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Lurkers Unite! Do you regularly lurk in the chatrooms, forums or feed? - Come say hi & share what you have learned as a 7 Cups lurker!!

User Profile: Laura
Laura January 18th, 2018

We know you are out there!! Lurkers come say hi!!!!

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User Profile: debojyoti012
debojyoti012 January 18th, 2018

@laura i have learned how to manage emotions, how to talk, and most important think how i boost my confidence

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User Profile: MarshmaIIows
MarshmaIIows January 18th, 2018

@debojyoti012 Sounds like you're going through your progress path pretty well, good luck in the future <3

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User Profile: vivelespatates
vivelespatates January 18th, 2018

@Laura hey sorry for the delay in my reply, i was lurking

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User Profile: SmileyPower
SmileyPower January 18th, 2018

@vivelespatates

😂😂 love that!

User Profile: Voidy00
Voidy00 January 18th, 2018

@vivelespatates lol

User Profile: RumpleSteeleSkin
RumpleSteeleSkin January 19th, 2018

@vivelespatates

V-I-V-E

Potato GIF

Come back to us...focus on the potatooooooooooooooooooooooooooooheart

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User Profile: 400
400 January 20th, 2018

@RumpleSteeleSkin hey where'd u get that vid of me

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User Profile: Isha
Isha January 19th, 2018

@vivelespatates hahaha this is great xD

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User Profile: Sody
Sody January 18th, 2018

@Laura

hiding GIF

please don't make me come out...........cryingno

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User Profile: conscientiousPineapple1782
conscientiousPineapple1782 January 18th, 2018

@Sody

haha

hi there laugh/

;)

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User Profile: Sody
Sody January 18th, 2018

@conscientiousPineapple1782

Hi Pineappleheart

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User Profile: WendyBird15
WendyBird15 January 18th, 2018

@Sody I love this :D

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User Profile: Sody
Sody January 18th, 2018

@WendyBird15

Hi Wendy I thought Laura get a giggle outta itcheeky Plus I see other little animals too!

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User Profile: RumpleSteeleSkin
RumpleSteeleSkin January 19th, 2018

@Sody

Sody come out and at least peek out and say hismileyheart

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User Profile: RaCat
RaCat January 18th, 2018

@Laura I like the idea! We have so many people who just lurk so it is a great chance to see who they are and get to know them more!

I personallly sometimes tends to lurk in group support rooms because it is interesting to see what people are talking there, especially when you are not in a mood to be active in conversation but also don't want to be alone cheeky

User Profile: Sody
Sody January 18th, 2018

@Laura

Laura thank you for this post. It's a good way to get the "lurkers" to feel more comfy and safe to say more then "hi" I think as a lurker I am in many of members rooms I don't know about "learning" per say, more so OBSERVING are these things...........

1. Watch how mods/listeners act with the members in rooms

2. See how mods/listeners handle themselves when the room needs to refocus-naughtinesssurprise

3. If some or certain members are truly supportive

4. I learn if people think I stinksurprisesurprise

5. I observe certain discussions I might like to join, are they interesting, are they using facts, how do mods/listeners interact

6. I observe if members in that room ignore other members

7. Is it a compassionate room or a hateful room

8. Sometimes I lurk when Im mentally hurting inside and crying, or feeling alone, stressed, feeling alone but really don't wanna be a part of something

Laura I do hope this helps. But maybe "learnt" can become "what do you observe" cause that is what lurkers do. I do hope this data improves for member rooms as I don't use my member account due to rooms are naughty, or mods wanna warn me alot and idk what I done, to much hate.

Lets work together with the lurkerssmileyheart

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User Profile: CandidSomething
CandidSomething January 19th, 2018

@Sody compassion corner isn't hateful room lol. Be cheerful is the aim of that group bcz it's an appreciation n gratitude group chat ;)

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User Profile: Sody
Sody January 19th, 2018

@CandidSomething

Hi Candid-hmmm I have no bad words for CC as I am a member in that room alot. I feel I belong there at times. I get respected at a different level there. But alot of times I just lurk,feeling weird emotions just lurking-watching-listening. And CC has some awesome people in there and are supportive. Yes naughty too-lol but just a place I feel I belong-

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User Profile: MelanieDaniels63
MelanieDaniels63 January 18th, 2018

What's up to all the lurkers out there! #Ilurkeredbefore

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User Profile: MarshmaIIows
MarshmaIIows January 18th, 2018

@MelanieDaniels63 Aw cute <3

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January 18th, 2018

@Laura

Tfw you've been lurking and your best frendo finally comes into the room

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User Profile: RumpleSteeleSkin
RumpleSteeleSkin January 18th, 2018

@Llamonade

LMAO- so cute but truecheekyheart

User Profile: Isha
Isha January 19th, 2018

@Llamonade omg Sam. Absolutely perfect xD

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January 19th, 2018

@Isha

I feel that way when I see you frendo <3

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User Profile: Isha
Isha January 20th, 2018

@Llamonade aww same Sam same. It's like an instant "SAMMMMM" haha. This post is really adorable, been staring at it lol.

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User Profile: softParadise20
softParadise20 January 18th, 2018

I don't know but it feels good to sit and watch people taking .

User Profile: MarshmaIIows
MarshmaIIows January 18th, 2018

Forums and Feed definitely

User Profile: Voidy00
Voidy00 January 18th, 2018

I lurk because I feel overwhelmed, and yet I care about everyone going through these things so instead of responding I send out hearts.... :-/

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User Profile: Sody
Sody January 19th, 2018

@celestialvoid

Cele still you are doing something with community-little steps I sayheart

User Profile: Feeniqx
Feeniqx January 19th, 2018

@celestialvoid I do the same! You are not alone.

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