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Before vs After 7 Cups... what changed in you??? 💗

User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat April 14th

When we first arrive at 7 Cups, we’re not the same person we are today, right?? ❤️ Some of us came here feeling lost, overwhelmed, unheard… or just quietly carrying too much??


💌 Maybe you didn’t know how to open up.

💌 Maybe you trusted too easily… or not at all.

💌 Maybe you were just trying to get through one more day.


But hey, time passes… conversations happen… n something shifts.

So take a moment n look back 😊

Who were you when you first joined? n who are you now?? ❤️ No need to make it perfect. Just be real. 🤗

Question:

What has changed in you since being here?

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 14th

@AiluraTheCat

I wasn’t aware of much of what I was going through. Cups gave me answers to the questions I was too afraid to ask. It helped me channel my hurt and gave me a listening ear when I needed one. That’s how I got into listening. This is my way of giving back to this wonderful community. 
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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 15th

@trueconfidant123

This is so beautiful, I can relate this 💓 thank you so much for being here, offering safe place 😊 

Hugs 🤗


User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 15th

@AiluraTheCat

My pleasure 😊💗

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User Profile: Butterfly723389
Butterfly723389 April 14th

@AiluraTheCat I became more honest. 7Cups helped me learning to talk or write about my feelings even when it’s uncomfortable. I noticed I’m not starting to cry that often anymore when I open up to people n I’m less afraid of it ☺️ That’s making communication way easier :)

Hehe, nice thread 💓

Hugs 🤗

🦋🐈 <3

User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 15th

@Butterfly723389

Beautiful 😊, I'm so glad that you find ur way here sweetie!! ❤️ I can relate with u btw <3, You always bring smile to my face 😊

(🐈🦋) <3 🤗 

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User Profile: GlenM
GlenM April 14th

What a great and thoughtful post. When I think of 7 Cups, I think of the community and how it has impacted me. Here are the main ways:

-I trust more now. I used to think I mostly had to figure things out on my own. I do not think that any longer. 

-I didn't really understand the mechanics of how a big group of people can work together to do good. I had an idea, but I didn't know how it worked. 

-The absolute goodness/beauty/generosity in other people. It is there and alive and ready; we just have to tap into it in the right way in order for it to grow and help others.

-That, with support, I can overcome a lot more - a lot more - challenges than I realized. 

User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 15th

@GlenM

Aww (⁠*⁠˘⁠︶⁠˘⁠*⁠)⁠.⁠。⁠*⁠♡, this is so beautiful n very much true, GlenM 😊...!! Thank you so much for sharing this with us <3 💗

*Hugs* 🤗 

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User Profile: FaithMonk9473
FaithMonk9473 April 14th

@AiluraTheCat

I remember the condition I was in when I googled and found 7 cups. Chose my username to manifest hope that everything will become better.

I received the much needed support of people that time whole day I used to be in 7 cups. All time support was needed. 

I come here to gather support. Because people here understands without me explaining much. 

I always appreciate the guided sessions. Feeling of being understood and supported comes naturally to make things easier in real life. 

I can recognize the gradual change that has come through the support. I feel strengthen by thought that I have few people to back me up emotionally whenever I feel weak. A place is there where I can come running whenever feeling distressed. A surity inside mind that I will get someone who will listen and won't judge. 

7 cups came to life, accepted me the way I am and stayed..   

User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 15th

@FaithMonk9473

Wow, how beautifully u wrote ❤️...!! Amazing...!! Thank you so much for sharing, monk 😊 so glad to hear that 7cups n ppls here being ur emotional support ❤️ 

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FaithMonk9473 April 17th

@AiluraTheCat

Yes Ailura.. This is my rescue place. I just come here for that I know that I'll get desired support and understanding people.  This place is part of my life now.. 

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AiluraTheCat OP April 18th

@FaithMonk9473

This is so much relatable <3 happy to know that 7cups giving you right support as u need 😊 *Hugs* 


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When I joined 7 Cups, I was just figuring out that I was Soulfully A Butterfly - had just started my academic journey towards psychology.

7 Cups was a home with like-minded people; it was my river.

My experiences in this community have helped me become a more confident person who is not afraid to voice creativity and advocate for what matters and I am grateful to be part of this mission every day. I cannot imagine a life without knowing this space anymore.

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AiluraTheCat OP April 15th

@SoulfullyAButterfly

Wow ヾ⁠(⁠*⁠’⁠O⁠’⁠*⁠)⁠/, that was beautifully written 😊...!! I can relate most of this ❤️...!! I'm so glad to have you here with us 😊 

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User Profile: forcefulBeach451
forcefulBeach451 April 14th

I felt lost, abandoned, worthless, like nobody could ever like me, appreciate me, or even care about me, I wouldn't talk to anyone, I would live every day alone, thinking about all the past friends who left me, while since I joined cups, I've got to know so many awesome people that helped and still help me so much, they made me go through all this, and now I kind of feel part of a family

When I join a chatroom, they all greet me nicely, ask how my day was, but with genuine care and interest, when they compliment me or when they're kind to me in general, I feel just like everyone else, I don't feel wrong or weird anymore, I don't feel abandoned anymore

Cups is seriously helping me so much

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AiluraTheCat OP April 15th

@forcefulBeach451

You resonate so much of me 😊...!! I can completely relate this, i see myself in u honestly 💓 I've been going through so much alone, no one's been there for me when i needed, i had never spent my day without sheding tears, no friends like I've been lifeless living my life but after been to cups... This place magically changed everything, i won't say that my problem are vanished away... It's still exist but now it's all different, I'm stronger, wiser, I've my Ppl's here who support me during my hard phase, I've got Ppl's who greet me, who genuinely happy for me, who love my presence, 7cups helped me see through what I am actually are, what i am capable of, how strong I am. I can't imagine myself without 7cups in my life now 😊❤️ 

This so beautiful ❤️, thank you so much for sharing, being part of this community, we are so glad to have u here with us 💗😊

Hugs 💗 

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User Profile: TerryReal2907
TerryReal2907 April 14th

@AiluraTheCat true 

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AiluraTheCat OP April 15th

@TerryReal2907

🤗💗

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter April 14th

@AiluraTheCat i feel somehow wiser now 😅

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AiluraTheCat OP April 15th

@hopefulencounter

Same here xD 🤗❤️ thank you for sharing (⁠✿⁠^⁠‿⁠^⁠)

Hugs 🤗 

User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 15th

@hopefulencounter

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AiluraTheCat OP April 15th

@trueconfidant123

😂😂

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User Profile: PoliteOcean
PoliteOcean April 15th

@AiluraTheCat

As a Listener, I feel that I’ve definitely become a much better “Communicator” with others.. Both Here @Cups, as well IRL. 

And it also helped me so very much during a very uncertain period in my life. 

After 11years of being here, I can’t imagine not having Cups in my life in some way?! 

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AiluraTheCat OP April 15th

@PoliteOcean

Honestly this is amazing 🤗, you just beautifully written it... We are so grateful to have u here with us, polite 😊. Thank you so much for sharing this with ❤️

Hugs 🤗 

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melissaggg April 15th

@AiluraTheCat