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What's in your coping tool box?

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 January 26th, 2025

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Name 5 items or more you put into your coping skill toolbox (physical items or mindfulness techniques) 😊


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User Profile: Zeraphim
Zeraphim January 27th, 2025

A journal and pen
A crisis plan and list of crisis contacts/ resources
A collection of inspiring thoughts, philosophy, mental health tools, etc. - collected in a book
A device for making calls, distracting, listening to music, guided meditations, audio books
A few treats for the senses. Snacks, tea, scented items, skin care, string lights, sparkly items, things which feel good to touch/ hold/ be wrapped in, previously mentioned music/ videos/ distractions.

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 27th, 2025

@Zeraphim

Wow, that is great😊

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP January 27th, 2025

@Zeraphim

That's a great coping tool box! I like the variety!

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 27th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

Name 5 items you put into your coping skill toolbox (physical items or mindfulness techniques) 😊

1. Lots of Prayer

2. Patience

3 Breathe and count to 10

4. Redirect my thoughts

5. Journal

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP January 27th, 2025

@WorkingitThrough2

Prayers can be very grounding!

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User Profile: stormieandpaws
stormieandpaws January 27th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

bible

journal and colored pens

meditations

music

things we can hold like stuffied  animals, smooth rocks, and few other different  texture  things

paints and things to paint on

we know that 6 but we not sure can not have all in it as each of them help us

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP January 27th, 2025

@stormieandpaws

I just edited to 5 items or more! 😃 The more coping skills the better!

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User Profile: stormieandpaws
stormieandpaws January 27th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

thank great a old counselor we had long time ago. had us use a shoe-box and make a tool box of things for copping. it was a great help for many in a group we used to have online. within one we made was candy suckers seeing we have DID they was great for the younger ones and the very young ones we had ring-pops for.

we also had in it key chains with little stuffed animals on for when not at home. so we did not seem childish carrying a bigger one around.

so maybe others would like to try this idea we kelp it in a backpack bag so we had it when out.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 27th, 2025

@amiablePeace77 🤔🤔

1) stress balls to throw at people who stress me out😁 (and a few darts just incase I'm really stressed😇)

2) some pedals to attach to my wheelchair (just in case my arms get tired) 

3) a spoon (cause you never have when you need a icecream break)

4) my unicorn mayo. Mayo neighs. (Because he can fly, so you never know when he'll come in handy)

5) a book on how to start growing up and become mature😁❤

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP January 27th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11

Awesome box tiny but I am a little concerned about the darts! 😮 I promise I will never stress you out too much lol

I love that you keep your humor alive and spread it here around! 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 28th, 2025

@amiablePeace77 😁😁😁 thankyou ❤❤ I promise never to use the darts on you ❤😁

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings January 28th, 2025

Tiny here are some tips I need to be more mature https://www.wikihow.com/Be-Mature sharing if you care to read



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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 28th, 2025

@soulsings ok thanks soul ❤

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 28th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 the link is not working😕

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings January 29th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 try this https://www.wikihow.com/Be-Mature

Sorry tiny hope that works


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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 29th, 2025

@soulsings thankyou ❤

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings January 30th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 by the way you are already mature beyond your years - keep on supporting others like you do. 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 30th, 2025

@soulsings ❤❤ thankyou ❤❤

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User Profile: courageouspanda2006
courageouspanda2006 January 28th, 2025

Note to self. Purchase stress balls. SEVERAL.

Thanks @Tinywhisper11 😁

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 28th, 2025

@courageouspanda2006 😂😂😂 yep! Stress balls are awsome😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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User Profile: Admirablerainbow2825
Admirablerainbow2825 January 27th, 2025

1. Journal

2. Pen

3. Skipping rope

4. Colorful markers

5. Crocheting yarn

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP January 27th, 2025

@Admirablerainbow2825

Nice! I read somewhere that skipping boosts feel good hormones! 😀

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User Profile: Nate715
Nate715 January 27th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

my 2 colorful bead kits, star beads, charms, string, and alphabet beads for kandi making (honestly really calming to make)

comic/graphic novel books - i struggle reading long books but them too can be great :)

alcohol markers my mother got me for christmas, i drew katie killjoy today from hazbin hotel 

my earbuds, wireless earbuds, and wireless headphones

and relaxing :-)

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP January 27th, 2025

@Nate715

Great! I just learned something new from you and that's alcohol markers! 🙏

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul January 27th, 2025

Journal/pen

chocolate 

music

stuffie

breathing techniques 

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP January 27th, 2025

@mytwistedsoul

Stuffies can be wonderful grounding tools! 

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown January 27th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

Name 5 items you put into your coping skill toolbox (physical items or mindfulness techniques) 😊

1. Journaling

2. Music

3. My inner self

4. Meditation 

5. This community of friends here (you know who you are)

In no particular order. Just named them as they come to me. Doesn’t matter what number they’re at. They’re all equally important. I have more but it was said to name 5 so yeah. 

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP January 27th, 2025

@akunknown

Sorry about having limited it to 5, I just realized the error and corrected it to 5 or more!

I love that you put your inner self into the coping toolbox as well. It feels like the most important coping "Tool" we actually have! 😉

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown January 27th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

Hey my friend, nothing to apologize for! Just to be clear, I was simply just saying that I had more tools than 5 but since it was 5 I just named the 5 that came to my head as they got there. 

No error that needed to be corrected. I loved that you chose 5 bc it got people to really think about it imo. 

But since you already changed it to 5 or more, there’s definitely benefits to that too. 

Great thread created yet again so thanks so much! 

Hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ which is also one of my other tools along with love by the way :)

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown January 27th, 2025

@akunknown

And yes I agree with you that our inner selves are the most important coping tool we have. But that’s if we practice self care and keep ourselves healthy and everything. Here’s hoping everyone here does that and motivates the rest of society to. 

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP January 27th, 2025

@akunknown

No coping tools box without safe hugs! 😀 👍

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings January 27th, 2025

Rest

wake up

Listen

Act responsibly

See things as they are


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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP January 27th, 2025

@soulsings

Getting a clear picture is crucial for many situations!

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User Profile: thoughtfulmomma
thoughtfulmomma January 28th, 2025

Everyone has amazing tools and I’m definitely adding to my toolbox!


I like to keep pictures of places that make me feel calm and happy in my box (or videos on my phone). That way I can mentally revisit them when I need a break.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP January 28th, 2025

@thoughtfulmomma

Pictures and videos are great ways to relieve good moments or just be remembered of loved ones!

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