Positive Environment
Birds of a feather REALLY do flock together.
Do you feel that you connect with enough positive and supportive people (irl or online)?
If not, what are things you could do to get more uplifting people in your life?
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Hello everyone 😇!! Im Oasis.....
I would like to answer the above questions....
Yeah !! I m really feeling that i m connecting with more positive, supportive, encouraging, experienced guys and bruh here !!
Joining 7cups has added up the positivity and friendship in my life ✨😌...
Hope everyone is having great time 🌟
@freshOasis7877
I'm so glad that 7cups brings more positivity into your life too! Same here btw 
@freshOasis7877
This is so great to hear from you... it makes the community better and more supportive and for you to feel that it is adding positivity into your life is amazing as well.
We're glad that you're here.
@amiablePeace77
Do you feel that you connect with enough positive and supportive people (irl or online)?
I do feel like I have started to connect with more positive and supoportive people in my life lately, particaluarly online. I am not quite where I want to be yet, but I am already making improvements in this area.
If not, what are things you could do to get more uplifting people in your life?
I am going to try and reach out more often to my sisters, and to my friends on a regular basis. It can be hard beacuse of social anxiety, but the benefits are well worth it.
@resourcefulPond1641
Sorry to hear you're struggling with social anxiety, I can only imagine how scary it might feel to you to reach out to others but nice that you want to face it by getting in regular contact with your siblings and friends!
@resourcefulPond1641
Hey, this is so good to hear that you feel that you started to connect with positive people ... this is awsome, and the fact that you're still not where you want to be yet but you are taking steps to improve what you want is even more amazing .
Congratulations.
I'm sorry to hear about the social anxiety and i can imagine that sometimes it can be difficult to open-up to others , but the fact that you are willing to face it is great...
@KACOSMIC
Thank you for your kind words!
I think I'm lucky to be surrounded by positive and supportive people, but I need to get another therapist to help me in more pragmatic ways with my problems!
@betterchoices
Nice that you have supportive people around you. I hope you find that therapist soon, getting the right guidance can make a big difference.
Oh yes I am drawn to positive people by and large. Indeed Birds of the same feathers flock together. Also it is about Merging of Energy and Law of Attraction. The few #notrightforme stay only a brief while in my life.
@RideaRainbow
I LOVE what you wrote!
I 100% agree that is is about the energy you put out and attract - Law of Attraction.
I tend to gravitate toward positive energy people as well and let the ones that drag me down go...
it's all about what is right for your highest good <3
Absolutely...!!! I have felt such an instant connection at such unusual places, airport, trips, even on the internet, so there is really no holding back. Leaves me overwhelmed each time and very often I have bonds for life. Even here on 7cups.
Very interesting topic you have brought up.
@RideaRainbow
yeah, i think that some ppl are here to meet eachother - to learn and to teach - to grow and further evolve.
And we know these people instantly bc of such a pull or draw to another, irl, internet, strangers, ect...
i think of it as little blessings when i meet people like that and feel pulled to there energy and prescense.
like lil miracles. :)
Oh of course. That's exactly the the way I feel and take it... You put it very well.
@blissedNblessed
Nice that you look for those who help you to grow !
@blissedNblessed
I love all that you wrote and 100% agree.
@RideaRainbow
Good thinking of letting go of those who do not support you!
@RideaRainbow
I loved what you said about the Law of Attraction....
I totally believe in it and it does works.
@amiablePeace77 For me I'm foruntate to have some people in my life that are there for me and feel supported through mindfulness content too when I find it difficult to relax.
@GoldenRuleJG
Great that you have irl and online support!
@amiablePeace77, Definitely! 7 Cups is such a supportive environment and I really enjoy being a part of this wonderful community!!! ❤️
@Nerdtastic
Nice Nerdtastic, I can relate to your feeling
Do you feel that you connect with enough positive and supportive people (irl or online)?
If not, what are things you could do to get more uplifting people in your life?
The people that I like to surround myself with - my soul tribe, arepositive , good vibing people.
Though - a lot of my friends DO have a tendancy to spend a lot of time talking about whats going on with them and little time for me ( #EmpathProblems)
I have put up boundaries, talk about myself - if it is not well recieved ( bc the roles are chaging and i no longer will be the one to give and give with little in return) I make sure to now say to them how i feel about whats going on and ask them why they can not have time for me needs s well.
I can say, the ones that can not be there for me have fallen to the side and my really good friends have stepped up!
And as far as being of a positive mindset - i make sure to surround myself with good energy/positve outlooks! I refuse to drain my energy unessesarily or be bogged down when i personally work so hard to keep a good positive mindset.
@blissedNblessed
You've come a long way! There was surely pain on your way but the understanding you achieved to work on and protect your positive mindset will pay out in future.
@amiablePeace77
you can do all you can do to be around positive people, but we cannot control others or life, even if we want to or wish to. It is good to see how some people really are and what they are about so you know to not engage with them. Evenyone has things in their life going on. It is sad when others assume things and make judgements for others, and create what they think is positivity and control, but, they are onlly passing their own judgements on to others. Peace can be achieved in life in many different ways
@BlueBirdPIllow
I agree, we cannot control other just our own responses and making assumptions can lead to bad outcomes.
@amiablePeace77 Do you feel that you connect with enough positive and supportive people (irl or online)?
If not, what are things you could do to get more uplifting people in your life?
Attend guided discussions - very supportive. https://www.7cups.com/forum/50OverCommunity_193/TeamToolsandTeamUpdates_1705/50plusDiscussionsScheduleandTopics_207920/
@soulsings
Thanks for posting the link!
I feel like I have a few supportive people in my life. I think finding people online or meeting people with similar intrests may help you find more people who may support you. Also, knowing what support looks like may help you identify who is being supportive towards you. Talking to people on the 7 cups forums helped me feel better and gain more confidence communicating to people online especially during the lockdown.
@Harmony8682
Nice that the forum is a place which gives you comfort and increases your confidence Harmony.