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🍋LDP Ice-breaker Tea-time with kindLemonade🍋

User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade June 5th, 2021

Welcome to our LDP's Saturday tea-time . I'm your host Lemonade and all of the LDP trainees & subscribers are offered free iced tea here heart

Let's break some ice to add to that hot hot tea!

heartQuestions:

1) If you could could bring one food/drink with an unlimited amount to a deserted island, what would you bring? Remember, you can bring one item only but with infinite quantity.

2) Are you more of a coffee or a tea person?

heartRules:

- Answer to the questions above.

- Tag one awesome listener and ask them to answer the questions!

✨Pokecup, I choose you: @richuyulin @ouiCherie @anotherfrenchtoastclub @Star996 @Fristo @MilaTheListener @Unique73 @alwaysindigo @SparkyGizmo @theriverissinging @Happy900

Fun graph news:

*Warning - please don't take any information below as facts!*

The pie chart shows how people would react in tough discussions. It is clear that the smallest fraction of less than 10% of the whole population would dare to say what they mean. On the contrary, the majority chooses to stealthily change the subject. This popular choice amounts up to almost two thirds of our citizens's total preferences. Whereas more than a quarter of the world residents "kind of" says what they mean.

*Bonus Ice-breaker : What would you do in a hard conversation?*

Extra lemonade milkshakes for anyone who answers the bonus question.

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User Profile: Happy900
Happy900 June 5th, 2021

@kindLemonade I would reach out to peer support or chat support, if I felt it was needed.

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User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade OP June 5th, 2021

Good answer, Happy. Thanks for answering the bonus question. Ding ding dong! Check out the ice breaker above also if you have time, too ✨😁❤️💖

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User Profile: Happy900
Happy900 June 5th, 2021

@kindLemonade I am both.

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User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade OP June 5th, 2021

Extra leomande milkshakes for you 😍🍼

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User Profile: Happy900
Happy900 June 5th, 2021

I tag @KindSoul10 to answer @kindLemonade questions

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User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade OP June 5th, 2021

@Happy900

yayyyyy heartheartheartyes thanks Happy

User Profile: kindSoul10
kindSoul10 June 5th, 2021

@Happy900 thanks for tagging me.

1) If you could could bring one food/drink with an unlimited amount to a deserted island, what would you bring? Remember, you can bring one item only but with infinite quantity.

noodles.

2) Are you more of a coffee or a tea person?

Tea.

*Bonus Ice-breaker : What would you do in a hard conversation?*

Exercising mindfulness to how I'm feeling.

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User Profile: kindSoul10
kindSoul10 June 5th, 2021

Tagging @gentlesun78

User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade OP June 6th, 2021

@kindSoul10

I love noodle too, yum yum. what kind do you like? I can eat all kind, spaghetti , ramen, egg noodles and all that jazz!

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User Profile: theriverissinging
theriverissinging June 5th, 2021

@kindLemonade Hello hello! *Sips that awesome tea*

Time to break some ice! laugh

1] I'd most definitely bring chips! Chips are looovveee wink

2] Both!

Bonus question : I think I'd do the hard part, which according to me is, say what I mean! Values and morals are the most important part of a conversation or relationship to me! I don't compromise with those usually teehee

Aaannnddd you're awesome kind! heart

Tagging @DigitalKnight

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User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade OP June 5th, 2021

@theriverissinging

hahaaaa, *passing those chips*!! heart

I love your answer to the bonus question, river. It shows strong boundary and ethics, such an inner strength you have in there winkyes

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User Profile: ouiCherie
ouiCherie June 5th, 2021

@kindLemonade

1. Fresh water

2. Coffee + milk and no sugar

In a hard conversation:

Generally: Stop. Take a step back. Observe. Proceed mindfully

Additionally on 7Cups: Use CS service if still want to continue with the conversation regardless the situation. Use PS service afterwards if needed.

Nice check-n post Lemo 💜 Would love to know your answers for the questions 😊

User Profile: Star996
Star996 June 5th, 2021

@kindLemonade

First, WOW, this is such a cool post! Now my answers (drum rolls)

1) I HAVE NO IDEA. I am a foodie oh my god, this is a disaster for a foodie like me! cryingcryingcrying

2) I am more of a coffee person, but I wanna try out tea too, so who knows, maybe I become both of them in the future? cheekysurprisewink

3) I would think of it as a challenge, and try to help them as best as I can!

I don't know if I can choose you, Lem, if I could, then @kindLemonade. If not, then, THERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE.

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User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade OP June 5th, 2021

@Star996

O.m.g Star, your answers brought laughter to my day, I love it! Thank you for your enthusiasm and positive energy. I'm sorry to make you choose one food hahaa! xD

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User Profile: Star996
Star996 June 5th, 2021

@kindLemonade

XD You are awesome! SMILE MORE! laughwink

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User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade OP June 5th, 2021

@ouiCherie here is my answers

1. I would bring lemon of course hahaaaaaaa!

2. I'm also more of a coffee person although I love drinking tea too. I enjoy my coffee with no sugar, either blak coffee or with plain milk, both are tasty.

Bonus question: In a tough conversation, If I can still be patient with clear thinking, I will try to empathize with the other's opinions and convey what I have in mind. However, If I feel like I have reached my limit and need a time-out, I would ask for a short break and ask to reschedule for another chat in the future. In this scenerio, I will try to be as specific as I can about the arranged time/date for a chat.

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User Profile: ouiCherie
ouiCherie June 5th, 2021

@kindLemonade a complete wonderful option for Bonus Question! Love it 💜 so... lemon 😂👍🏻

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User Profile: SparkyGizmo
SparkyGizmo June 5th, 2021

@kindLemonade

Hi Lem! smiley Thank you for the great forum post and the tag! heart

1. I would have to bring bottled water. On a deserted island, even though there is a water source, I would have to always boil the the water before drinking if the water isn't what is considered to be from a fresh water source. That sure would make life easier to have bottled water! No looking for wood, no looking for ways to create fire, no looking to find an appropriate vessel to boil the water in.

2.I kind of think I'm both. I like coffee in the a.m. but tea can be nice all through out the day.

Bonus question: Wasn't sure if this was to be a real life scenario or here for our chats on 7 cups. Either way, answer for me would be the same. I don't take the path of least resistance that would be, of course, changing the subject. I would not be included in the 90% and for me that is never going to be an option. The only time I see changing the subect, as an option, is when I am here on 7 cups in a chat and a member is being inappropriate. Certain steps I must go through and certain efforts I must make to try and get the chat back onto something more healthy and something that is allowed on the site. And even if it starts off as something inappropriate, there are ways to ask questions, kind of stay on the orginal topic a bit and drill down deep and ask questions related to the original inappropriate question that they asked. Are you feeling lonely? Do you feel isolated? Are you finding it difficult to meet people of the opposite or same sex, whatever that preference may be and why, etc. Just one example.

Tagging an awesome listener @lueurspace heartsmileyyes

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User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade OP June 5th, 2021

@SparkyGizmo

wow, again I'm blown away by your vivid answer. You clearly take your time to reply with calmness. Your answer to the bonus question is very thoughtful and throughout. I also love how you clearly explain the importance of bottled waters on a deserted island too! wink

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User Profile: SparkyGizmo
SparkyGizmo June 5th, 2021

@kindLemonade

*high fives* and big *hugs* heart

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User Profile: MilaTheListener
MilaTheListener June 5th, 2021

Aawww Lemonade, thanks for the tag, I love theae ice breakers, such a refreshment! Haha 1. I would choose to have a smoothie called "Helou". In Arabic, helou stands for "sweet" and that smoothie is heaven: it contains strawberries, berries and banana. Definitely my favourite one. 🤭 2. I am such a coffee person! Coffee, coffee, moreee coffee please always hahah 3. Hard conversations are challenging, here and in rl. I guess I would not ignore them, I would try my best to participate and engage as much as I can, of course, depends on the topic (if it's something sensitive or triggering I would maybe be limited with responses but that does not mean I would leave a person hanging) Aaaaaand now waiting for some extra lemonadeeeeee milkshake hehe Tagging @magicalSarah, @communitymodCharlie @Starmedia @lueurspace @lou73 ❤️

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User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade OP June 5th, 2021

@MilaTheListener

"Helou" sounds so tasteyyyyy and a healthy drink, too! I love a good berries + banana combination! As usual, your answer reflects how you also repsonds as a host/ room supporters during a tough chats too. So responsible and caring, 7cups is lucky to have you! heartlaugh

User Profile: MagicalSarah
MagicalSarah June 5th, 2021

@MilaTheListener

Milaaa.. Thanks for tagging me! I will try to answer @kindLemonade's questions then 😁

1) If I could bring one food/drink with an unlimited amount to a deserted island, I would bring Chocolate Minty Mousse with boba pearls, red beans, and nata de coco! Yaaay!! 🥳🥳🥳

2) Are you more of a coffee or a tea person? I'm a coffee person but I like it sweet (just like me 😋)

I'm tagging these cool newbie listeners to join the fun:

@ABubble @colourfulLion8896 @Emonotemo @JustOneMoreEpisode @SidSmile @Soul2soul @TheGlobe21 @theriverissinging

*Bonus Ice-breaker: What do I do in a hard conversation? I say what I mean with honesty because honesty is the best policy! Now, give me my extra lemonade milkshakes, Lemonade! 😍😍😍

Stay magical y'all,

Sarah @--;----

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User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade OP June 5th, 2021

@MagicalSarah

"Chocolate Minty Mousse with boba pearls, red beans"

I had to look this up on google Sarah! it looks delishhhhh heart Thank you for dropping by and tagging sooo many awesome friends along laugh

And here is your lemonade milkshakes:

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User Profile: Starmedia
Starmedia June 19th, 2021

@MilaTheListener

Wonderful answer, Mila. Smiling with smiling eyes I would say 1. Lemonade 2. Tea (I really like coffee too. I would choose both if possible but since I am drinking tea more since few weeks I will choose tea for now).

Thank you for tagging, Mila! Red heart I am a bit slow in forum responses, hope you understand!

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User Profile: alwaysindigo
alwaysindigo June 5th, 2021

@kindLemonade

Hey hey there Lem, thanks so much for the tag! It seems ive been summoned to break some ice 💛

No worries, ive got my ice pick on hand haha.

Q.1 Honestly I would probably choose seasoned French fries, because yes. Who doesn't want unlimited spicy potatoes?

Q.2 Ahaha well, ask anyone I know and they'll probably tell you I spend wayyyy too much money on coffee {theyre not wrong}, but I do loveee tea as well {especially lemon!}.

Bonus for slushiesssss!

I would contact PS/CS, depending on which one is more appropriate.

Amazing post by the way, keep it up! Tagging the wonderful @ifyouknowtocountcountwithme

*sending hugsss*

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User Profile: kindLemonade
kindLemonade OP June 5th, 2021

@alwaysindigo

ooooh, yum yum - chomping on those spicey potatoes laugh

I think your answer shows a lot of professionalism ! Contacting a chat supporter for on-going chat and peer supporter for when the chat is ended is great approaches. Kudoes to our quality listener wink

@alwaysindigo aaw hugss

@alwaysindigo

1) If you could could bring one food/drink with an unlimited amount to a deserted island, what would you bring? Remember, you can bring one item only but with infinite quantity.

I think pasta with veggies =)

2) Are you more of a coffee or a tea person?

I am more of a coffee person. I love cappuccino.

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