank you sm!
@lovingCat6978
My husband of 20 years helped me clean my embarrassing hoard in my bedroom, then told me "I don't want a long term relationship with you." After 20 years.
@lovingCat6978
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"Why you are living until now , you should di.e "actually members here told me that alot
really? I'm so sorry, this is supposed to be a place for support and community, nothing like that. please, if anybody says that to you or anybody else on here, report them. it's never okay for that to be said to anybody. please realize that it isn't true and noby has any say in how you live. please keep going, and hopefully you can find some people that are more caring and mature ð©·
@lolorye89
Yeah unfortunately that was totally real,and the first I didn't believe that I thought it was bad joke or some kind of bad prank ( even so that's can't consider any of it tbh , actually there is no reason for someone to say something mean like this )..
Its okay lolorye don't worry about that,I reported them, because I didn't want them to hurt others by their attitude .
Oh thank you so much for your kindness, and I am sorry if my words make you feel sad or bothered..
no it's totally okay!! it's just too bad that people still say that on here. good job reporting them, and your right, it's never fine to say that to someone. have a nice rest of your day tho <3
@lolorye89
Ohh thank you so much for your kindness,warmth words 💕 I appreciate that
You too 😊 😊
