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What’s One Lesson Pain Taught You?

User Profile: SoulHeaven
SoulHeaven July 1st, 2025

Pain often teaches us the strongest lessons. What did a difficult moment teach you that no textbook ever could?

I’ve learnt the art of forgiveness. 💛

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 July 1st, 2025

@SoulHeaven

There are so many things and many stories about them 

I think many people may think they know something but that item is driven into us by pain or events that cause pain. 

I learned most things are not always how they look on surface so do not compare or trust without verifying.   When you can reach out instead of waiting for any other to call first....  time does not always heal but instead creates distance.    

No one but ourselves is keeping score... if they are it is based on their ideas and memory not reality     forgiving is freedom 

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User Profile: SoulHeaven
SoulHeaven OP July 1st, 2025

@toughTiger6481 thanks for sharing valuable thoughts. Your right that forgiveness is sometimes taken for granted but I’ve also learned that before forgiving i must realise them that this forgiveness is for the 1st and the last time. If same situation reoccured then the consequences will be very different. So now I ensure my forgiveness isn’t taken for granted. 

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User Profile: peachThinker662
peachThinker662 July 6th, 2025

As much books as I have read on it. Parenting. You don’t know what your child will specifically need or what phone call you are going to get. All the right words to say. 

Another thing in life I have dealt with with out knowledge is grief. It’S whole ball of mixed emotions. No one call tell you how to feel. 

And feelings are just that. They come and go. 

User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy July 6th, 2025

@SoulHeaven that problems are inevitable. Can't run away from them as long as there is life. At least we can be kind to ourselves.. appreciate all the good we do with whatever we know ....

User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 6th, 2025

@SoulHeaven pain taught me:

Resilience.

Gratitude.

Not to take things for granted.

Real love.

Forgiveness.

Strength.

That I'm more capaithen I ever thought possible!

To cherish the good days.

That it doesn't last forever 💜 

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 6th, 2025

@Amanda84That I'm more capable then I ever thought possible!

User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle July 9th, 2025

@Amanda84

I really like the selfless things that your hardships and pain has taught you. I truly believe these things lead to a much deeper healing that makes us stronger with a quiet type of strength. 🤗 Congrats.

What does capaithen mean? *I'm more capaithen I ever thought... *

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 9th, 2025

@IsayUncle id like to saying it's an intelligent Latin word I threw in for fun, but it was meant to say capable 😁

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle July 9th, 2025

@Amanda84

LOL Between us, being more capaithen than we thought is a wonderful thing!

It's good to remind ourselves and others that we are capable and I'm glad you feel that way. Tha's great.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 10th, 2025

@IsayUncle thank you 🥰

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User Profile: adrjust1
adrjust1 July 7th, 2025

It taught me how to really live with my heart and care!! Sometimes I care to much bout the wrong people but it’s a lesson learn and it teaches me to see the good in the bad in every person don’t judge anyone

User Profile: adrjust1
adrjust1 July 7th, 2025

It taught me how to really live with my heart and care!! Sometimes I care to much bout the wrong people but it’s a lesson learn and it teaches me to see the good in the bad in every person don’t judge anyone

User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat March 13th

@SoulHeaven

Pain taught me why it's better to choose love over hatred ❤️ 

Thank you for the amazing post ❤️..!! you're awesome ❤️

Hugs 🤗 

I want you to motivate me , can you ?

I want you to motivate me , can you ?