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User Profile: SoulfullyAButterfly
SoulfullyAButterfly September 12th, 2025

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Many people quietly struggle with the ups and downs of IVF, fertility treatments, or the emotions that come with trying to grow their family. It can be a deeply personal journey, often filled with hope, stress, and uncertainty.

Have you or someone close to you experienced this journey? We would love to hear from you and support you through this journey.

This is a safe space to begin exploring this topic so we can all connect and begin to share more resources and care for those on this journey. 

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User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy September 12th, 2025

Thats a great post. I recently posted a few threads related to fertility. I hope there is a good response to it.

@SoulfullyAButterfly

User Profile: ScorpiaD
ScorpiaD September 12th, 2025

@SoulfullyAButterfly

Someone close to me went through this experience. My sister. She and her husband had been trying to conceive for six years. To make a long story short, her doctor told her after years of trying that conceiving her own child wasn't possible. So, she went through the IVF process (which took for what felt like forever).

Then, on May 29th, 2024, my beautiful niece, Dani, was born. She is now 1 year old and a total mischief maker! 😁

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 September 13th, 2025

@ScorpiaD


Awww! <3

User Profile: moonwitgirl
moonwitgirl September 14th, 2025

@ScorpiaD

Congratulations & god bless the newly turned family of 3 <3

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User Profile: courageousPup5706
courageousPup5706 September 12th, 2025

My wife and I are also going through this journey. Though we are still in our first year of trying. So hoping for no complications to arise. Please pray for us. 

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 September 12th, 2025

@courageousPup5706

Praying for you and your wife daily, for all of your dreams to come through! 💜

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User Profile: courageousPup5706
courageousPup5706 September 13th, 2025

Thanks a lot @Amanda84 so kind of you to do this! Really means a lot for us.

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User Profile: moonwitgirl
moonwitgirl September 14th, 2025

@courageousPup5706

 May you be blessed with all the courage and patience needed in this auspicious journey with a positive end result

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User Profile: courageousPup5706
courageousPup5706 September 14th, 2025

Thank you so much @hardworkingKite6195

It really means a lot! 🙏🙏

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User Profile: Ivy229
Ivy229 September 12th, 2025

@SoulfullyAButterfly


Thank you for bringing attention to such a sensitive topic—one that many struggle to speak about. Creating a safe, supportive space for those affected is incredibly meaningful, and it allows people to open up, connect, and find comfort in knowing they’re not alone.

I’ve personally been impacted by this issue, and I want others to know I’m here if anyone ever needs someone to talk to. Please don’t hesitate to reach out. Just send me a message—no pressure, no judgment.

To everyone navigating this experience: I’m sending you light and love. I hope you find the strength and resources to heal and reclaim the parts of life this can so deeply affect. ❤️

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User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy September 14th, 2025

@Ivy229 can we chat? I want to know more about ivf. Im considering egg freezing. And have no clue what to expect. The doctors are so relaxed about it but listening to people's stories is reveals way more.

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User Profile: lightPlane1064
lightPlane1064 September 13th, 2025

@SoulfullyAButterfly

I think this is an interesting topic. I would love to learn more about what the process is like and because it is deeply personal, I understand why so many would choose to be silent. I haven't had children, although a few cousins have struggled getting pregnant and one lost her baby. Something I am going through is secondary amenorrhea. Have any women experienced infertility due to this cause? Any advice on how to get menstruation back, or stories about what caused it? It's typically associated with stress or an ED, but I know there's more that can cause a period to stop, so I'm curious if anybody has struggled with it too.

User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 September 13th, 2025

I really like this post, not because I can personally relate to it, but it discusses a topic that falls under the radar, but that people struggle with. <3 Can we get more posts like these? About things that are lesser discussed but greatly needed? <3

User Profile: sssarahtonin
sssarahtonin September 14th, 2025

Hey, I’m coco. My wife and I have been together for seven years. Financially it’s been a struggle due to my health. We’re getting older and I’m scared we might just say “someday” until we look back at 50 or 60 and realize we can’t raise kids at that age. Not fully. We tried fostering but I couldn’t emotionally part with a child coming into our home, potentially being ours and then they’re gone.

User Profile: moonwitgirl
moonwitgirl September 14th, 2025

@SoulfullyAButterfly

First of all, thank you for this thread.

Reading the comments i can tell this was am much needed topic to be introduced and discussed on. Previously i came across @Creamyyy 's thread and we had a convo going there.

I honestly regret not knowing and not bothering to learn much about IVF, about the process, success rate and all the pros and cons in my younger years. I used to think, if nothing works out we'll resort to IVF and we'll be good. But it's nothing as simple as it sounds.

I will share my story too. But today, my heart feels a little heavy and my mind is overly restless. I have a retrieval tomorrow. Its a an overwhelming one as i lost one good follicle during the stimulation process and i'm scared to deat* about losing the remaining ones before retrieval.

So, wish me luck for tomorrow. And i'm glad to be a part of this thread.

Thank you once again Soul <3

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User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy September 14th, 2025

My prayers are with you... who is meant to arrive will be there.. the universe will conspire in your favor god willing ❤️

@hardworkingKite6195

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User Profile: moonwitgirl
moonwitgirl September 14th, 2025

@Creamyyy

Appreciate your kind words and prayers <3 .. I'm praying too. There's a tiny ray of hope lighting up my soul despite the storm that i'm going through.

I hope everyone here finds something positive to take away from sharing their story :)

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User Profile: InsightfulPhoenix
InsightfulPhoenix September 15th, 2025

@SoulfullyAButterfly

Thank you for sharing this conversation starter, and I appreciate your compassion to those who have been struggling with IVF

User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 September 17th, 2025

@SoulfullyAButterfly

Thank you for this post. 

Yes. My sister is law was able to finally conceive through IVF after a decade of trying to conceive naturally. We are all super elated and can't wait to meet the little one.